Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69

Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69

What gives people the biggest "ick" in a relationship? We asked our followers... and the responses did not disappoint. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial relationship icks submitted by our audience. From bad texting habits and social media behavior to awkward personality traits, dating habits, and everyday turn-offs, we're debating which ones are fair, which ones are ridiculous, and which ones secretly bother us too. Some of these are hilarious. Some are brutally honest. And a few might make you question your own relationship habits. In this episode we discuss: * The biggest relationship icks men have * The biggest relationship icks women have * Which icks are understandable vs. overreactions * How small habits can change attraction * Our honest reactions to your anonymous submissions Whether you're dating, married, or just curious about what turns people off, this episode is full of laughs, debates, and the relationship habits people can't stop talking about. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls [https://stan.store/stephandkayls] Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls [https://link.me/thestephandkayls] Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68

We all have things we say "don't bother us"... until they slowly start changing how we feel. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the small moments, subtle behaviors, and everyday situations that people brush off—but secretly carry with them. From changes in effort and communication to social media, appreciation, jealousy, and feeling overlooked, we're unpacking the little things that quietly shape attraction, connection, and resentment over time. Sometimes it's not one big mistake that hurts a relationship—it's the small things that go unspoken for too long. In this episode we discuss: * The little things men and women pretend don't affect them * Why people hide what they're really feeling * How unspoken frustrations turn into resentment * The subtle behaviors that impact attraction and connection * Why honest communication matters before small problems become big ones If you've ever said "It's fine" when it really wasn't, this episode is for you. We're having an honest conversation about the feelings people often keep to themselves—and why those feelings matter more than we realize. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls [https://stan.store/stephandkayls] Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls [https://link.me/thestephandkayls] Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Kinks We're Curious About... But Too Nervous To Admit | Ep. 67

How do you bring up something you've always been curious about without making it awkward? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're having an honest conversation about curiosity, communication, and the bedroom conversations many couples avoid. From the fear of being judged to navigating different comfort levels and preferences, we're discussing why these topics can feel so intimidating—and why talking about them matters. Every couple is different, and intimacy isn't about having all the same interests—it's about building trust, respecting boundaries, and creating a space where both people feel comfortable being honest. In this episode we discuss: * Why people are nervous to talk about their curiosities and preferences * The difference between fantasy and real-life comfort * What happens when partners have different interests * How to have open, judgment-free conversations about intimacy * Why communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship Whether you're dating, married, or simply curious about how couples navigate these conversations, this episode is all about honesty, trust, and strengthening your connection. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls [https://stan.store/stephandkayls] Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls [https://link.me/thestephandkayls] Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Things We Secretly Test Our Partners On | Ep. 66

Have you ever "tested" your partner without them even realizing it? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're exposing the subtle ways men and women secretly test each other in relationships. Whether it's waiting to see who texts first, noticing who initiates plans, looking for reassurance without asking, or paying attention to how your partner reacts in certain situations, we're unpacking why these unspoken tests happen and what they really reveal. Most of the time, these tests aren't about playing games—they're about wanting to feel loved, appreciated, secure, and chosen. In this episode we discuss: * The relationship tests men and women secretly give * Why people look for reassurance without asking for it * The difference between healthy reassurance and unhealthy testing * What these "tests" reveal about trust, communication, and emotional needs * How to stop guessing and start communicating more openly If you've ever wondered whether your partner was testing you—or caught yourself doing it without realizing—this episode is full of honest conversations, relatable moments, and practical insights into why we seek reassurance in relationships. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls [https://stan.store/stephandkayls] Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls [https://link.me/thestephandkayls] Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Relationship Conversations We Avoid Until It's Too Late | Ep. 65

The hardest conversations in a relationship are often the ones that matter the most. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're talking about the important conversations couples tend to avoid—from feeling unappreciated and emotionally disconnected to intimacy, money, future goals, and resentment. While avoiding these discussions may feel easier in the moment, they often become the very issues that create distance over time. Healthy relationships aren't built by avoiding uncomfortable topics—they're built by having the courage to talk about them before they become bigger problems. In this episode we discuss: * The conversations couples put off for too long * Why people avoid difficult relationship topics * How small, unspoken issues grow into resentment * The role of communication in rebuilding connection * How to approach tough conversations without pushing each other away Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this episode is a reminder that honest communication isn't always easy—but it's one of the strongest foundations for a lasting relationship. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls [https://stan.store/stephandkayls] Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls [https://link.me/thestephandkayls] Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.