What Happens When You Actually Listen to Someone You Disagree With | Joe de la Cruz | Ep. 102

The Hip-Hop Entrepreneur Wearing Every Hat | Suave Ski | Ep. 105

Send a text to suggest topics you’d like to hear! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/fan_mail/new] Episode 105 of The Open Exchange — Suave Ski joins Paul in studio talking about growing up in New London, the night his parents packed his bags at 13, and the four years in Fort Worth, Texas that reset his life. We get into the cousin who first made beats in his bedroom (Milky Beats), the early Camacho days, the rebrand to Suave Ski on a sprinter van tour across Canada with Apathy, and what it actually takes to build an independent music career when nobody's writing you a check. Suave is one of those rare artists who wears every hat — rapping, filming, editing, building websites, learning AI tools like Runway, curating events under Suave Mob, and now stage-managing a 10-artist showcase at the Tetrahedral Club in Rhode Island on June 6th. We talk about why he stays loyal to New London, the identity crisis between sports and music, the Slim Thug record deal that turned out to be a scam, and the difference between happiness (fleeting) and joy (the thing you'd do every day even if it wasn't work). If you've ever felt pulled between two paths, this one's for you. 🎙️ Follow Suave Ski everywhere:  @SuaveSkiMusic [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCgl258vGFQsAF9G2QXva0Uw]  📅 Suave Mob Most Wanted — Saturday, June 6th, Tetrahedral Club, RI ▶️ Subscribe for new episodes weekly Chapters: 00:00 Welcome back — Episode 105 00:27 Andrew Camacho vs. Suave Ski: where the name came from 01:39 Touring Canada with Apathy and finding a new sound 03:02 "My parents had my bags packed" — getting sent away at 13 04:35 Fort Worth, Texas: meeting cousin Milky Beats 06:18 The full reset that changed his trajectory 07:09 Homecoming king with a northern accent 08:52 Forgiving his parents for sending him away 10:21 New London — the friends who didn't make it out 20:21 The identity crisis: soccer dreams vs. creative calling 22:11 Why he wears New London on his sleeve every chance he gets 23:14 Breaking down the "1 Million to 1" video and learning AI 25:04 The Slim Thug record deal that turned out to be a scam 48:30 Joy vs. happiness — and the five-year plan 50:43 Wearing every hat: artist, editor, web, event curation 51:00 Suave Mob Most Wanted — June 6th at the Tetrahedral Club 53:17 Where to find Suave Ski 54:02 Paul's close: Napoleon Hill and the power of definite purpose 🔗 Find The Open Exchange on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and here on YouTube #TheOpenExchange #SuaveSki #NewLondonCT #IndependentArtist #HipHopEntrepreneur #ConnecticutHipHop #PodcastInterview 🎙️ Follow Me: TikTok: @@theopenexchangepodcast Instagram: @paullyym @theopenexchangepodcast Email: Theopenexchangepodcast@gmail.com Subscribe:    / @paullyymm  🎙️ Other ways to listen: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-open-exchange-with-paul-martinez/id1733876904 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Qh1HPG7IF9vlI1Sy21gST Podcast #Conversations #PersonalDevelopment #Faith #Inspiration #StoryTelling #Podcast Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/support] 'Virtual Tip Jar' - Donate to my show to keep me going! Thank you! Paypal: https://paypal.me/PaulMartinez89?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US (PaulMartinez89) Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Paullyymm (Paullyymm)

She Got Kicked Out at 16… Now She’s Building a Brand From Nothing | Kaprece Ransaw | Ep. 104

