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After Divorce? These Relationship Mistakes Will Happen Again (Unless...)

53 min · 10 de feb de 2026
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In this live conversation, we break down the real dynamics that destroy connection in relationships defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling and what actually restores trust, intimacy, and desire.Joined by psychotherapist and coach Maryanne, we explore why patterns repeat, how nervous system regulation changes everything, and what men can do to lead with clarity, responsibility, and emotional strength especially after divorce or relational breakdown.0:00 Welcome, Housekeeping & Why This Conversation Matters2:10 Introducing Maryanne + Her Work in Therapy & Coaching5:05 Healing in Relationship & Nervous System Regulation8:10 Why “Fixing” Kills Connection10:40 Opening the Room: Relationship Struggles & Desires13:30 Sex, Polarity & Emotional Safety in Relationships16:10 Defensiveness: The Libido Killer Explained18:45 The Gottman Four Horsemen Overview21:20 Criticism vs Complaint (What Actually Works)25:10 Drama Triangle: Savior, Persecutor & Victim28:40 Contempt, Sarcasm & Emotional Withdrawal32:20 Neural Pathways & Why Patterns Are Hard to Break36:10 Stonewalling vs Healthy Space40:05 Codependency, Chasing & Emotional Regulation43:45 Live Q&A: Dating After Divorce & Avoiding Misalignment48:30 Fulfillment vs Loneliness (The Hard Question)51:10 Trust, Lust & Leadership in Relationships53:00 Final Takeaways, Resources & Closing

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