The Phoenix Project: Turning Pain Into Purpose

Episode 7: When Staying Costs You: One Woman’s Truth

21 min · 2 de abr de 2026
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In this episode, Christine Dillard shares her journey through coercive control, the health and emotional toll of staying, and how telling the truth and writing her book helped her reclaim her identity. Listeners will hear practical signs of abuse, the hard work of truth-telling and healing, and a message of community, hope, and resources for anyone feeling trapped or unsure about leaving.

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