Send a text to suggest topics you’d like to hear! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/fan_mail/new] At 16, Kaprece Ransaw got kicked out of her house. By 19, she had her real estate license. By 27, she's building Kawfee  — a mobile coffee brand born out of New England roots, late-night raves, and a stubborn refusal to climb someone else's ladder. In Episode 104 of The Open Exchange, Kaprece sits down with Paul to talk about what "figure it out" actually costs — and why the people who say it the most are usually the ones with their backs against the wall. We get into: → Getting kicked out at 16 and rebuilding the relationship with her mom → Losing her father during Covid and what forgiveness looks like when you never got to say it → Dropping out of URI to chase real estate at 19 — and what made her finally finish her degree → How a rave in NYC reignited the bug to create after Covid closed the book → Building Kawfee from scratch: 5 roasters, custom trailer, imported Japanese matcha → Why "Instagrammable" is a real product strategy, not a buzzword → The decision-making trap: there is no right decision, just the decision you make → ADHD, procrastination, and the trick of leaning INTO the distraction → Building in public when you're allergic to corporate This one's for anyone who's been told they were too much, too independent, or too all-over-the-place to make it work. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ FOLLOW KAPRECE: Instagram & TikTok: @kaprece_n K12E Coffee: @k12ecoffee Tagline: "It's a New England thing." ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Chapters: 00:00 — "I'm just as lost, but I'm going to figure it out" 01:18 — Figuring it out vs. being lost: which is harder 02:20 — The millennial vs Gen Z label trap 03:48 — There is no right decision — just the decision 05:34 — Giving yourself grace when you blow it 07:00 — Meet Kaprece: 8 years in real estate, founder of Kawfee  07:40 — Kicked out of the house at 16 09:25 — "It was probably the best thing that happened to me" 11:07 — Crashing at her uncle's, walking 20 minutes to a bouncy house job 13:15 — Rebuilding the relationship with mom 14:45 — "I never resented her — I knew I was in the wrong" 15:00 — Losing her father during Covid 17:30 — Forgiveness when you never got to say it 18:04 — Paul's story: forgiving a father he never met 20:00 — The Dave Chappelle defense (using humor to dodge emotion) 21:18 — The bug to create — and what reignited it 23:33 — A rave in NYC after Covid changed everything 25:19 — Choosing not to climb the corporate festival ladder 26:21 — "You don't have to work for someone — just do your own thing" 28:10 — Inside K12E Coffee: cold brew, matcha, ube, and a custom trailer 29:25 — Why she's building a personal brand alongside the product 30:50 — Going viral talking about ADHD on TikTok 31:13 — Designing an "Instagrammable" coffee on purpose 32:35 — 5 roasters in 9 months: why relationships are everything 34:00 — The price list and the process 35:13 — Competition in coffee vs. competition in real estate 36:10 — Building in public when you control the narrative 38:18 — What she's procrastinating on right now 40:08 — What's next: creating a product people can hold 40:31 — "Never enough" — blessing or curse? 41:38 — Paul on his late ADHD diagnosis 42:18 — Leaning INTO the distraction instead of fighting it 43:45 — The time-block trick at the public library 44:30 — Where to find Kaprece and Kawfee  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/support] 'Virtual Tip Jar' - Donate to my show to keep me going! Thank you! Paypal: https://paypal.me/PaulMartinez89?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US (PaulMartinez89) Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Paullyymm (Paullyymm)

Your Circle Is Your Ceiling | How James O'Grady Built 2 Businesses by Showing Up in Person | Ep. 103

Send a text to suggest topics you’d like to hear! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/fan_mail/new] Episode 103 of The Open Exchange. Paul sits down with James O'Grady — DJ of 16 years, owner of O'Grady's Junk Removal, and serial entrepreneur — to talk about quitting social media, accidentally landing in the Top 8 of a viral Connecticut radio contest, delayed gratification, mentorship, and why "you are who you hang out with." Raw, unfiltered, and packed with takeaways for anyone building something real. Follow James: Facebook: James Patrick O'Grady O'Grady's Junk Removal: ogradysjunkremoval.com Chapters: 00:00 Intro — Welcome back to The Open Exchange 00:45 The viral MILF Madness contest (Top 8 by accident) 05:50 Why James deleted social media off his phone 09:55 Social media's mental toll & the dopamine trap 13:25 Going all-in on multiple businesses 17:00 Lessons from his dad — the original hustler 20:30 Patience, delayed gratification & long-game thinking 27:55 16 years DJing, 5 years in junk removal 28:35 How James stays sharp (no drinking, books, real-life observation) 30:20 What he's still working to improve 33:10 Mentors, real-life relationships, and learning across industries 36:30 Showing up in person — the law of familiarity 40:45 The pension trap & why minimum-wage circles cap your ceiling 42:35 Advice for approaching successful people 46:30 What James solves for: happiness 47:50 Where to find James + outro Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/support] 'Virtual Tip Jar' - Donate to my show to keep me going! Thank you! Paypal: https://paypal.me/PaulMartinez89?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US (PaulMartinez89) Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Paullyymm (Paullyymm)

What Happens When You Actually Listen to Someone You Disagree With | Joe de la Cruz | Ep. 102

