97: Rīhare Te Are | It Took Me 36 Years To Find My Purpose

99: Hayden Brown | The Hidden Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Life

Most people aren’t lazy. They’re running unconscious patterns they’ve never stopped to question. In this conversation with human behaviour specialist Hayden Brown, we unpack self-sabotage, emotional mastery, purpose, relationships, pain, and why so many people lose themselves chasing external success. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, emotionally disconnected, or unsure why you keep repeating the same cycle, this episode is for you.

98: Abeiku Eshun | “I Was Afraid To Be Seen”

In this episode I sit down with creative artist Abeiku Eshun. He opens up about growing up between Africa and New Zealand, the silent pressure of being the eldest sibling, and how fear of being seen shaped his identity. From losing his playfulness to navigating masculinity and self-expression, this is a raw conversation about what it really takes to stop shrinking and start owning who you are. This one’s about identity, pressure, and becoming the man you’re meant to be.

97: Rīhare Te Are | It Took Me 36 Years To Find My Purpose

Today I sit down with actor and entrepreneur Rihari Te Are. In this conversation, we break down how Richard discovered his purpose after 36 years, the moment it became clear, and that it’s not only about finding it, but also accepting it. Raised by his Kuia (grandmother), Rihari speaks on the foundation that shaped the man he is today, the power of a feedback loop, and the responsibility that comes with being a storyteller. We also dive into the reality of an actor’s life and why the landscape is shifting towards creators who are willing to own their voice. This conversation isn’t just about acting. It’s about identity, purpose, and becoming the man you’re meant to be.

96: Hercules Noble | Is Cooking a Masculine Skill?

In this episode, I sit down with private chef and content creator Hercules Noble. Herc opens up about his early life of finding his passion for food and the great relationship he has with his dad. We talk about how “will it sourdough” appeared, is cooking a masculine or feminine skill and why he wants to show more of who he is through his YouTube channel. From building a global audience to finding meaning beyond social media, this is a conversation about identity, pressure, and why we should choose excitement over fear.

95: Riz Eskerie | The Refugee Mindset That Built An Empire

Today I sit down with co founder of the largest performance car dealership company in New Zealand (RPM), Riz Eskerie. We dive into what it was like being a refugee from Kurdistan and the impact that had on him and his family. We discuss the negatives of success that nobody talks about, why he struggles to trust people now and ultimately the mindset him and his family have carried to build there empire. An honest conversation about success, money, pressure, trust and what it truly takes to win. Please like, comment or share to someone who you think needs to hear this conversation.