Instead of YELLING, Try this.

Instead of YELLING, Try this.

Hello there, Gorgeous, Do you ever find yourself shouting, "How many times do I have to tell you…" only to feel terrible afterwards? You're not the only one. I'm not a perfect parent either. We all want to do better. If you want to help break free from yelling, and have a desire for real, compassionate strategies to break the cycle of frustration, We're here for you. Chronic yelling [https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/effects-of-yelling-at-kids#2-Yelling-changes-the-way-their-brain-develops] doesn't just damage your relationship—it can actually impact your child's immune system, learning, sleep patterns, and long-term emotional health. If you need a safe place to land after mucking things up with your kid, listen in. Maybe you never experienced kind, gentle parenting being modeled as a kid. If that's the case for you, I feel it, that was hard! Luckily, those experiences don't mean you can't create the loving, understanding relationship you always wanted) with your own kids. Listen now and take a small step towards a more peaceful home. With Kindness and Love, Allison Michelle Licensed Occupational Therapist, (Conlon) Helping Parents of Teens & Neurodiverse Kids P.S. Remember to rate the podcast and give us 5 stars 🤩!!!!! Thanks for listening. Click Here [https://www.bestmomever22.com/Podcast] to receive my free download so you can lead better conversations with Teenagers! Have Questions or an idea for the Show? Email Me. support@allisonmichelleco.com or support@courageousinnercalm.com Music by Tom Caufield [https://caufieldmusic.com/]

What to do when you don't like your Kid's Boyfriend or Girlfriend (Or Friend)

Hellooo! It's bound to happen eventually, our sweet kiddo (that once said they would never want to love anyone else or move out) not only gets a boyfriend… but they pick someone to be their someone that you …don't even like. Ugh. I'm sorry. Or worse, they are actually not so nice to our kid… If you are worried about your kid's choice of boyfriend or girlfriend. You are in a tough spot. I hear you. If you would like some ideas on how to make the best of a yucky situation. If you like what you hear, support us by sharing with someone you love. Oh wait! I'm getting ready to unveil my hot new domain with a rebrand🤩, watch for my emails asking you to scoot over to my new email system. Love and Kindness, Allison Michelle

Glimmers of Hope

Hi, Love, Sometimes giving our best doesn't seem like enough. Sometimes, no matter how much we commit to being calm or how much we want to rise above the challenge of leading our kids with courage, we still might not feel like we can give our kids what they deserve, the ways of being that our heart yearns to give them. When we want to give more to our families and friends, but the reserves aren't there, sometimes it feels impossible, and even hopeless. 💔 Our kids are facing this stress too. Your teenager might feel isolated or hopeless when they see their classmate post a bright pic on social media, with their "perfect" boyfriend, or their "perfect" cheer squad, (even if in reality, those same people are hoping for likes to soothe their own feelings and struggles…). Maybe your teens are worried about the recent US election outcome and have anxiety about the future of our world… I see you. There is hope. Don't give up, Mamma, you are already doing amazingly. You are sweet and lovable. Please choose to believe I mean you, {First_Name} when I tell you how fabulous you are. You are not alone. I recorded this podcast for you on behalf of one of our wonderful listeners. So thank you to them for sharing, and being willing to share your experience so that other moms can also gain from the conversation!! Thank you all for reading and listening, and for being here. I'm so grateful for you and glad you're here!! With Kindness and Love, Get a Free Gift. [https://www.bestmomever22.com/LeadingGreatConversationsToolkit] Email Me. support@allisonmichelleco.com Book a Free Call with me. [https://calendly.com/allisonmichelleco/trust-and-freedom-breakthrough] Music by Tom Caufield [https://caufieldmusic.com/]

So your teen doesnt know what to do about college...

Hi! Does your teen dread being asked what they want to to do after high school, or feel worried and hopeless about the future? The world is changing so fast it's no wonder teens feel overwhelemed. Maybe the traditional path doesn't feel right for your unique teen, or maybe they just want to feel like they have options. I got to chat with Emma Perez about ways to make it in life without a traditional 4-year college career path. Emma is a career and life design coach for teens, the author of What's the Point of School: Ed Transformation, A Matter of Life and Death, a book that explores the current goal of the American education system, how it came to be, and what effects it has on our children's wellbeing and future. She guides students through self-discovery, career exploration, and vision creation. Listen in to our conversation to feel some relief. We're Glad You're Here!! Free Gift from Emma [https://emmabperez.com/empower-your-teen/] Love and Kindness, Allison Michelle Parenting Teens Support Specialist, Serving Parents of AFAB, NB and Neurodiverse Teens and Children, Occupational Therapist Registered Remember to rate the podcast and give us 5 stars 🤩!!!!! Thanks for listening. Join 3 Keys to Restoring Trust with your Unique Teen [https://www.bestmomever22.com/Podcast] Email Me. support@allisonmichelleco.com Music by Tom Caufield [https://caufieldmusic.com/]

What to Do when Your Teen Feels Distant

How can it be possible…? Teens with parents who love them unconditionally, Could still think their parents are disappointed in them… Judge them, or can't be trusted… Yet, it happens. Often. So if your kid doesn't feel good about themself or can't understand how much you love them, If the love for your kid isn't getting through, It's Okay to give yourself a little empathy. We highly recommend taking a soothing breath and saying something nice to yourself. (and then listen to the latest episode release) Because our ability to express love for our kids can get mixed up pretty easily. For one thing, kids and teens sometimes with nonverbal learning differences tend to have trouble correctly identifying other's facial expressions and tone. Add to that, how much we want them to be successful, and make choices that reflect our values, Which can be a lot to live up to. Most parents spend less time with older kids, And if we are also stressed or overworked, We get busy and stop paying attention to our tone… Plus teens want to talk when we're ready for bed. Or worse something our teen or ND kid does is super annoying or prickly (that never happens?!) and brings up some angry unhealed reaction… (sigh.) Not to mention teenagers are undergoing massive brain reconstruction as higher-level problem-solving and independence come online… So, if you and your teen feel distant, we want to Pour you a big cup of empathy And extend the biggest cosmic hug… Because we already know you love your kids no matter what. And that is a beautiful gift to share with the world. > Children who know they are loved and respected. So thanks for that. We're Glad You're Here. Remember to rate the podcast and give us 5 stars 🤩!!!!! Thanks for listening. Lindsay's Free GIFT [https://www.youthrisingcoach.com/parentpage] Join the waiting list for 3 Keys to Restoring Trust with your Unique Teen [https://www.bestmomever22.com/Podcast] Email Me. support@allisonmichelleco.com Music by Tom Caufield [https://caufieldmusic.com/]