AMM Amplified, A Conversation with Anthony "The Amp Man" Failla

Erased: Parental Alienation, Narcissistic Abuse & the Fight for Your Child

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1907533/fan_mail/new] Season 5  Episode 2 The Beard Speaks Podcast. In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat talks: Leaving a narcissistic partner is supposed to be the end of the abuse. But when children are involved… it often isn’t. In this episode, we break down the reality most people don’t talk about—what happens after you leave, when the connection becomes legal, enforced, and nearly impossible to escape. Through custody agreements, court orders, and mandated communication, many parents find themselves still entangled with someone who never operated in good faith. And while the system tells you you’re free… it also expects you to: * Stay calm * Be cooperative * Facilitate visitation * Communicate respectfully * Avoid conflict All while continuing to interact with the person who caused the harm. What We Cover: 🔹 Why narcissistic abuse doesn’t always end with distance How it often evolves into legal and psychological warfare through the family court system. 🔹 The reality of post-separation abuse From manipulation and false narratives to endless legal motions and control tactics. 🔹 Parental alienation explained What it looks like when a narcissistic parent turns your child against you—and why it’s one of the most devastating forms of emotional abuse. 🔹 The mistakes that can cost you everything Why reacting emotionally can be used against you—and how narcissists weaponize your responses. 🔹 5 strategies to protect yourself and your children: * Stay calm and grounded * Don’t badmouth the other parent * Document everything * Focus on connection over control * Get the right support and strategy The Hidden Grief No One Talks About This episode also explores the deep, often invisible grief of parental alienation: When your child is still alive… but emotionally unreachable. When the bond you built is replaced by a narrative designed to erase you. When you’re mourning a relationship that technically still exists. The Hard Truth About Family Court Family court claims to act in the “best interest of the child.” But what happens when: * Children have the smallest voice in the room * Survival behaviors are mistaken for resilience * Delays stretch harm over months—or years * “Normal” becomes whatever a child is forced to endure We ask the uncomfortable question: Are children being protected… or are they being asked to adapt to a broken system? If You’re Going Through This… You are not crazy.  You are not weak.  And you are not alone. This episode is for the parents fighting to stay grounded, protect their children, and hold onto a relationship that’s being systematically tested. Because the goal isn’t just to fight back. It’s to protect your peace, your position, and your child’s ability to one day see the truth. Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/thebeardspeakspodcast?fan_landing=true]

Frankenstein or Factory - Guitar Talk with Jason Clarke

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1907533/fan_mail/new] Season 5  Episode 1 The Beard Speaks Podcast. In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat talks with Jason Clarke of Creativity Talkin,  Pat and Jason sit down and talk guitars. Frankenstein or Factory?  Eddie Van Halen and George Lynch didn’t wait for a custom shop endorsement to change the world—they grabbed spare parts and built their own beasts. But is the "partscaster" route right for you, or is that $4,000 price tag on a top brand actually worth it? We’re breaking down the pros and cons of wielding the soldering iron versus dropping the cash  Which side are you on? #TheBuild [https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/thebuild?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZZfv9wk7Vw_z2xsqFtmUAWWXHRGY4cjNukbp5KMclKGLhifMNM-egt6pW2_d1weA7wfwImNMHdGUPLbgPG3Zzuz1x7n-P1X5RGtc0Hslk_waMJZFbSK9KsRuj_eq_WFiwY_LCr25hZ6ZaE5WISg_ODT3tCgm_-FtcLjnmxgr1iH7-IyE2a0e0dObCPXmZwHsGo&__tn__=*NK-R] or #TheBuy [https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/thebuy?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZZfv9wk7Vw_z2xsqFtmUAWWXHRGY4cjNukbp5KMclKGLhifMNM-egt6pW2_d1weA7wfwImNMHdGUPLbgPG3Zzuz1x7n-P1X5RGtc0Hslk_waMJZFbSK9KsRuj_eq_WFiwY_LCr25hZ6ZaE5WISg_ODT3tCgm_-FtcLjnmxgr1iH7-IyE2a0e0dObCPXmZwHsGo&__tn__=*NK-R]? Let us know! Check out the blog here on The Beard Speaks Blogs [http://www.thebeardspeakspodcast.com/post/frankenstein-vs-the-factory-should-you-build-your-own-guitar-or-buy-the-brand] Check out Jason on Creativity Talkin [https://www.youtube.com/@creativitytalkin8057] Music in this episode by Catalano [https://www.facebook.com/catalanoband] and The Pat Catalano Project [https://youtu.be/Uaa95FT_6xQ?si=2VWgQELEjMcLd_GU] Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness Reborn - The Pat Catalano Project  (Album) Paper Crowns Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/thebeardspeakspodcast?fan_landing=true]

