The Bad Mom Podcast: Parenting The Anxious Generation
John Assaraf, behavioral neuroscience researcher and founder of NeuroGym, said something to me in this conversation that I haven't been able to stop thinking about: "In the absence of practice, we all default to our highest level of training, or lack thereof." That hit me somewhere deep. Because so many of us are parenting from our own unexamined defaults, while our kids are getting their brains hijacked by algorithms designed to keep them anxious, comparison-obsessed, and scrolling. Here's what John knows that most parents don't: emotions wire into the brain 100 times faster than logic, which means by the time a teen's prefrontal cortex even comes online, the damage from doom scrolling, social comparison, and identity erosion can already be baked in. He introduced me to his "uncommon wisdom" approach, a total reframe of how we try to reach our kids, and it's not what you think. You'll walk away knowing exactly why telling your kid what to do is neurologically guaranteed to fail, and what to do instead to actually build their identity, self-worth, and emotional resilience from the inside out. FOR FULL SHOW NOTES & TO WATCH THE VIDEO ON YOUTUBE, GO TO: badmompodcast.com/overcomefear [http://badmompodcast.com/overcomefear] KEY TAKEAWAYS: * Why the teen brain is neurologically wired to tune you out, and what's actually happening up there that explains everything * Discover John's "uncommon wisdom" strategy: the counterintuitive move that gets your kid to absorb the exact lesson you want them to learn, without a single argument * The reason emotions wire into the brain 100 times faster than logic, and why that changes everything about how you approach an anxious teen * What "down-regulating the stress circuit" actually means, and the breathing and visualization technique (mental contrasting) that eliminated his 30-year-old son's recurring challenge in just seven days * Why your kid's doomsday thinking isn't stubbornness, it's neuroscience, and how the law of polarity can gently crack that open * The Innercise methodology: how to strengthen your kid's seven neuro muscles the same way you'd strengthen a physical muscle * The brilliant question John asked his young kids that made discipline almost argument-proof, and why "people defend what they participate in" 📌 Connect with John Assaraf * Website & Neuro Fitness Assessment: https://www.myneurogym.com * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnassaraf/ * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/JohnAssaraf * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/johnassarafpage/ * Books on Amazon: * Innercise https://www.amazon.com/INNERCISE-Science-Unlock-Brains-Hidden/dp/1949001598 [https://www.amazon.com/INNERCISE-Science-Unlock-Brains-Hidden/dp/1949001598] * Having It All https://www.amazon.com/Having-All-Achieving-Lifes-Dreams/dp/141656361X/ [https://www.amazon.com/Having-All-Achieving-Lifes-Dreams/dp/141656361X/] RESOURCES & NEXT STEPS: 👉 If you’ve ever thought, “Am I doing this right?” or felt the pain of wanting to do everything but not having the tools, this episode is for you. Listen, share it with another parent who needs healing and guidance, and subscribe to The Bad Mom Podcast: Parenting The Anxious Generation. And remember: you are not a bad mom; you’re a bada$$ in a broken system. Keep fighting. 📌 Connect with Vivian Glyck & The Bad Mom Podcast: Parenting The Anxious Generation * The Bad Mom Podcast on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/badmompodcast/?hl=en] * Vivian on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/vivianglyck/?hl=en] * The Bad Mom Podcast on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61579494953451#] * The Bad Mom Podcast on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheBadMomPodcast] * The Bad Mom Podcast on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@thebadmompodcast?_t=ZT-8zmOqrATaZL&_r=1] The Bad Mom Podcast: Parenting The Anxious Generation is a Project Grit initiative: fortifying mental wellness for the next generation. Just Like My Child Foundation is a proud nonprofit partner of Project, committed to equipping today's youth with the tools they need to thrive and build a better future. For Moms Running on Empty…This Coffee Hits Different We are so excited to welcome Dave Asprey’s Danger Coffee as the first official sponsor of Project Grit and Bad Mom Podcast. The truth is that I am addicted to Danger Coffee and I won’t drink any other coffee so it’s a good thing there are so many great benefits to it! The flavor is way better than other premium brands and I get the caffeine support without the jitters. Get 10% off your next purchase here and keep Project Grit and Bad Mom Podcast afloat: https://dangercoffee.com/
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