When You Try to Control God

When You Try to Control God

Description Most people do not walk away from God because they stop believing. They walk away because the god they tried to control finally failed them. In this episode, Jim sits down with Phill Tague, founding pastor of Ransom Church and author of Jesus Be the Centerfold: Choosing Covenant Faith Over Airbrushed Christianity, for a conversation about the difference between a curated, controllable faith and a covenant relationship with the real Jesus. Phill explains why we “swipe right” on the parts of Jesus we like and “swipe left” on the parts we do not, how legalism can feel safe while quietly keeping you distant from God, and why the answer is not more checkboxes, but followership. If you have ever felt like your faith is thin, confusing, or missing something, this episode will help you name what is happening and take one honest next step. In This Episode, You Will Learn * How people create “Jesus in their own image,” and why it collapses in hard seasons * Why control is often the hidden engine underneath a curated faith * How to spot selective surrender and soundbite theology * Why legalism can feel safe, but still keeps you from the Father’s heart * Covenant vs contract faith, and why “Lordship” is the missing step for many Christians * How to tell conviction from shame (and why it matters) * One practical first step for the overwhelmed: stop, get quiet, create margin Time Stamps 00:00 Intro: The Jesus we imagine vs the real Jesus 00:40 Meet Phill Tague and Ransom Church 01:23 Book intro: Jesus Be the Centerfold 02:11 Worshiping an image of Jesus vs worshiping Jesus 03:30 What happens when we bend Jesus to our politics and preferences 04:12 “Swipe right” theology and why people lose faith 05:32 Control: trying to force life to go our way 07:24 Curated faith and “soundbite” Christianity 10:13 Legalism, safety, and the prodigal sons 12:28 Intimacy defined: fully known and still chosen 13:30 Covenant vs contract faith 16:10 Saved by grace, then living by works (the checkbox trap) 19:21 Conviction vs shame: “what you did” vs “who you are” 21:18 Fighting passivity and the noise of modern life 23:20 First step for the overwhelmed: stop, be still, create margin 26:26 Sabbath, sabbatical, and learning what “zero” feels like 28:19 Where to connect with Phill and get the study guide Key Takeaways * If your faith is built on a made-up version of God, hard seasons will expose it. * Control looks spiritual until life stops cooperating. * Soundbites can sound true while slowly forming a false Jesus. * Covenant faith is not a contract. It is surrender. * Conviction points to what you did. Shame attacks who you are. * Sometimes the most spiritual first step is simply to stop and get quiet. Connect with Phil Tague 🌐 Church: ransom.church [https://ransom.church/] 🌐 Website: philtag.com [https://www.philltague.com/](book links + free study guide) Connect with Jim 1. 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/] 2. 🎙️ Ask a Question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com/ask⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/ask] 3. 📱 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/leadwithjim] 4. ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lead with Jim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://youtube.com/@leadwithjim] 5. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim] Support & Engage with the Show ✅ Subscribe to The Unshakable Life wherever you listen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grace-in-the-grind/id1767405179] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/show/1nw8OCTdwQAqjx0hzuRQQM?si=6038435315bd4bde] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠iHeartRadio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://iheart.com/podcast/260758213/] ✅ Leave a 5-star review if this episode encouraged your faith. ✅ For more faith-driven leadership content, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.leadwithjim.com]. Thanks for listening! Never miss an episode of The Unshakable Life. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app—and if this resonated, share it with a friend who needs the tools to develop an Unshakable Life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

You Built the Routine… So Why Are You Still Tired?

