Day 26: Seeing Yourself Through Someone Else's Eyes

Day 26: Seeing Yourself Through Someone Else's Eyes

Nine years ago, my friend Rebecca wrote me a letter that I've never forgotten. Today, I finally read it out loud—and let's just say there were a few tears along the way. In this episode, I reflect on what it feels like to see yourself through someone else's eyes, share the hilarious story behind Rebecca's infamous "cow tongue" comment, and talk about why the people we surround ourselves with can change the direction of our lives. I also share my first impressions of Empty Your Backpack by Sam Demma, a book that's reminding me how important it is to invest in relationships that encourage, challenge, and inspire us. Sometimes the greatest gift isn't advice...it's having someone who truly sees the best in you. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2613605/support]

Day 25: Some Rewards Take Years

Sometimes the best podcast topics aren't planned—they find you. Today begins with another beautiful letter from my dear friend Rebecca, whose words have been inspiring this special sponsored series. As I reflected on her message, I couldn't help but think about a conversation I had earlier today with a young couple looking for parenting advice. Funny how life works that way. A letter written years ago and a simple conversation today somehow found each other, leading me to think about what we leave behind, the people we shape, and how our perspective changes with time. This episode is about legacy, family, and one of the greatest blessings that often isn't fully understood until years later. I hope it gives you something to think about. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2613605/support]

Day 24: Sometimes I Just Hit Record

Today's episode is a collection of real-life moments—from an unexpected visit with my granddaughter to preparing for surgery, growing my marketing business, and getting ready to welcome our new parish priest for dinner. Along the way, I share another beautiful love letter from Rebecca's 2017 project and tell a funny story about preparing every room in the house for a priestly blessing. Sometimes the best conversations are simply whatever is on your heart that day. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2613605/support]

Day 23: When Gratitude Brings You Back to the People You Love

Some memories arrive when you least expect them. Today I continue sharing another one of Rebecca Conklin Klieboemer's beautiful "love letters" from February 2017. This one was written to her sister, Melissa, and as I read it aloud, I realized something that had somehow escaped me all these years—we both have sisters named Melissa. That simple realization opened the door to memories of my own sister, who passed away after years of struggling with mental illness. I found myself remembering who she was before life became so difficult, wondering what she might have been like today, and feeling grateful for the time we did have together. I also share a simple moment from my weekend that reminded me how much life has changed. Floating peacefully in the pool, talking with God, and reflecting on His faithfulness, I realized just how far I've come from a season of constant stress and worry. Sometimes healing isn't loud. Sometimes it looks like quiet gratitude, peaceful moments, and trusting God with the things we can't control. Thank you for spending a few unedited minutes with me today. If this episode encourages you, please consider following the podcast, sharing it with a friend, or leaving a review. Your support means more than you know. ♥️ This episode is proudly sponsored by Rebecca Conklin Klieboemer, whose generosity helps keep 10 Unedited Minutes with Marlena on the air. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2613605/support]

Day 22: Be Kind...It Really Is That Simple

Some conversations aren't planned...they simply unfold. Today begins with another beautiful love letter from my dear friend Rebecca—a reminder of the incredible impact one person can have on another—before taking an unexpected turn through everyday life. From witnessing a frightening moment at the local pool, to an incredibly kind cashier at Meijer, to reflecting on social media, today's conversation is a reminder that every interaction matters. And because life always has a way of keeping things interesting, I also share the story of the tiny mouse that decided to move into our house overnight. If today's episode leaves you with one takeaway, let it be this: Kindness costs nothing...but it can mean everything to someone else. Thank you to Rebecca for sponsoring this special podcast series and believing in this little dream. Your friendship, encouragement, and unwavering belief in this podcast continue to inspire me every single day. As always, thank you for spending 10 unedited minutes with me. Until next time...choose kindness. ♥️ Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2613605/support]