Respectfully Rebellious chat with Eleanor Hancock from Number 75 Design

Focus, Boundaries and Shedquarters

Michelle and Nicola get real about why they're not taking their own advice — and what they're doing about it. In this episode: * Finding your focus window — Nicola has a lightbulb moment about working to her brain's natural rhythms, pinpointing mornings as her most productive time * The distraction tax — why it can take a full 20 minutes to regain concentration after an interruption, and why working from home makes this so much harder * Environment matters — from messy desks to co-working days, how your physical space shapes your mental state and productivity * The case for Shedquarters — why having a dedicated workspace away from your home (even a warm, app-controlled garden room) could be the game-changer Nicola needs * Boundaries under pressure — how busy seasons cause us to let our boundaries erode without even noticing, until a migraine forces the issue * The to-do list spiral — adding more than you're ticking off, forgetting ideas the moment you have them, and why a separate "ideas board" might help * Win walls and word-of-the-year check-ins — how Michelle's "consolidate" and Nicola's "focus" are going (hint: mixed results) * Mental health and self-care — recognising when to say no, what your body is telling you, and why rest is non-negotiable * Listener shoutout — Emily is holding her first event! Reclaim Your Calm on Sunday 14th June — yoga, Tropic self-care, and a chilled afternoon. Find her at @tropic_with_emilyb on Instagram We want to hear from you: What boundaries have you let slip? How are you getting back on track? Drop us a message — we might just need your advice as much as you need ours! Email us at studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk, or DM on instagram @thereinventiondiariespodcast or www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk [http://www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk] or www.mrsstylewright.com [http://www.mrsstylewright.com]

Masking the Mental Load

Masking, Mental Load & The Invisible Weight Women Carry How often do you say “I’m fine” when you’re actually exhausted, overwhelmed, or quietly struggling? In this episode of The Reinvention Diaries, Michelle and Nicola dive into the very real topic of masking – the ways women often keep showing up, smiling, coping, and carrying on… even when life feels heavy behind the scenes. From masquerade balls and movie nostalgia to mental load, sleep struggles, perimenopause, and the pressure of being the reliable one, this is an honest, funny, and relatable conversation about the invisible weight so many women carry. They explore what masking really looks like in everyday life: pretending everything’s okay, minimizing how hard things feel, pushing through exhaustion, and feeling guilty for doing absolutely nothing for a day. Along the way, they chat about: ✨ Masking, burnout, and “fake it till you make it” culture ✨ The mental load women carry at home, work, and in relationships ✨ Sleep, overwhelm, and why coping can feel harder in your 40s and beyond ✨ Perimenopause, brain fog, confidence dips, and the pressure to keep functioning ✨ Why rest still comes with guilt for so many women ✨ The creative power of downtime (even if you think you should be doing something more productive) With plenty of laughter, personal stories, and the occasional tangent into Top Gun, gym guilt, and falling downstairs in heels, this episode is a reminder that you don’t always have to hold everything together so tightly. If you’ve ever felt emotionally overloaded while still managing to look perfectly capable on the outside — this one’s for you. We’d love to hear from you: Do you recognize masking in your own life? What does your mental load look like? And what helps when your “sponge is full”? Connect with us on Instagram @thereinventiondiariespodcast or email studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk [studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk], www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright

Respectfully Rebellious chat with Eleanor Hancock from Number 75 Design

Eleanor Hancox is an award winning brand strategist, creative director, podcast host ("Who Told You That?"), and author. She runs No.75 Design, a branding agency and creative studio in Lincoln, alongside her husband Matt, helping small business owners find and communicate what makes them truly unique. What we talked about: * Eleanor's philosophy of being a "respectful rebel" — knowing the rules, then questioning why they exist * Why smart, capable women struggle with visibility online, and how emotional intelligence can actually work against you when it comes to showing up * The "overwhelm model" vs the "authority model" — why pouring energy into social media is burning people out, and what to do instead * Eleanor's "Blueprint" process: a deep-dive brand strategy session that often uncovers what's really holding a business back (hint: it's rarely the website) * Redefining success — what does it actually mean for you, not what someone told you it should look like * Perfectionism, ADHD, and perimenopause: how unmasked traits are showing up for women in midlife, and why that's not necessarily a bad thing * Practical alternatives to the social media hamster wheel: long-form content, PR, Substack, real-life connection, and repurposing one piece of content across multiple touchpoints * Eleanor's TED Talk: The Dilemma of the Timid Trailblazer — on introversion and borrowed extrovert traits * Why you don't need more confidence to be visible — just a bit of willingness Find Eleanor: * Website: www.no75design.com [http://www.no75design.com] * Instagram: @No75Design * Podcast: Who Told You That? on Spotify Get in touch with us: * Email: thestudio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk [thestudio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk] * Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast * www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk [http://www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk] * www.mrsstylewright.com

