27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong

27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong

Do you know why 99% of couples find change to be stressful?  This is not because of change being inherently a stress, but because of the way we go at change and the meaning we attach to it.  The most stressful changes in married life are the changes in routine brought by the birth of a child, a death in the family, having to care for an elderly parent, change in the financial situation, retirement…and yet, even smaller change can create big conflict in everyday married life, leaving husband and wife feeling alone and disconnected from each other. In this episode we speak to how we have successfully navigate a lot of change in the past twelve months, and she with you the way you can start doing it together with your partner. From now on change can become something that brings you closer together.  If you enjoyed this episode go ahead and listen to episode 22 The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life [https://audioboom.com/posts/8915245-the-1-mindset-advice-that-will-help-problem-solving-in-everyday-married-life] Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!   If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage

26: The real enemy to everyday married life is the treadmill of routine & here is the number 1 solution

The real enemy of everyday married life is… everyday married life! The treadmill of routine we fall into as husband and wife slowly kills the joy in marriage, leading us to appreciate the positives less and less and fall into frustration with one another and life in general.  This psychological process is known as Hedonic Adaptation. This mechanism causes the initial surge of happiness we get from an event to fade over time, leading to needing a new experience to feel the joy again. Long term relationships are not immune to this. Married couples who are aware of this mechanism practice a simple solution, which is the intentional choice of focus. Fortunately bringing focus on personal growth and relationship gives more lasting and satisfying results.  In this episode we share with you the one simple solution you can apply from today so you never have to feel trapped in the everyday life routine. This solution is sure to cultivate the joy and happiness you have been wanting in your marriage. Take the He Wants She Wants Relationship Assessment now. It's FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.👇 He Wants She Wants Relationship Assessment [https://hewantsshewants.scoreapp.com] If you enjoyed this episode go ahead and listen to episode 6 The #1 Tip to Stop Fighting in Relationship - This Will Make All the Difference [https://audioboom.com/posts/8862843-the-1-tip-to-stop-fighting-in-relationship-this-will-make-all-the-difference] Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!   If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage

25: 2 things you can do to help communication with your kid and bring flow in your marriage

Do you know the impact of difficulties in communication with your children have on your marriage? Research shows that the rate of the decline in relationship satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples who have children than for those who don't. Why is that? Although there are many factors at play, struggling in communication with your kid, especially but not only when they are in their teenager years, increases the level of conflict with your spouse. It is common for at least one of the parent to have difficulties relating and connecting with their child, and even when this does not spark conflict with the partner, it is still a cause for intensity that takes time away from marital connection and fulfilment. In this episode we share two simple steps you can start taking today to help repairing the communication with your child. It is often an issue of trust, which can be resolved one step at the time. These steps can also be extremely effective in communication with your spouse, bringing deeper connection and emotional safety.  If you enjoyed listening to this episode go ahead and listen to episode 17👇 The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life’s chaos [https://audioboom.com/posts/8900440-the-secret-to-creating-a-strong-relationship-in-everyday-married-life-s-chaos] Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!   If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage

24: Standards matter: How husband and wife can unlock their best marriage by raising their standards

This SHOCKED me! Most women seem to prefer "book boyfriends" to real husbands, do you want to know why? The answer is simple... What are your standards when it comes to your relationship? Most couples have a set of standards based on what they have observed in the generation before, or on what is generally accepted, keeping the bar quite low.  Doing better than what we may have observed past generations did is a wonderful starting point. It is a great practice to feel appreciative of the efforts your partner makes, and proud of the efforts you make. However, that is just the baseline. There's much more happiness and fulfilment to be unlocked together in your marriage by raising your standards.  Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!   If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. If you enjoyed this episode listen to: Episode 19 The 3 things that will make a wife feel unhappy in her marriage [https://audioboom.com/posts/8906234-the-3-things-that-will-make-a-wife-feel-unhappy-in-her-marriage]Episode 18 The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life [https://audioboom.com/posts/8903384-the-3-lies-husbands-have-been-told-about-married-life] Follow us on Instagram @he.wants.she.wants.podcast [https://www.instagram.com/he.wants.she.wants.podcast?igsh=amZoMm5oNHJrbTd6]   Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.   #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage #everydaymarriedlife

23: Mild Vs Wild - How to keep the flame of your relationship lit up long term

Do you want to know why the fire slowly dies in most marriages?  Most couples fall into same-old-same-old routine, caught in the managing of day-to-day responsibilities that come with marriage and family. These are necessary things husband and wife need to tend to, that's true, but the risk is to lose the fire between partners, turning the marriage into what we call mild. However the couples that can access the "wild" energy inside of them keep the flame alive through the years together, unlocking deeper layers of fulfilment in their relationship. In this episode we talk about what is that "wild" that is needed to keep your love alive.  Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!   If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. If you enjoyed this episode listen to: Episode 14 5 relationship hacks to fuel the flame in your marriage this spring [https://audioboom.com/posts/8890675-5-relationship-hacks-to-fuel-the-flame-in-your-marriage-this-spring]Episode 14 YouTube [https://youtu.be/bUBKjahq_lU?si=ARhrKi8PRb-FjmfB] Follow us on Instagram @he.wants.she.wants.podcast [https://www.instagram.com/he.wants.she.wants.podcast?igsh=amZoMm5oNHJrbTd6]   Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.   #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage #everydaymarriedlife