32. Can A Baby Ruin Your Marriage? Surviving the Transition to New Parenthood with Therapist Eli Weinstein

32. Can A Baby Ruin Your Marriage? Surviving the Transition to New Parenthood with Therapist Eli Weinstein

Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband?My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCASTLearn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78bAbout this episode:Host Nechama Phillips interviews therapist, coach, and author Eli Weinstein about preparing for marriage and parenthood by focusing on “green flags” and practical relationship skills. They discuss how the transition from partners to parents can overwhelm identity, attention, and connection, leading to resentment unless couples learn to pivot, clarify shared direction, and put fears on the table. Eli emphasizes “treasure hunting” for positives, using gratitude and frequent “thank you” to reduce negativity and help partners feel seen, and avoiding scorekeeping or expecting to return to how things were pre-kids. For dating and marriage, they highlight green flags like listening, willingness to grow, intentional effort, healthy conflict, showing up in hard times, and direct “full communication” about needs. They also share small daily connection habits and love-language-based gestures.//CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillipsThis podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms.//Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off// SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

31. Unlock the Secret To Drama-Free Dating Decisions So You Can Stop Overthinking and Second-Guessing Yourself

Nechama tackles one of the most draining parts of dating: the exhausting decision-making after dates that leads to spiraling, overthinking, and relying too heavily on others’ opinions. She explains how women often get stuck in “premature certainty,” trying to decide their future based on too little information, which can lead to either saying yes out of anxiety or saying no too quickly using logic alone. Nechama emphasizes that the solution is building a foundation of clarity—self-knowledge, values, needs, desires, and realistic high standards—so decisions become easier and more aligned. She introduces her Ultimate Clarity Quiz, a quick after-date decision tool (for dates 1–3) that scores practical, emotional, and intuitive factors to help you reflect with confidence and stop wasting time. Download it here: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband?My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCASTLearn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

30. Our Favorite & Least Favorite Parts of Marriage (Do We Miss Being Single?) Featuring my husband Yehuda

Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama is joined by her husband Yehuda, and they get into their favorite aspects of marriage as well as what they miss about single life. They share the beauty in the containment of a committed relationship and how the fear of being tied down can hold so many back from actualizing their true potential. This episode will give you some great insights and good laughs on the transition from single to married life from the perspective of both man and woman that will impact those married, and those still dating. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsyn Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9 Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off

29. How To Stop Doubting Your Dating Decisions & Trust Yourself More

Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Single and want to join the life changing MMM program? Do so here: https://realization.thrivecart.com/mmm-program/ Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama unpacks a powerful idea for dating with clarity and ease... once you’ve made a clear, intuitive decision, much of the second-guessing that follows is fear trying to renegotiate your standards. In this episode, she explores why dating can feel so exhausting when you keep re-deciding what you already know, how that pattern erodes self-trust, and what it looks like to stay grounded in your values without becoming rigid or “too picky.” You’ll leave with a clearer way to recognize when you’re spiraling, return to your inner clarity, and make choices with more confidence and ease—so dating feels less draining and more intentional. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsyn Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9 Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

28. We Recently Started Ballroom Dancing Lessons and It Changed Our Marriage DRASTICALLY Ft. My Husband Yehuda Phillips

Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: What if a ballroom dance lesson could reveal the exact patterns that make marriage feel effortless—or tense? In this conversation, Nechama and Yehuda share how learning to dance together became a real-time metaphor for partnership: why “helpful” corrections can create more friction, how leadership has to be felt (not just intended), and what it actually takes to relax into being led without secretly controlling the outcome. They unpack the push-pull dynamic that keeps couples stuck, the role of trust and clear cues in staying connected, and why doing something imperfectly together can build confidence, closeness, and a more playful, resilient relationship. If you want practical relationship takeaways wrapped in a fun, surprising lens, this episode will resonate deeply if you're married as well as give you great perspective if you're single. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.