Happy Birthday To Us

🎂 Reinvention Diaries – Episode 53: One Year Reflections & Growth It's our birthday! The Reinvention Diaries turns one, and we're celebrating by looking back at a year of podcasting, growth, and more than a few tech disasters. Did you know that only 1% of podcasts make it past 21 episodes? We've done 53. We're calling that a win. In this episode, Michelle and Nicola reflect on: * How the podcast came to be – from a vision board idea to a genuine partnership * What they've learned about each other (planners vs. wingers, anyone?) * The tech disasters, deleted episodes, and bangle-related interruptions that nearly derailed them * The episodes that hit hardest – including the unforgettable conversation with Tana MacPherson-Smith and the eye-opening brain health episode with Lindsay Burn * Podcast confession time – the episodes they weren't sure about... and why they always made the cut * Imposter syndrome, confidence wobbles, and why showing up anyway always pays off * How this podcast has changed them both – more belief, more structure, and finally taking time for themselves without apology * Their big plans for Year Two (spoiler: it's going to be epic) Listener shoutout: Thanks to everyone who's stuck with us, messaged us, and asked where the episode was when it was late. You keep us accountable – and we love you for it. Get in touch: 📧 studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk [studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk] 📸 Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast, www.nicolaaucklandphotographer.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright.com Got a topic you'd like us to cover? A guest you'd love to hear from? We'd love to know. (And yes, Davina is on the wish list.) See you next week – cheers! 🍵

Connections, Confidence & Female Empowerment...ick!

Connection Over Competition: Female Empowerment & Building Your Tribe Michelle and Nicola are joined by special guest co-host Debbie Firmstone for a warm, wide-ranging conversation about female solidarity, the power of women's networking, and why connection always beats competition. In This Episode: 🎉 What We've Been Up To The girls catch up on life before diving in — from promoting the Big Business Event across Lincolnshire and getting stands ready (yes, there will be cookies 🍪), to a weekend in York, a drag show in Grantham, a washed-out track day, a beach trip to Mablethorpe, and cocktail week shenanigans in York. 🤝 Connection Over Competition The main topic: why women's networking isn't what you might fear. All three share how they expected judgment and competition when they started their businesses — and found the complete opposite. Women's networking groups offer honesty, emotional support, and a safe space to share ideas without the broadcast-and-sell energy of mixed networking rooms. 🐝 Ladies in the Hive Debbie talks about her women-only networking group, Ladies in the Hive — the relaxed venues, the introductions, the vibe. No testosterone, no hard pitching, just genuine connection. She also shares details on her upcoming Women's World Weekender (business workshops, speakers, an 80s/90s disco, and more). 🌍 Mediterranean Retreat Debbie is heading back to Corfu — where she used to live — for a business retreat with workshops in the morning and pool time in the afternoon. Two spaces left! Find out more at queenbeeandco.co.uk [http://queenbeeandco.co.uk] 📣 Blow Your Own Trumpet A conversation about self-promotion, self-doubt, and why women need to own their achievements — because if you don't say it, nobody else will (until they eventually do it for you). 😂 Off-Topic But Brilliant The episode takes a detour into: drag queens and why men doing it is funny when women doing the same thing wouldn't be, Rachel Reeves crying in Parliament, stranger-on-a-train connections, holding a stranger's hand on a plane… and whether you'd expect someone to pay on a first date (discount vouchers: red flag or fine?). Michael Portillo's trousers also get a mention. Find Debbie & Her Events: 🌐 queenbeeandco.co.uk [http://queenbeeandco.co.uk] — Women's World Weekender, Big Business Event, Ladies in the Hive Get in Touch: 📧 studio@thereinventiondiaries.uk [studio@thereinventiondiaries.uk] 📱 Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast, www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright.com