Wendy’s Story: Rare Cancer, Deep Trust and Self-Advocacy

Patricia's Story: How Creativity Helps People Heal Through Cancer

Patricia shares how her own cancer diagnosis in her early 30s changed the way she understood healing, fear and the need for support. Diagnosed with uterine cancer at a young age, she remembers feeling overwhelmed by uncertainty, including questions about fertility, relationships and her future. In the absence of formal support groups, she turned to what felt natural to her: writing, doodling, breathwork, visualization and creative reflection. That personal practice eventually grew into Create to Heal, the core program of the Women’s Wings Foundation. Through her work with cancer patients, caregivers and health care providers, Patricia has seen how creative expression can help people process emotions, communicate their needs, connect with others and recognize their own strength. She describes creativity not as a “nice to have,” but as a meaningful tool that supports the emotional, spiritual and mental sides of healing. Throughout the conversation, Patricia reflects on gratitude, humor, silence, faith, community and the small moments that help people keep moving forward. She shares stories of patients who used creativity to find joy, make meaning and leave something behind for others. The episode closes with a simple breathing and writing exercise, offering listeners a practical way to quiet their minds, notice what rises to the surface and begin turning emotion into expression.

Steven’s Story: Finding Strength After Medullary Thyroid Cancer

Steven’s story begins with a chance conversation that changed the course of his health. After reconnecting with a friend who survived a sudden cardiac arrest, Steven decided to schedule routine cardiology tests. His heart checked out well, but the exam revealed an incidental thyroid nodule. What seemed like a small, low-risk finding eventually led to a diagnosis of medullary thyroid cancer, setting off a period of uncertainty, scans, surgery and emotional shock. Throughout the conversation, Steven reflects honestly on what it means to live with cancer as part of his daily reality. He describes the weight of hearing the word “cancer,” the difficulty of waiting for answers and the challenge of explaining such a personal experience to the people closest to him. He also shares how yoga, breathwork, walking with his dog and focusing on the present moment helped him build physical and emotional resilience after surgery. One of the most meaningful threads in Steven’s story is his commitment to self-advocacy. He encourages others to stay focused on their own case, avoid spiraling through online comparisons and lean on trusted medical professionals. His message is grounded in gratitude, not because the experience was easy, but because it gave him a deeper appreciation for early detection, family support and the importance of taking an active role in one’s own health.

Mahadi’s Story: Patient Voices & the Future of Head and Neck Cancer Care

In this episode, I spoke with Dr. Mahadi Baig, a medical oncologist and oncology leader whose work focuses on advancing research for people with recurrent and metastatic head and neck cancer. Mahadi reflected on how growing up in India shaped his understanding of cancer, access to care and the devastating impact of disease when patients do not have the support or treatment options they need. His early experiences gave him a clear sense of purpose that continues to guide his work today. Mahadi also describes how head and neck cancer can be especially challenging for patients and caregivers. Because these cancers can affect speaking, swallowing, breathing, eating and appearance, the physical and emotional toll can be significant. He discusses the promise of more personalized treatment, the importance of understanding tumor biology and the need to bring scientific advances to patients in ways that are practical, timely and centered on what matters most to them. Throughout the conversation, Mahadi returns to the power of patient voices. He shares why listening to patients and caregivers helps researchers, clinicians and advocacy organizations better understand the real-life impact of cancer, beyond the science. His message to patients is clear and reassuring: take things one step at a time, ask questions, lean on your care team and remember that you are the expert on your own experience.

Yesenia’s Story: If Something Feels Wrong, Keep Pushing for Answers

When Symptoms Are Dismissed as Anxiety Yesenia shares how her thyroid cancer journey began with symptoms that felt alarming but were repeatedly dismissed as anxiety. She describes hair loss, air hunger, mood changes, irregular periods, hot flashes and extreme fatigue, yet says multiple providers told her she was young, healthy and simply stressed. After seeking support through online thyroid communities, she learned about thyroid ultrasounds, pushed for one and eventually discovered thyroid nodules that led to surgery and a cancer diagnosis. The Toll of Not Being Believed A major theme in the conversation is the emotional toll of not being believed. Yesenia explains that her diagnosis, radioactive iodine treatment, isolation from her young son and long-term health issues left her feeling angry, overwhelmed and underprepared. She speaks candidly about the lasting physical and mental effects of treatment, including difficulty adjusting after thyroid removal, dental problems, fatigue, inflammation, brain fog and the ongoing frustration of having had to navigate much of the process on her own. Listen to Your Body & Keep Asking Questions Yesenia’s central message is the importance of self-advocacy, community and being taken seriously. She credits her mother, her son, her faith and thyroid cancer support groups with helping her through the hardest periods. She also pushes back against the phrase “good cancer,” explaining that thyroid cancer can still carry serious, lasting consequences. Her advice to others is to listen to their bodies, seek multiple opinions when something feels wrong and find people who understand what they are going through.

Wendy’s Story: Rare Cancer, Deep Trust and Self-Advocacy

A Doctor Who Felt Right Wendy opens the conversation by reflecting on a life she genuinely enjoys: retirement, travel and reading anything she can get her hands on. That sense of fullness makes what came next feel even more jarring. After noticing a small lump in her cheek, she found herself moving from doctor to doctor without real answers. One of the most interesting parts of her story is how clearly she trusted her own instincts. Even before she had a diagnosis, she knew she needed someone who would not dismiss her and that search led her to a surgeon whose kindness, honesty and attentiveness immediately stood out. Choosing Care With Intention Once Wendy learned she was facing a rare cancer connected to her parotid gland, the uncertainty of it all could have made her feel powerless. Instead, the episode keeps returning to one important insight: care is not just about expertise, it is also about trust, clarity and how a doctor makes you feel. Wendy talks about major surgery, time in the ICU, the discomfort of a trach and a wired jaw, and the difficult decision to forgo radiation after an insurance delay pushed treatment past the original window. What makes the episode especially memorable is how she frames these experiences. She does not tell her story as a string of setbacks. She tells it as a process of learning who would really stand beside her, listen to her and respect her choices. Faith, Support & Self-Advocacy The warmest moments in the episode come from Wendy’s reflections on support. She describes how deeply held she felt by her son, her sister, her church and friends praying for her from Barbados and beyond. She also shares small moments that took on huge meaning, including a nurse whose name felt like a sign that she was exactly where she needed to be. By the end, Wendy’s message feels both practical and reassuring: know your body, keep asking questions, follow your intuition and do not settle for care that leaves you feeling unseen. The episode lands on a hopeful truth that feels earned: even in a frightening and uncertain chapter, it is possible to find steadiness, speak up for yourself and move forward with grace.