Episode 32 - Testing Kinky Tests with Surprise Guest Sir Aiden Charming

Episode 32 - Testing Kinky Tests with Surprise Guest Sir Aiden Charming

Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)?  Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous BDSM Test and compare it with another sexuality self test MojoUpgrade. While working our way into the first test we got a call from one of our favorite humans, Sir Aiden Charming [https://www.instagram.com/aiden.charming/], who joined us in the test adventure and commentary. We laugh, we cringe, we learn about ourselves and each other. This is a truncated version of our online shenanigans, while Patreon listeners have the opportunity to do the tests with us in a  2-hour long play by play, query by query recording. So buckle up for this blast from the past (we actually recorded this in the summer 2024 but Kat got overwhelmed by the editing process #spoonielife #betterlatethannever). Have you done these or other sexuality/kink tests? What did you like or dislike? Let us know if there's one you think we should take on the pod! Take the Tests! BDSMtest.org [https://BDSMtest.org] mojoupgrade.com [https://mojoupgrade.com] Other resources mentioned: Kat’s Yes/Maybe/No Kink Checklist [https://goodloveproject.com/resources] Scarleteen’s non-kink/beginner friendly Yes, No, Maybe So: Sexual Inventory Stocklist [https://www.scarleteen.com/read/relationships/yes-no-maybe-so-sexual-inventory-stocklist] Donate to them! "Mind the Gap" Underwear [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1886814282/funny-mind-the-gap-womens-briefs-novelty] designed by Kat

Episode 31 Boudoir Breakthroughs in Self Love with Nicole Nichols

We're back with a new interview episode! I invited my dear friend and metamour, Nicole Nichols, to talk about her amazing work as boudoir photographer. From creating safe spaces for women (and men!) to rediscover and celebrate their bodies to building community traditions in self love, Nicole has touched so many lives! Follow my guest: https://www.nicolenichols.com/ [https://www.nicolenichols.com/] Join the 28 Days of Self Love Challenge https://www.nicolenichols.com/self-love-challenge-win-boudoir-session [https://www.nicolenichols.com/self-love-challenge-win-boudoir-session] Follow The Good Love Project [https://linktr.ee/GoodLoveProject]

Episode 30: Kink Journeys - Sadism, Community, and Self-Discovery with Jonnyace

In this installment of of Kink Journeys, I sit down with BDSM educator and certified life coach, Jonnyace. Together, we explore the power of consent, the importance of community, and why representation for sadists matters. Jonnyace shares their path from martial arts and polyamory to kink community educator and shaped their identity as a sadist, daddy, and dominant. Honest stories. Fresh perspectives. Real kink journeys. Follow My Guest http://www.gsrmcoaching.com/ [http://www.gsrmcoaching.com/] https://fetlife.com/Jonnyace [https://fetlife.com/Jonnyace]

Episode 29: A Ministry of Freedom through Pleasure with Mistress Pain

In this episode of The Good Love Podcast, I interview the founder of Denver's House of Pleasure, Mistress Pain. Mistress Pain shares her Kink Journey from trying to 'pray the gay way' to creating spaces of erotic exploration and self expression. We also discuss her community vision focused on female pleasure and how many of us connect with sex-positive spaces as a form of ministry and fellowship. Follow My Guest House of Pleasure [https://fetlife.com/_HouseOfPleasure]

Episode 28: Hard (or not-so-hard) truths about male sexuality with SexCoachSam

In my last episode we did a deep-dive for International Female Orgasm Day, including busting through some of the many misconceptions around female sexuality. So this week, I'm bringing on my friend and colleague, Sex Coach Same, to unpack some of the inaccurate and harmful messaging around male sexuality. Whether it's misinformation from society, media or pressure we put on ourselves, we can break the cycles and Sam was happy to share to tools to do this vital self-work. Trigger Warning for discussion of sexual violence (19:45 - 30:53) Follow My Guest: https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/ [https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/] https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/ [https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/] Join us in Boulder, CO for the The Intimacy Experiment™ [https://classes.instituteforsexuality.com/tie_boulder] Workshop!