Switching Lanes: The Difference Between Surrender and Obedience

Switching Lanes: The Difference Between Surrender and Obedience

Why do we try to mimic someone else’s journey when God gave us our own lane? After a chaotic morning commute into downtown Birmingham, Lori had a sudden realization during her morning quiet time: “I don’t have a problem with surrender. I have a problem with obedience.” In this episode, Lori and Lisa break down the distinct difference between surrendering your path to God and practicing daily obedience. Using the unexpected (and intense) moment in Exodus 4 where Moses faces the consequences of partial obedience, as well as Peter’s classic "what about him?" moment of comparison in John 21, they look at how easily we try to copy the stories we tell ourselves about others instead of listening directly to God. From parenting and career to the everyday traps of comparison, they get honest about the comfort of holding onto "favorite" sins and why the narrow path offers a peace that the crowded road never can. Key highlights in this episode: * The Traffic Analogy: Why switching lanes to get ahead usually sets us paces back. * Moses & Partial Obedience: Learning from the hidden, sobering truths in Exodus 3 and 4. * The Comparison Trap: Why Peter looked at John, why we look at high-profile leaders, and how Jesus answers us: "What is that to you? You follow me." * The "Shoulder" of the Narrow Road: Why trying to just sit on the sidelines of the wide path always pulls us in. Connect with us:Leave a review and let us know: Are you struggling with surrender, or is it obedience?

Stepping Over the Guardrail: Letting Go of Control and Surviving Egypt

Have you ever woken up, looked around at your life, and thought, "How in the world did I end up here?" In this episode, Lisa and Lori sit down for a raw, honest conversation about the tug-of-war between overthinking and impulsivity. Lisa confesses her struggle as an overthinker who feels safe only when following the rules—even when it means physically staying behind the guardrail and missing the view. Meanwhile, Lori opens up about her tendency to jump right over the boundaries just to feel like she's in control, only to find herself sitting in "Egypt." Together, they dive into what it truly means to offer our lives as a complete sacrifice, the unique heartaches of parenting adult children, and why we have to stop trying to "fix" everyone else's problems. If you struggle with anxiety, a need to know the future, or find yourself sitting in a hard season wondering what God is doing, this episode is a beautiful reminder that He has a plan for the plunder, even when the timeline makes no sense to us. Key Takeaways from this episode: ✔️ Safety vs. Control: The difference between looking at life through a safety lens and operating out of a need to control. ✔️ Lessons from the Plunder: Why the things you accumulate in your hardest seasons are exactly what God will use to build your next chapter. ✔️ Parenting Adult Children: Learning to step out of the way so your kids can experience God’s faithfulness and build their own testimonies. ✔️ The "I'm Sorry" Trap: Why Lori’s therapist told her to stop apologizing for things out of her hands, and how to transition from "fixer" to "disciple-maker."

An Unfinished Life

Have you ever wanted to quit when life didn’t go the way you expected? In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Lori and Lisa reflect on the story of Elijah and the moments when fear, disappointment, and exhaustion make us want to stop moving forward. From mountaintop victories to desert seasons, they explore what it means to trust God when the journey feels too long and the valley feels too deep. Together they discuss: ✨ Why we run from difficult situations✨ The danger of living in self-pity and unfinished business✨ Learning to hear God’s still, small voice✨ The importance of truth-tellers in our lives✨ Trusting God one step at a time, even when we can’t see the whole path ahead Sometimes the miracle isn’t in the whirlwind—it’s in the simple obedience of taking the next step. If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, or tempted to give up, this episode is a reminder that your story isn’t over yet. The desert is not the destination.

The Hidden Power of Grieving Our Old Self for Spiritual Growth

What happens when following Christ changes you so deeply that you begin grieving the version of yourself you used to be? In this honest and deeply relatable conversation, Lori and Lisa unpack the hidden tension many believers experience between the “old self” and the person God is shaping them to become. Together they discuss spiritual maturity, personality, identity, grief, and the struggle of learning how to surrender who we were without losing the unique qualities God created within us. From reacting in the flesh to learning to respond through the Holy Spirit, this episode explores the difficult but beautiful process of growth, healing, and transformation in Christ. If you’ve ever wrestled with: • feeling torn between your old nature and your faith,• grieving past versions of yourself,• wondering where your personality fits into God’s plan,• or trying to understand why spiritual growth can feel so uncomfortable… this conversation is for you. Because maybe growth isn’t becoming someone entirely different. Maybe it’s allowing God to redeem who He created you to be all along.

What Will Remain: Living a Life that Outlives You

Recorded live at a recent speaking event, this conversation dives into legacy. Not the polished, perfect version people post online… but the real kind. The kind built slowly through faith, failure, heartbreak, motherhood, obedience, and learning to trust God one day at a time. We share personal stories about fear, control, having adult children, breaking unhealthy cycles, learning how to love people well, and what it really means to “leave them Jesus.” If you’ve ever wondered: * Am I doing enough? * What am I really leaving behind? * Can God still use my mess? * Why is trusting Him so hard sometimes? …this conversation is for you. This episode isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about learning to walk faithfully anyway. We hope this reminds you that legacy doesn’t begin someday in the future. It’s being built right now — in the small moments, the quiet obedience, and the everyday choices to love like Christ. ✨ “Faith isn’t proven by what you finish. It’s revealed by what you’re willing to start that outlives you.”