18. Raw Dogging Life & Money Capacity

19. Why Business *IS* Personal

Business loves to pretend it’s logical, clean, and “not personal” until you’re the one posting the offer, hearing the no, watching something flop, and feeling your whole body react. In this episode, I’m breaking down why entrepreneurship is actually a deeply personal spiritual journey that drags your old wounds into the light, then gives you a chance to heal them for real. If you’ve ever felt a wave of shame after marketing, second-guessed your voice, or worried you’re “too much,” you’re going to want to listen to this episode. We talk about how modern selling runs on trust, relationships, and resonance, not transactionalism. From influence culture to word-of-mouth referrals, people buy when they feel safe with the person behind the offer. That’s also why visibility can trigger everything: body image, fitting in, family judgment, and the fear of being witnessed. I share how and why performative content can only take you so far, and what happens when you finally drop the mask and let the right clients find you. Then we go deeper into failure, ego, and burnout. Your ego can become a “hungry ghost,” chasing more money, more validation, and more proof, only to feel empty again.  I share what it looked like when I pushed too hard, how I recalibrated, and why inner child work, rest, play, and regulation aren’t extras, they’re the foundation for sustainable success. If you’re ready to build an online business that funds your life without consuming it, you’ll wanna give this a listen. Make sure to subscribe and share this with a friend who’s in a launch spiral, and leave a review if it helps you breathe a little easier. Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly [https://www.instagram.com/coach.with.holly/] or TikTok @coachwithholly [https://www.tiktok.com/@coachwithholly] For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com [https://coachwithholly.com/] If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT [https://calendly.com/coachwithholly/consultation] << so we can talk about working together.

18. Raw Dogging Life & Money Capacity

The most common money advice sounds responsible, but it can quietly train you to live in scarcity: cut the latte, stop buying clothes, restrict harder, repeat. We go after the deeper truth that usually gets skipped: spending is often a search for a feeling, and budgeting without emotional awareness can turn into a shame cycle that costs you more in the long run. I break down three separate skills that change everything in your personal finance psychology: saving money, spending money, and having money. “Having” is the one most of us were never taught. We talk about money capacity, why extra cash can feel like it’s “burning a hole in your pocket,” and how your first impulses reveal your values. I also share a simple but confronting exercise: imagine winning $100 million and notice what you’d do immediately. The point isn’t judgment, it’s clarity. Then we take it further with “raw dogging life,” my phrase for reducing the substances and distractions we use to avoid discomfort. When you stop numbing, you can finally hear your intuition and meet the real need underneath the impulse, whether that impulse looks like overspending, overeating, overdrinking, doom scrolling, or overworking. We also cover a practical tool for values-based spending to separate true desire from emotional avoidance. If you want more grounded money mindset, emotional regulation tools, and a values-led way to build wealth, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s one “should” around money you’re ready to unsubscribe from? Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly [https://www.instagram.com/coach.with.holly/] or TikTok @coachwithholly [https://www.tiktok.com/@coachwithholly] For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com [https://coachwithholly.com/] If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT [https://calendly.com/coachwithholly/consultation] << so we can talk about working together.

17. Ever been FUN FUMBLED?

How much joy are you actually willing to let yourself feel, and what does it reveal when you do? Fun can look frivolous from the outside, but it’s one of the fastest ways to find the truth.  After two trips to Miami in 90 days, I couldn’t ignore what that city brought out of me: more pleasure, more presence, more confidence, and a deeper sense of worthiness that had nothing to do with “earning” it. Miami becomes my backdrop for a bigger question: how much joy are you actually willing to let yourself feel, and what does it reveal when you do? We get into fun intolerance and pleasure intolerance, and why some people can be in a gorgeous place and still spiral into complaint, boredom, or discontent. I share how magnetism shows up in the smallest moments, like waiting in a line, getting delayed, or dealing with pain while still choosing to stay connected to beauty. This isn’t about pretending life is perfect. It’s about discernment, nervous system regulation, and building the capacity to hold pleasure without immediately collapsing back into negativity. Then we go to the ugly part: fun raises your standards. When you finally taste freedom, it becomes impossible to unsee what’s misaligned, including draining jobs, lopsided responsibilities, or friendships that “fun fumble” you by puncturing your joy. I also talk about being multi-dimensional without performing an identity, plus my current hyper-fixation on Bad Bunny and why his music feels like celebration, safety, and medicine when the world feels on fire. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs more joy, and leave a review so more people can find it. Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly [https://www.instagram.com/coach.with.holly/] or TikTok @coachwithholly [https://www.tiktok.com/@coachwithholly] For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com [https://coachwithholly.com/] If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT [https://calendly.com/coachwithholly/consultation] << so we can talk about working together.

16. Why I quit MANIFESTING.

White-knuckling your dreams? We’re unpacking why “try harder” or have the "right actions and thoughts" style of manifestation keeps you HAULTED, stuck, frustrated af. Subtracting noise, not adding effort, is how you allow magnetism to do it thing. Because everything you own and most choices you make are proof you are constantly manifesting, the real work is decluttering beliefs picked up from other people's trauma... stories like money is hard, relationships are rare, and creativity aka vulnerability, is unsafe.  Together, we audit those scripts, read your body’s signals for what’s true, and reject misaligned goals without explaining.  And we're start practical and tangible: curate your space, make swifter decisions, and use beauty as fuel for a thriving nervous system. TRUTH becomes the magnet. We explore the difference between grounded presence and the proving impulse that feels loud, edgy, and unhealed.  Expect tools to spot triggers as mirrors, rewrite interpretations, and choose responses that reflect your truest self—not your conditioning.  And we touch on why hyper-independence blocks receiving, and how joy functions is strategic rebellion in a heavy news cycle.  Listen and you’ll leave with clear questions to guide discernment, a fresh lens on “alignment,” and practical steps to design an environment that magnetizes the truest and most fullfilling life for you. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review. Want deeper support? Book a consult through the link in the description and let’s see if we’re a fit for one-to-one work. Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly [https://www.instagram.com/coach.with.holly/] or TikTok @coachwithholly [https://www.tiktok.com/@coachwithholly] For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com [https://coachwithholly.com/] If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT [https://calendly.com/coachwithholly/consultation] << so we can talk about working together.

15. Scarcity be GONE.

We explore how scarcity hooks the nervous system, why tight control repels opportunities, and how to practice non-attachment without losing standards. We share the “open palm” metaphor, the buyer mindset in dating and work, and why perspective is the engine of abundance. • scarcity as a survival reflex and modern trigger • non-attachment as intention without control • the sand metaphor for holding opportunities • abundance of perspectives through coaching and community • buyer mindset in dating, business, and life choices • dismantling to create space and end stagnation • support without crutches for durable autonomy • long-term transformation through repetition and reflection If this is you and you are wanting to work together, hello, sign up for a consult. Use the description below to sign up and we could talk about what would be good for you and what package might work best for you. For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coachwithholly. For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com. And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together. Use a link in my podcast description below. Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly [https://www.instagram.com/coach.with.holly/] or TikTok @coachwithholly [https://www.tiktok.com/@coachwithholly] For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com [https://coachwithholly.com/] If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT [https://calendly.com/coachwithholly/consultation] << so we can talk about working together.