10 Things I Wish I Knew About Men Before Dating

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If you’ve ever felt confused by a man, ignored your gut, over-listened to his words, or gave someone the benefit of the doubt for way too long — this episode is for you.This is the follow-up to last week’s episode: 10 Red Flags in Men.Last week, we talked about the signs.This week, we’re going deeper into what’s actually happening underneath them.In today’s episode of The Pursuit, we’re talking about the things men understand about attraction, dating, women, relationships, and male behaviour — that they will probably never say to your face.I cross-checked every single point with emotionally healthy, green-flag men and multiple male sources, and so much of it confirmed what women feel intuitively…In this episode, we talk about:✨ why your confusion is not an accident✨ why the first 3 months are often the ceiling, not the floor✨ why his words are the wish list — but his actions are the truth✨ why respect matters more than love✨ what cheating is really about, and why it was never about you✨ the one fear that drives a lot of confusing male behaviour✨ why conflict can sometimes increase attraction✨ why having a full life is different than playing hard to get✨ how men bond differently than women✨ why you should never forget what you bring to the tableBy the end of this episode, you’re going to look at men, dating, mixed signals, attraction, confusion, and your past relationships completely differently.Because once you understand what is really going on, you stop wasting years trying to decode someone who was already showing you the truth.Your standards are not too high. You’re just finally learning how to see clearly.If this episode resonated, don't forget to subscribe, share it with someone who needs to hear it, and comment which red flag hit closest to home 🤍THE PURSUIT:Your safe space for self-improvement, healing, feminine energy, habits, levelling up, and becoming the woman you know you're meant to be.▶️ Watch the Red Flags episode first: https://youtu.be/abzBDkj8yp4✨ BOOK A CALL WITH ME:https://stan.store/patriciaberenzon/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-4xzrhSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS FOR ADVICE:https://forms.gle/ZQRM5s7FM2XsoEg87💛 LET'S BE FRIENDS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patriciaberenzonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patriciaberenzon

The 10 Red Flags in Men Most Women Ignore (If He Has These, RUN)

You already know something is off. But you can't quite put it into words.. and that's exactly how it costs you years. If you’ve ever ignored a red flag because a man was charming, successful, generous, attractive, or said all the right things - this episode is for you.In today’s episode of The Pursuit, we are talking about the 10 red flags in men most women ignore — the subtle dating red flags that are easy to excuse away because they don’t always look toxic in the beginning. Sometimes they look like chemistry. Sometimes they look like confidence. Sometimes they look like generosity. Sometimes they look like a man saying everything you’ve been waiting to hear.But words are free. Actions tell the truth.This episode is all about building discernment as a woman, trusting your gut, learning how to spot toxic relationship patterns early, and understanding the difference between a man who is genuinely aligned with you and a man who is simply selling you a fantasy.🚩 Why the most valuable thing a man has is his word — and what it means if he doesn't keep it💡 The five non-negotiable traits every man should have before you take him seriously🔍 How to build discernment and stop overriding your gut instinct⚠️ The love bombing trap and why it feels so good until it doesn't💸 The difference between a man who provides security and a man who builds dependency⚖️ What "50/50" really means — and why it's often not about equality at all👥 What his friendships (or lack of them) tell you about who he really is🕐 How a man who only shows up when it's convenient is already telling you where you stand🎭 The narcissistic pattern of charm in public and criticism in private🌀 What gaslighting actually looks like — and why it makes you feel like you're the problem✨ Why any standard you hold for a man, you should be giving to yourself first💪 How to date from a place of security instead of desperation and why it changes everythingIf you've ever found yourself making excuses for a man's behaviour, wondering if your standards are too high, or feeling like something is off but you can't name it — this episode is for you.✨ BOOK A CALL WITH ME:https://stan.store/patriciaberenzon/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-4xzrhSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS FOR ADVICE:https://forms.gle/ZQRM5s7FM2XsoEg87If this episode resonated, don't forget to subscribe, share it with someone who needs to hear it, and comment which red flag hit closest to home 🤍THE PURSUIT:Your safe space for self-improvement, healing, feminine energy, habits, levelling up, and becoming the woman you know you're meant to be.💛 LET'S BE FRIENDS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patriciaberenzonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patriciaberenzon🎧 Listen to The Pursuit on Spotify & Apple Podcasts:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mjbv90qwgV48xujR929iy?si=Bs2XvqrVTkC3K9sHfAkSBAApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-pursuit-with-patricia-berenzon/id1854181174

15 de jun de 202632 min

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