#712: What to Do about Haters (Not Everyone Will Celebrate Your Success)

#712: What to Do about Haters (Not Everyone Will Celebrate Your Success)

You expected the hard part to be doing the work. What you probably didn't expect was what happened after. The awkward comments. The subtle distance. The people who used to cheer you on... until your dreams started becoming reality. Growth has a cost—and one of the hardest costs is realizing that not everyone will celebrate the version of you that refuses to stay small. In this episode, we're talking about why extraordinary commitment often creates unexpected tension in relationships, why your success can unintentionally trigger other people's insecurities, and how to keep growing without becoming bitter, defensive, or lonely. If you've ever wondered why people seem to support your goals... until you actually start succeeding, this conversation will help you understand what's happening—and remind you why your job isn't to make everyone comfortable. Your job is to become who you're called to become. Referenced: www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ [https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ] (Fear of Judgment Reset)  🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai [https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai] 🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 [https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24] 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/ [https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/] 🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com [https://www.collegeofconfidence.com] ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant [https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant] 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here. [https://www.trishblackwell.com/journal] RESOURCES MENTIONED: 5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5] 333 METHOD (FREE) www.trishblackwell.com/333 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/333] 90-Day Shift: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 1:1 Coaching: www.trishblackwell.com/coaching [http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching]

#711: Your Dream Life Has a Price Tag (The Life You Want Requires an Unreasonable Level of Commitment)

Have you ever looked at someone living the life you dream of and thought, "They're just different than me?" What if the real difference isn't talent, luck, confidence, or even discipline? What if it's commitment? In today's episode, we're talking about the kind of commitment that most people never see—the commitment to keep going after the excitement fades, after progress slows, after you feel discouraged, and after nobody is clapping for you. Because the truth is this: Your dream life isn't asking you to be perfect. It's asking you to stay committed. You'll learn: * Why motivation is one of the weakest predictors of success. * The difference between being interested and being truly committed. * The hidden cost of constantly starting over. * Why consistency compounds more than intensity ever will. * Five mindset shifts that make long-term commitment possible. * How to become someone who follows through—even when you don't feel like it. If you've been waiting to feel more confident before fully committing to your goals, this episode will help you realize that confidence isn't the prerequisite. Commitment is. Referenced: www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ [https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ] (Fear of Judgment Reset)  🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai [https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai] 🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 [https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24] 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/ [https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/] 🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com [https://www.collegeofconfidence.com] ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant [https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant] 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here. [https://www.trishblackwell.com/journal] RESOURCES MENTIONED: 5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5] 333 METHOD (FREE) www.trishblackwell.com/333 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/333] 90-Day Shift: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 1:1 Coaching: www.trishblackwell.com/coaching [http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching]

#710: Why You Still Don't Feel Good Enough (Even Though You've Accomplished So Much)

Have you accomplished everything you were "supposed to" — and still feel like it's not enough? You're not broken. You're a high achiever with an identity gap, not an achievement gap. In this video, I'm breaking down exactly why the feeling of enough never arrives no matter how much you do, and what to do instead. In this video: * Why high achievers are the most vulnerable to chronic not-enough-ness * The real root of imposter syndrome (it's not what you think) * The Enough Statement — and how to use it to rewire your worth * 3 practices you can start today to finally feel like enough If you've been running on the treadmill of achievement hoping the feeling will catch up — this one's for you. Referenced: www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ [https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ] (Fear of Judgment Reset)  🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai [https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai] 🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 [https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24] 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/ [https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/] 🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com [https://www.collegeofconfidence.com] ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant [https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant] 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here. [https://www.trishblackwell.com/journal] RESOURCES MENTIONED: 5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5] 333 METHOD (FREE) www.trishblackwell.com/333 [http://www.trishblackwell.com/333] 90-Day Shift: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 1:1 Coaching: www.trishblackwell.com/coaching [http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching]

#709: The Real Reason You Don't Fully Like Yourself Yet

You can be accomplished, self-aware, and still not fully like yourself — and for high achievers, that gap is more common than anyone admits. In this episode, Trish explores why so many driven women have mastered the performance of confidence while still feeling unsettled about who they actually are underneath it.   In this episode: * Why liking yourself is different from — and deeper than — confidence * The root reason high achievers develop a conditional relationship with themselves * How to tell the difference between genuinely knowing yourself vs. managing your image * The Narrative Intelligence shift that makes self-acceptance actually stick * 3 practices to build a real, lasting friendship with yourself If you're tired of working on yourself without actually liking yourself more, this one's for you. Referenced: www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ [https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ] (Fear of Judgment Reset)  🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai [https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai] 🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 [https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24] 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/ [https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/] 🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com [https://www.collegeofconfidence.com] ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant [https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant] 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here. [https://www.trishblackwell.com/journal]

#708: The Wealth Ceiling You Don't Know You Have (Wealth Mindset for High Achievers)

Most high achievers don't have a money problem. They have a wealth ceiling. They work hard. They achieve. They earn. Yet no matter how much they accomplish, they still feel pressure, insecurity, or the sense that they should be doing more. In this episode, we're talking about the invisible beliefs that limit your ability to create, receive, keep, and enjoy wealth. You'll learn the difference between scarcity mindset, abundance mindset, and true wealth mindset—and why high-achieving women often struggle with covert scarcity without even realizing it. If you've ever felt guilty wanting more, worried about what success might cost you, or found yourself constantly moving the goalposts on happiness, this episode will help you identify the hidden ceiling keeping you from the next level. Because wealth isn't just about what you earn. It's about what you believe you're allowed to receive. 🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai [https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai] 🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: www.trishblackwell.com/90day [https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day] 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 [https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24] 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/ [https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/] 🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH www.collegeofconfidence.com [https://www.collegeofconfidence.com] ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant [https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant] 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here. [https://www.trishblackwell.com/journal]