Description Most leaders are not exhausted because they lack discipline. They are exhausted because they are running on the wrong fuel. It looks like productivity. It feels like responsibility. But underneath it, something is out of order. In this episode, Jim sits down with Michael Klassen, broadcast producer and host of the 5AM Podcast, for a grounded conversation about mornings, identity, and why productivity alone will not fix a tired life. Michael shares how early rising is not about chasing results, but about building a foundation where your spirit, mind, and priorities are aligned before the day begins. Together, Jim and Michael unpack why so many high-performing leaders still feel drained even when their routines “look right,” how misplaced identity can quietly drive burnout, and why what you put into your body and your spirit matters more than most people want to admit. They also talk about community, labels, discipline, and the hard truth that sometimes your environment has to change before your life does. If you feel worn down, stretched thin, or like something is off even though you are doing “all the right things,” this will help you step back, reset, and rebuild with clarity. In This Episode, You Will Learn * Why productivity without alignment leads to exhaustion * The hidden reason high performers still feel empty * How morning routines shape your spiritual and mental direction * Why identity cannot be built on what you do * The role the community plays in the labels you carry * A simple way to audit your day and regain control * How “wrong fuel” impacts your energy, focus, and results * Why discipline is more about direction than intensity Time Stamps 00:00 Intro: Productivity as spiritual formation 01:27 Meet Michael Klassen and the story behind 5AM Podcast 03:20 Why 5AM is more about mindset than a clock 05:00 If it’s difficult, there’s probably value in it 07:00 Productivity, purpose, and being created to produce 09:00 When productivity becomes identity 10:50 Breaking labels and finding identity in Christ 11:30 Why your environment shapes your outcomes 12:35 Morning routines as spiritual formation 13:30 Guarding your time and setting the tone for your day 16:10 What a real morning routine looks like 18:00 What happens when you miss it 20:00 Why high achievers still feel tired and empty 21:00 The “wrong fuel” analogy and energy drain 23:10 Practical steps to reset your life 24:00 Audit your day and rebalance your energy 26:00 Where to connect with Michael Key Takeaways * Productivity alone cannot fix a misaligned life. * If your identity is tied to what you produce, burnout is coming. * Your morning sets the direction for everything that follows. * The wrong inputs, both physical and spiritual, will drain you fast. * Your environment shapes your identity more than you realize. * If you can measure your day, you can begin to change it. * Discipline is not punishment. It is alignment. * Real change starts with small, honest adjustments, not extreme overhauls. Connect with Michael Klassen 🌐 Website: https://www.5ampodcast.com [https://www.5ampodcast.com] 📱 Social: ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/5ampodcast/], ⁠⁠YouTube, [https://www.youtube.com/@5AMPodcastChannel] ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/5ampodcast/] Connect with Jim 1. 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/] 2. 🎙️ Ask a Question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com/ask⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/ask] 3. 📱 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/leadwithjim] 4. ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lead with Jim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://youtube.com/@leadwithjim] 5. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim] Support & Engage with the Show ✅ Subscribe to The Unshakable Life wherever you listen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grace-in-the-grind/id1767405179] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/show/1nw8OCTdwQAqjx0hzuRQQM?si=6038435315bd4bde] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠iHeartRadio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://iheart.com/podcast/260758213/] ✅ Leave a 5-star review if this episode encouraged your faith. ✅ For more faith-driven leadership content, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.leadwithjim.com]. Thanks for listening! Never miss an episode of The Unshakable Life. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app—and if this resonated, share it with a friend who needs the tools to develop an Unshakable Life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

He Didn’t Feel Ready. God Called Him Anyway

Description What do you do when life knocks the ground out from under you, your faith feels tired, and God keeps calling you into something you do not feel qualified to carry? In this episode, Jim sits down with Dan Parr, publisher and narrator of the Easy to Understand, Read Bible, for a conversation about reluctant obedience, spiritual weariness, and the way God uses His Word to rebuild people from the inside out. Dan shares the powerful story of how his life began with his mother’s courage and prayer, how a simple act of kindness from a church helped draw him back to God, and how reading Scripture for himself changed everything. He also opens up about losing a Fortune 500 career just before Christmas, stepping deeper into the Bible project in the middle of uncertainty, and learning to trust God when the path stopped making sense. Together, Jim and Dan talk about why this work became more than a literary project, what reading the Bible out loud revealed about the character of God, and why so many tired believers do not need a complicated fix. They need to come back to prayer, Scripture, and real fellowship. If you feel battle-worn, spiritually off, or like you need to come back to God in a real and honest way, this conversation will meet you there. In This Episode, You Will Learn * Why Dan calls himself a reluctant Bible publisher and narrator * How God used loss, disruption, and uncertainty to redirect his life * What reading the Bible out loud revealed about the love and character of God * Why grace can be harder to receive than people think * How Scripture became a lifeline instead of just a project * What to do when you feel spiritually tired or far from God * Why prayer, the Word, and Christian fellowship still matter so much * How to stay faithful when you do not feel qualified Time Stamps 00:00 Intro and why this conversation is for the weary 00:28 Meet Dan Parr and the scope of the Bible project 01:35 The story of Dan’s mother choosing life 04:49 A flood, an unexpected gift, and the road back to church 06:54 “The Bible read me” and Dan’s turning point 08:21 Learning grace instead of trying to repay love 10:20 Reluctance, self-doubt, and obeying anyway 14:23 What reading Scripture out loud taught Dan about God 16:36 Why this became a lifeline, not just a literary project 17:16 Losing a Fortune 500 career three weeks before Christmas 19:35 How Dan’s media background prepared him for this calling 21:12 What walking by faith has looked like in real life 22:43 What to do when you are tired, drifting, or need to come back 24:48 Where to find Dan and the Easy to Understand, Read Bible Key Takeaways * God often calls people who do not feel qualified * Grace is a gift, not something you pay back * Scripture does more than inform you. It exposes, heals, and redirects you * From Genesis to Revelation, God keeps making a way back to Himself * Loss can become the doorway into calling * When your faith feels worn out, start simple * Prayer, God’s Word, and Christian community are still the basic anchors * Obedience does not always feel dramatic. Sometimes it just looks like staying faithful today Connect with Dan Parr 🌐 Website: https://www.parrdanmevoices.com [https://www.parrdanmevoices.com] 🎧 Listen to the Easy to Understand, Read Bible on Audible: https://www.audible.com/author/Dan-Parr/B0C9H1C21Q [%E2%81%A0https://www.audible.com/author/Dan-Parr/B0C9H1C21Q] 📱 Social: LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/greatvoicetalent/] Connect with Jim 1. 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/] 2. 🎙️ Ask a Question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com/ask⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/ask] 3. 📱 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/leadwithjim] 4. ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lead with Jim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://youtube.com/@leadwithjim] 5. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim] Support & Engage with the Show ✅ Subscribe to The Unshakable Life wherever you listen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grace-in-the-grind/id1767405179] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/show/1nw8OCTdwQAqjx0hzuRQQM?si=6038435315bd4bde] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠iHeartRadio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://iheart.com/podcast/260758213/] ✅ Leave a 5-star review if this episode encouraged your faith. ✅ For more faith-driven leadership content, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.leadwithjim.com]. Thanks for listening! Never miss an episode of The Unshakable Life. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app—and if this resonated, share it with a friend who needs the tools to develop an Unshakable Life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Busy Isn’t the Same as Productive