AMM Amplified, A Conversation with Anthony "The Amp Man" Failla

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1907533/fan_mail/new] Season 4  Episode 11 The Beard Speaks Podcast. In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat talks with Anthony "The Amp Man" Failla From AMM Amplified, Pat and Anthony sit down and talk guitar amps and tone. How Anthony got started building and modifying guitar amps in his Chicago shop.  A locally rooted amp-mod and service center with a strong presence in the guitar community. AMM Amplified is a specialized music gear company and amplifier service shop based in Chicago, Illinois. They focus on building, servicing, modifying, and enhancing guitar and bass amplifiers and effects pedals, especially for genres like hard rock and heavy metal. Their work caters to musicians who want powerful, custom-tuned tone and performance out of their amps and pedals. AMM Amplified  [https://www.ammamplified.com/] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ammamplified/] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@ammamplifiedproductsmodsse7544] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/AMMAmplified] Telephone 773-529-1788 Address  4007 N. Broadway St.  Chicago, IL 60613  (near the corner of Irving Park Rd & Broadway) View Map [https://www.anthonyses.com/map.htm]   Email: anthonyses@hotmail.com [anthonyses@hotmail.com]  Music in this episode by Catalano [https://www.facebook.com/catalanoband] and The Pat Catalano Project [https://youtu.be/Uaa95FT_6xQ?si=2VWgQELEjMcLd_GU] Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness Reborn - The Pat Catalano Project  (Album) Paper Crowns Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/thebeardspeakspodcast?fan_landing=true]

Holiday Hijacking (Parental Alienation)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1907533/fan_mail/new] Season 4  Episode 10 The Beard Speaks Podcast. In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat talks about the most common parental alienation tactic, Holiday Hijacking, Why it happens and how it happens to parents all over the world.  Holiday hijacking in parental alienation is when one parent deliberately disrupts or sabotages the other parent's holiday time with the child by creating conflicts, scheduling competing events, or making last-minute cancellations, forcing the child to choose sides, feel guilty, and develop negative views of the targeted parent, thus undermining their relationship for the alienating parent's gain.  How it works * Conflicting Schedules: An alienating parent might schedule an important event (like a birthday party or holiday dinner) at the exact time the other parent has the child, creating a forced choice. * Sabotaging Plans: This includes last-minute "emergencies" or sudden changes to prevent scheduled visits or communication. * Emotional Manipulation: The child is put in the middle, made to feel guilty for wanting to see the other parent, or pressured to adopt the alienating parent's negative views. * Creating Division: The goal is to make the child see the targeted parent as unreliable, unsafe, or unimportant, especially during significant family times like holidays, according to this article from Simon, O'Brien, & Knapp, which is a core aim of parental alienation [https://www.amyjlbaker.com/about-parental-alienation], notes Amy J.L. Baker, PhD.  Impact on the child * Confusion & Stress: The child feels torn and caught between parents. * Damaged Relationship: It erodes the bond with the targeted parent, a classic sign of parental alienation, according to research by Amy J.L. Baker, PhD. * Skewed Perception: The child may begin to internalize the alienating parent's negative portrayal, rejecting the other parent without valid reasons.  Music in this episode by Catalano [https://www.facebook.com/catalanoband] and The Pat Catalano Project [https://youtu.be/Uaa95FT_6xQ?si=2VWgQELEjMcLd_GU] Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness The Glass Throne (Absent King) - The Pat Catalano Project  (Album) Paper Crowns Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/thebeardspeakspodcast?fan_landing=true]

Lions Raised As Lambs, A Conversation with Eric Rogell

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1907533/fan_mail/new] Season 4  Episode 9 The Beard Speaks Podcast. In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with podcast host, keynote speaker, bestselling author, Eric Rogell.  Eric has been a chef, Creative Director for print publications, sales copywriter, tech founder, and a journalist where he has traveled around the world writing about gear, tech, style, food, cars, and adventure travel for publications including Discovery.com, Men’s Fitness and more. Over his career, he has interviewed hundreds of people—from celebrities, to athletes, to entrepreneurs, to military vets—getting them to dive deep into their stories, and all the memories, lessons, challenges, and triumphs that made them the success they are today. Valuable insights that collectively paint a picture of what great leaders are made of. And how critical it is to have strong mentors to guide us along the path. Eric has made it his mission to help people become bold, inspirational mentors igniting motivation, vision, and purpose in your teams and your relationships, both at work and at home. Contact Eric on his website EricRogell.com [https://ericrogell.com/] Get connected with Eric LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericrogell/] Join the Challenge   The Lion Heart Challenge  [https://thelionheartchallenge.com/] Get His Book here   Lions raised as Lambs [https://lionsraisedaslambs.com/] Insta and X: @ericrogell  Music in this episode by Catalano [https://www.facebook.com/catalanoband]  Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness One More Time - Catalano  (Album) Into the Darkness Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/thebeardspeakspodcast?fan_landing=true]