60. Emotional Intelligence Gets Us Off! Pt. 1

63. The Art of Starting Over

Sometimes the hardest relationship to rebuild… is the one you have with yourself. In this heartfelt episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash sits down with Pegasus for an honest conversation about identity, heartbreak, healing, and what it really means to come home to yourself after life changes you. Together, they explore how endings often become invitations for growth, why the right relationships challenge us to evolve, and how the difficult work we try to avoid is often the very work that transforms us. This conversation dives into: ✨ Rebuilding your identity after a major breakup ✨ Becoming the woman you needed all along ✨ Why the right love helps us grow, even when that growth is uncomfortable ✨ Learning to pour into yourself after spending years pouring into everyone else ✨ The burden of always being “the strong one” while struggling to extend that same grace to yourself ✨ Menopause, changing seasons of womanhood, and embracing every chapter with confidence ✨ Reconnecting with yourself, your joy, and your pleasure through intentional self-care Kash also shares pieces of her own journey, reflecting on the ways love, growth, and personal transformation have reshaped her identity and challenged her to become a healthier, more authentic version of herself. Because sometimes the greatest love story isn’t about finding someone else… It’s about finding yourself again. Featured Bedroom Kandi products include: ✨ Keep Your Cool Instant Cool Down Spray ✨ Next Level Dil ✨ Illicit Black Kandi Koated Lipstick

62. Nasty Work Gets Me Off!

🎙️ Nasty Work Gets Me Off! | Episode 62 Featuring Ericka Hart This Masturbation May Intersecting with the Pride of June 🏳️‍🌈 we’re celebrating all the things that get us off… and for Ericka Hart, pleasure is far bigger than what happens in the bedroom. In Episode 62 of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash sits down with acclaimed sex educator, author, activist, and pleasure advocate Ericka Hart for a powerful conversation inspired by her new book, Nasty Work. Together, they explore what it means to reclaim pleasure, challenge shame, and navigate the intersections of identity, autonomy, sexuality, healing, and liberation. This conversation dives into: ✨ Pleasure as resistance ✨ Masturbation and self-discovery ✨ Queer identity and sexual liberation ✨ Body autonomy and consent ✨ The emotional labor of sex education ✨ Why pleasure work is necessary work ✨ Rest, joy, and softness as acts of liberation ✨ The many things that get us off beyond physical touch From personal exploration to cultural conversations, Ericka shares why pleasure is not a luxury, but an essential part of living fully and authentically. Because sometimes the nastiest work isn’t sex… It’s unlearning shame. 📖 Featuring: Ericka Hart, author of Nasty Work

61. Emotional Intelligence Gets Us Off! Pt. 2

What really gets people off once a relationship evolves? In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection. This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.” Chris opens up about the first time he discovered masturbation as a young man, how it helped him learn his body, his preferences, and the importance of understanding sensation as a man. Together, Kash and Chris discuss how masturbation changes inside relationships, the stigma around mutual masturbation, and why emotional intelligence plays such a major role in pleasure. The couple also dives into: ✨ Mutual masturbation and intimacy as a couple ✨ Learning your body before teaching someone else ✨ Men and self-pleasure conversations rarely being discussed honestly ✨ Sensitivity, lubrication, grip, and sensation preferences ✨ Why “too wet” can sometimes decrease sensation for some men ✨ Being physically attracted but mentally not in the mood ✨ Emotional safety and connection as arousal factors ✨ The evolution of desire in long-term relationships ✨ What gets people off outside of sex This episode is vulnerable, educational, hilarious, and incredibly real… exactly what happens when The Soft and The Strong sit down together. Featured Bedroom Kandi products discussed in this episode include: 💋 Sidekick 💋 Your Highness 💋 Head to Toe 💋 Heart Desires Paddle 💋 And more

60. Emotional Intelligence Gets Us Off! Pt. 1

Featuring Chris aka @big_black_supervillain What really gets people off once a relationship evolves? In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection. This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.” Chris opens up about the first time he discovered masturbation as a young man, how it helped him learn his body, his preferences, and the importance of understanding sensation as a man. Together, Kash and Chris discuss how masturbation changes inside relationships, the stigma around mutual masturbation, and why emotional intelligence plays such a major role in pleasure. The couple also dives into: ✨ Mutual masturbation and intimacy as a couple ✨ Learning your body before teaching someone else ✨ Men and self-pleasure conversations rarely being discussed honestly ✨ Sensitivity, lubrication, grip, and sensation preferences ✨ Why “too wet” can sometimes decrease sensation for some men ✨ Being physically attracted but mentally not in the mood ✨ Emotional safety and connection as arousal factors ✨ The evolution of desire in long-term relationships ✨ What gets people off outside of sex This episode is vulnerable, educational, hilarious, and incredibly real… exactly what happens when The Soft and The Strong sit down together. Featured Bedroom Kandi products discussed in this episode include: 💋 Sidekick 💋 Your Highness 💋 Head to Toe 💋 Heart Desires Paddle 💋 And more Shop • Host • Join 👉 BedroomKandi.com Follow: @YourSexologistBestie @big_black_supervillain @BusinessOfPleasurePod

59. POWER Gets Me Off! - Part 2

POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off. Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically. In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway to pleasure… power. Because for some women, it’s not just touch… It’s control. It’s confidence. It’s knowing who you are and owning it fully. Together, they unpack: • What it looks like to step into power at a young age • Building confidence before you fully feel it • The connection between dominance, control, and pleasure • First experiences with self-exploration and masturbation • Why self-touch is more than physical… it’s self-awareness • How mental and emotional stimulation can be just as powerful as physical touch • Expanding the conversation around what pleasure can look like for women This episode challenges the idea that pleasure has one path. Because sometimes… Power gets you off. ✨ Masturbation May Reminder: This month is about celebrating your pleasure, your curiosity, and your connection to self… however that shows up for you. ✨ Featured Products: • Groove Panty Vibe • Butter Me Up • Seduce Me Perfume Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… where pleasure is power.