65. Where Are You Taking More Than You're Tending?

65. Where Are You Taking More Than You're Tending?

What happens when we take more from people than we take time to tend? In this episode, Angela and Deanna use the garden metaphor to explore transactional relationships, hidden soil work, burnout, reciprocity, and the quiet cost of always showing up only for the harvest. It’s a gentle invitation to ask: where am I taking, where am I tending, and who needs me to notice the soil? Timestamps 00:00 — Taking Is Fast, Tending Is Slow 02:25 — What Do We Take From People Without Realizing It? 04:08 — When Helpful People Become Commodities 08:02 — Showing Up for the Harvest, Missing the Tending 11:14 — Transaction or Reciprocity? The Difference Matters 15:06 — The Hidden Work: Tending the Soil of Relationships 17:33 — Is Disengagement a Form of Taking? 21:45 — Wherever You Take a Stand, Are You Also Tending? 24:39 — The Cost of Transactional Relationships 28:52 — Long-Haul Friendships and Dormant Seasons 30:04 — “I Gave, Therefore You Owe” 33:00 — Finding Joy in the Tending, Not Just the Outcome 35:00 — Reflection: Where Are You Taking More Than You’re Tending? Show Music: Just Like Me by, ThruLine The Morning Share Podcast is produced, edited, and mixed by Angela Boeckman and Deanna West. Socials Website: themorningshare.com [http://themorningshare.com] Instagram: @themorningsharepod Substack: themorningshare.substack.com [http://themorningshare.substack.com]

64. What Is The Garden Trying To Teach Us?

In this first episode of our series on tending and taking, Angela and Deanna begin in the garden—remembering family gardens, green peppers, root-bound plants, and the holy work of pulling weeds. What grows above the soil may get our attention, but this conversation reminds us that real flourishing begins with unseen investment, patience, presence, and care. As we explore wisdom expressed in humanity, we’re asking what gardens can teach us about people, community, and the difference between consuming a harvest and helping tend it. Timestamps 00:20 — New week 01:38 — Childhood garden memories 05:49 — Gardens begin before the harvest 08:06 — Intention, attention, and participation 12:18 — A watched plant never grows 17:08 — The Little Red Hen and shared labor Show Music: Just Like Me by, ThruLine The Morning Share Podcast is produced, edited, and mixed by Angela Boeckman and Deanna West. Socials Website: themorningshare.com [http://themorningshare.com] Instagram: @themorningsharepod Substack: themorningshare.substack.com [http://themorningshare.substack.com]

63. How Do We Become Good Ancestors?

What does it mean to live as a good ancestor? In this episode, we explore the difference between leaving a legacy and becoming someone whose life makes the way easier, kinder, and more whole for those who come after. We talk about influence beyond biology, the people who shaped us without needing recognition, and the quiet gifts we inherit from teachers, mentors, elders, friends, and communities. From cathedrals built over generations to sewing machines passed down with skill and memory, this conversation invites us to think beyond quick impact and ask better questions: What have I received? What am I releasing? What am I building that might last? And maybe most importantly: how can I make life better for someone else today, even in small ways? Timestamps 00:00 – The Tree We’ll Never Sit Under 02:44 – We Are Already Ancestors 04:21 – “I Don’t Have Children…” 08:13 – Thinking Long-Haul 09:26 – IKEA vs. Cathedrals 11:00 – The Cathedral Builders 12:48 – Living Between Present and Future 14:27 – Both Ancestor and Descendant 15:25 – Legacy vs. Ancestor A powerful distinction 17:27 – The Defining Question 18:07 – Gifts That Continue Giving 19:28 – Leaving Behind the Ability to Change Your Mind 20:30 – What Are You Actually Passing On? 22:06 – Practical Ways to Begin Show Music: Just Like Me by, ThruLine The Morning Share Podcast is produced, edited, and mixed by Angela Boeckman and Deanna West. Socials Website: themorningshare.com [http://themorningshare.com] Instagram: @themorningsharepod Substack: themorningshare.substack.com [http://themorningshare.substack.com]

62. Wisdom, Wounds, and Inheritance

What have you inherited—and what are you choosing to pass on? In this episode, Angela and Deanna continue their conversation about generations, exploring the wisdom, wounds, habits, and beliefs we receive from those who came before us. Through the imagery of a forest path, they reflect on the difference between information and instruction, the importance of discernment, and how every generation has something valuable to teach the others. Together, they discuss inherited strengths, family patterns, curiosity, respect across generations, and the ongoing work of deciding what to keep, heal, release, and share. Because the goal isn’t blind preservation or total rejection—it’s thoughtful participation in a story bigger than ourselves. Timestamps 00:00 – What have you inherited? 03:00 – When information becomes instruction 05:00 – Why some paths need to be rerouted 13:00 – Personal stories of inherited wisdom 18:00 – We inherit wounds, too 23:00 – What children and youth can teach us 28:00 – Respect, disagreement, and generational growth 31:55 – Becoming editors of our inheritance Show Music: Just Like Me by, ThruLine The Morning Share Podcast is produced, edited, and mixed by Angela Boeckman and Deanna West. Socials Website: themorningshare.com [http://themorningshare.com] Instagram: @themorningsharepod Substack: themorningshare.substack.com [http://themorningshare.substack.com]

61. The Footprints of Every Generation

What if one of the greatest forms of wisdom isn’t found within our own generation at all? In this episode, Angela and Deanna explore the beauty, responsibility, and necessity of living intergenerationally. From the traits we inherit from those who came before us to the gifts we’re called to pass on, they reflect on how children, youth, adults, and elders each carry something essential for the whole human story. Together, they unpack the growing reality of age segregation, the hidden cost of loneliness, and why presence may be one of the most powerful gifts we can offer one another. Through stories of grandparents, grandchildren, classrooms, communities, and life around the table, this conversation reminds us that we were never meant to journey through life only with people our own age. What wisdom have you inherited? What wisdom are you carrying forward? And who might you need to learn from next? Timestamps 00:00 - New week, new glasses, and inherited traits  04:02 - Who shaped the person you’ve become?  09:27 - What younger generations teach us  15:41 - Why teenagers are often underestimated  23:37 - Adults as bridges between generations  28:24 - The rise of age segregation  32:00 - Loneliness, community, and what’s at stake  35:06 - Real-world examples of intergenerational living  41:20 - Footprints, trails, and carrying the story forward  45:00 - One human story stretched across time Show Music: Just Like Me by, ThruLine The Morning Share Podcast is produced, edited, and mixed by Angela Boeckman and Deanna West. Socials Website: themorningshare.com [http://themorningshare.com] Instagram: @themorningsharepod Substack: themorningshare.substack.com [http://themorningshare.substack.com] Resources Mentioned Project Unlonely, [https://www.artandhealing.org/book/] by Jeremy Nobel