The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast

I Lost All Motivation

46 min · 16 de jul de 2026
Portada del episodio I Lost All Motivation

Descripción

Ailie Suzuki was a zoologist, a conservationist, and the director of an environmental nonprofit in New Zealand. She relocated across the world to the UK with her partner Tristan and their son, sold everything they owned, and started building a property business from scratch. The adrenaline of the move carried her through. Then it stopped. The whole family got sick. The motivation disappeared. She gained weight without realising it. And she found herself in a rut she did not see coming. In this conversation, Ailie talks about what it took to come back. The micro habits that rebuilt her energy. The 20 kilograms she lost in a year. The fitness age that dropped to 20 at almost 45. The mum guilt she carried and the moment a friend told her she was terrible at asking for help. This one is for anyone who has relocated, changed careers, or stopped long enough to realise they had nothing left in the tank. And for any mother carrying everything alone who has not given herself permission to put it down. If anything in this episode landed, take The Success Hangover Scorecard to find out where your performance is costing you. breatheblueprint.com/successhangover [http://breatheblueprint.com/intro]

Comentarios

0

Sé la primera persona en comentar

¡Regístrate ahora y únete a la comunidad de The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast!

Prueba gratis

Empieza 7 días de prueba

$99 / mes después de la prueba. · Cancela cuando quieras.

  • Podcasts solo en Podimo
  • 20 horas de audiolibros al mes
  • Podcast gratuitos

Todos los episodios

28 episodios

episode I Lost All Motivation artwork

I Lost All Motivation

Ailie Suzuki was a zoologist, a conservationist, and the director of an environmental nonprofit in New Zealand. She relocated across the world to the UK with her partner Tristan and their son, sold everything they owned, and started building a property business from scratch. The adrenaline of the move carried her through. Then it stopped. The whole family got sick. The motivation disappeared. She gained weight without realising it. And she found herself in a rut she did not see coming. In this conversation, Ailie talks about what it took to come back. The micro habits that rebuilt her energy. The 20 kilograms she lost in a year. The fitness age that dropped to 20 at almost 45. The mum guilt she carried and the moment a friend told her she was terrible at asking for help. This one is for anyone who has relocated, changed careers, or stopped long enough to realise they had nothing left in the tank. And for any mother carrying everything alone who has not given herself permission to put it down. If anything in this episode landed, take The Success Hangover Scorecard to find out where your performance is costing you. breatheblueprint.com/successhangover [http://breatheblueprint.com/intro]

16 de jul de 202646 min
episode Quiet Cracking: The New Name for High-Functioning Burnout artwork

Quiet Cracking: The New Name for High-Functioning Burnout

Quiet cracking is the workplace term of 2026: still performing, still delivering, while quietly coming apart underneath. Research suggests more than half of workers recognise it in themselves, and people in this state are over six times more likely to slide into full burnout. But almost all of the coverage talks about employees. Nobody is talking about what quiet cracking looks like when you are the founder. In this episode of The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast, Katie Harvey takes the trend everyone is sharing and applies it to the person it fits best: the capable one. The business owner whose dashboard is green, whose team relies on them, and whose own system is running on less and less. You will learn why high-functioning burnout hides inside good performance, the early signals that arrive long before a crash, and why being able to cope is exactly what keeps you stuck. In this episode, you will learn: * What quiet cracking is and why the term is everywhere right now * Why founders experience it differently to employees, with no manager to notice * The difference between performing well and coping well * Early signals: relief instead of satisfaction, duty instead of desire, efficiency without presence * Why people who can handle a lot are the last to be noticed and the last to ask * What to do while you are still functioning, which is the cheapest time to act The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast is for founders, entrepreneurs and high performers who want their success to be sustainable. Hosted by Katie Harvey, author of the Amazon No.1 bestseller The Success Hangover. Take the Success Hangover Check-In. A two minute check-in that shows how your system is really coping right now, and what to focus on first: https://breatheblueprint.com/intro [https://breatheblueprint.com/intro]

9 de jul de 20267 min
episode I Just Couldn't Function artwork

I Just Couldn't Function

Rob Edmonds has been a self-employed electrician for 36 years. He runs his own business, chases his own work, does his own invoices, and carries the financial pressure that comes with nobody else paying the wages. On top of that, he is building a property portfolio. A few years ago, burnout hit him so hard he could not function for weeks. He did not know what it was. He just knew he could not move. And with no income coming in while he was down, the stress compounded and the spiral got worse. Ten months ago, Rob joined b.reathe Together. In this conversation, he talks about what has actually changed. The junk food went from four takeaways a week to one. The walks became daily. The sleep became intentional. The overthinking started to loosen. None of it happened overnight. All of it happened through micro habits. This one is for anyone who thinks burnout only happens to people in high-powered corporate jobs. It does not. It happens to the self-employed, the tradespeople, the ones carrying everything on their own shoulders. If anything in this episode landed, take The Success Hangover Scorecard to find out where your performance is costing you. breatheblueprint.com/intro [http://breatheblueprint.com/intro]

2 de jul de 202632 min
episode The Success Hangover: Why Hitting Your Goals Feels Empty artwork

The Success Hangover: Why Hitting Your Goals Feels Empty

Why do you feel empty after achieving your goals? You hit the revenue target, closed the deal, won the award, and instead of joy you felt flat, restless, or just relieved. In this episode of The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast, Katie Harvey names what you are experiencing: the success hangover. Drawing on her Amazon No.1 bestselling book The Success Hangover, Katie explains the science behind why achievement stops feeling like anything. You will learn why dopamine rewards the chase more than the win, what the arrival fallacy is, and how chronic stress quietly blunts your brain's ability to feel satisfaction at all. This is not ingratitude and it is not a mindset problem. It is physiology, and it is reversible. In this episode, you will learn: * What the success hangover is and why most high performers are living inside it without realising * Why your brain rewards anticipation more than achievement * The arrival fallacy, and why "I'll feel better when I get there" never delivers * How a chronically activated nervous system mutes both stress and joy * Why the satisfaction window gets shorter with every goal you hit * Why this is a failure of architecture, not a failure of ambition The b.reathe Blueprint Podcast is for founders, entrepreneurs and high performers who carry significant responsibility and want their success to be sustainable. Take the Success Hangover Check-In. A two minute check-in that shows how your system is really coping right now, and what to focus on first: https://breatheblueprint.com/intro [https://breatheblueprint.com/intro]

25 de jun de 20267 min
episode The Legs Are Always Kicking artwork

The Legs Are Always Kicking

Luke Green went from managing Hilton and Mercure hotels in Sheffield, Leeds and Dublin to building two property businesses, a podcast, and 50 managed properties across South Yorkshire and Derbyshire. The trigger was COVID. The fuel was a skill set he already had. The cost was everything else. Luke is honest about what the growth has taken from him. He cannot switch off. He cannot stick to the non-negotiables he sets for himself. He knows what burnout looks like because he has seen it arrive more than once, and he knows his triggers: the agitation, the unfinished tasks, the moment everyone around him starts to irritate him. In this conversation, we talk about the difference between corporate anxiety and entrepreneurial pressure, why he spent years saying yes to everything before learning that no is a complete sentence, and the gap between knowing what you need to do for yourself and actually doing it. We also talk about his business partnership with Jonny, why opposites work, and what success looks like when the goalposts have moved. This one is for anyone whose legs are always kicking underneath the surface.

18 de jun de 202633 min