Send a text to suggest topics you’d like to hear! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/fan_mail/new] I'm not a politician. I don't have a party on my chest. I'm just a guy from Connecticut who started paying attention and formed some opinions along the way. Joe de la Cruz is my friend. We've been arguing at the bowling alley for over a decade. He sees some things differently than I do. And he's running for CT State Senate in the 18th District in 2026. So I did what felt natural — I put him on the mic and asked the questions I actually wanted answered. We got into why your electric bill is destroying your budget, whether Connecticut is worth staying in, what it actually feels like to cast a vote your own people hate, and whether two people who disagree can still want the same thing for the same community. Chapters:  00:00 - Welcome Back | Joe de la Cruz Returns for Episode 102 01:45 - How a Youth Basketball Scoreboard Started It All 06:00 - Joining Local Government & Changing Things From the Inside 07:30 - Running in a Republican Town as a Democrat — and Winning 09:15 - His Son's Addiction & Why He Went Public at a Council Meeting 13:00 - Six Years as CT State Representative 16:00 - Why He Voted to Give Politicians a Raise 22:00 - Running for CT State Senate in 2026 30:00 - Connecticut Taxes, Population Loss & The Florida Debate 38:00 - Eversource, Millstone Nuclear & Your Electric Bill Explained 49:00 - Wind Energy, Block Island & The Battery Storage Gap 53:00 - Tariffs, China & What We Can Actually Learn From Them 57:00 - COVID Restrictions, Freedom & Where We Drew the Line 01:05:00 - When Both Sides Actually Agree But Still Fight Anyway 01:10:00 - Why Vote for Joe de la Cruz 01:12:30 - How to Support the Campaign 📲 Follow The Open Exchange on YouTube for more honest conversations. 🎙️ Hosted by Paul Martinez Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/support] 'Virtual Tip Jar' - Donate to my show to keep me going! Thank you! Paypal: https://paypal.me/PaulMartinez89?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US (PaulMartinez89) Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Paullyymm (Paullyymm)

The Hidden Life of a Military Spouse | Brittany Lewis | Ep. 101

Send a text to suggest topics you’d like to hear! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/fan_mail/new] What does it really mean to love someone whose life belongs to the military? In Episode 101 of The Open Exchange, Paul sits down with Brittany Lewis — a RE/MAX realtor, military spouse, and mother — for one of the most honest conversations about sacrifice, identity, and resilience you'll hear this year. Brittany didn't sign up for the military. She signed up for the man. But the two came as a package deal — and what followed was a decade of deployments, cross-country moves, friendships that disappear overnight, and a constant internal battle between who she wanted to be and who military life needed her to become. This isn't a story about flag-waving and hero worship. It's about the quiet, invisible weight carried by the people left behind — and what it actually takes to keep going when you never really had a choice. In this episode: What it means to be a military-certified realtor and why it matters for VA buyers. The driveway moment that changed everything in Brittany's marriage. The grief of losing your roots every three years. Why military spouses don't talk about the hard stuff — and the stigma behind it. How "it is what it is" becomes the most powerful thing you can say. What she wishes someone had told her from the beginning. The lie she told herself for years — and when she finally stopped believing it. Whether you're a military spouse, a veteran, a realtor who serves VA buyers, or someone who has ever had to choose between the life you planned and the life you're living — this episode is for you. CHAPTERS: 00:00 — Introduction & Welcome 01:45 — Who Is Brittany Lewis? 03:30 — Becoming a Military-Certified Realtor 06:00 — The Driveway Moment That Changed Everything 09:00 — When He Got Deployed 12:30 — The Grief Nobody Talks About 16:00 — Losing Friends Every Three Years 20:00 — The Stigma of Not Being "Okay" as a Military Spouse 24:00 — Learning to Stop Planning Your Life 27:30 — "It Is What It Is" — Finding Peace in Uncertainty 30:00 — What She Wants Other Military Spouses to Know 33:00 — What 16-Year-Old Brittany Would Think 35:15 — Chaos Brings Clarity 36:30 — The Lie She Told Herself for Years 37:00 — Where to Find Brittany & Closing Thoughts 🎙️ Follow Me: TikTok: @paullymtv @theopenexchangepodcast Instagram: @paullyym @theopenexchangepodcast Email: Theopenexchangepodcast@gmail.com Subscribe:    / @paullyymm  🎙️ Other ways to listen: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-open-exchange-with-paul-martinez/id1733876904 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Qh1HPG7IF9vlI1Sy21gST Podcast #Conversations #PersonalDevelopment #Faith #Inspiration #StoryTelling #Podcast Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2316534/support] 'Virtual Tip Jar' - Donate to my show to keep me going! Thank you! Paypal: https://paypal.me/PaulMartinez89?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US (PaulMartinez89) Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Paullyymm (Paullyymm)