Description Most people do not need another productivity hack. They need to tell the truth about what is actually stealing their focus. In this episode, Jim sits down with Mister Productivity™ for a practical conversation about overwhelm, digital distraction, impulse control, and why true productivity is bigger than calendars, apps, and getting more done. Mister Productivity™ shares how he went from losing his corporate job to building a life around helping people reclaim focus, and why productivity has to be defined by your real season, not somebody else’s standard. Together, Jim and Mister Productivity™ unpack why busy does not always mean productive, how to stop defaulting to “I can’t,” why going analog can help break the pull of your phone, and why sometimes the most productive thing you can do is step away and reset. They also talk about chronic illness, grace, daily habits, and why staying grounded in Christ starts with Scripture, not screens. If you feel scattered, distracted, or tired of confusing motion with progress, this episode will help you slow down, refocus, and build a healthier rhythm. In This Episode, You Will Learn * Why overwhelm is often bigger than a time management problem * How Mister Productivity™ defines productivity in real life, not internet life * Why you need your own definition of productivity for your current season * How to stop defaulting to “I can’t” before you have even tried * A simple analog way to reduce distraction and protect your focus * Why rest can be productive too * How to tell the difference between being busy and actually moving forward * Why reading the Word before touching your phone changes the tone of your day Time Stamps 00:00 Intro: Faith and focus in a distracted generation 00:57 What Mister Productivity™ actually helps people do 01:58 How Mister Productivity™ got started 04:33 When productivity became more than to-do lists and apps 07:11 The first step for people who feel scattered 08:35 Defining productivity in seasons of illness or limitation 10:55 Stop defaulting to “I can’t” 15:33 The easiest way to fight distraction is to go analog 19:17 What to do when you are not feeling it 21:52 Busy is not the same as productive 23:12 How Mister Productivity™ stays grounded in Christ 25:42 Where to connect with Mister Productivity™ Key Takeaways * Productivity is personal, and it has to fit your real life * You do not have to copy somebody else’s system to make progress * “I can’t” is often a default response, not a proven fact * Writing things down on paper can help break the cycle of digital distraction * Sometimes stopping is wiser than forcing bad work * Being busy and being productive are not the same thing * For believers, staying grounded starts with prayer and the Word Connect with Michael Struczewski A.K.A. Mister Productivity™ 🌐 Website: ⁠https://misterproductivity.com/ [https://misterproductivity.com/] 📱 Social: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/misterproductivity/], ⁠⁠⁠YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@MisterProductivity],⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/markstruczewski/], X.com [https://x.com/MarkStruczewski], ⁠TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@mark.struczewski?lang=en] 💪 Free Productivity Scorecard: Available on his website [https://misterproductivity.com/] 🎤 Podcast: The Mister Productivity™ Podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mister-productivity-podcast/id1257109620] Connect with Jim 1. 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/] 2. 🎙️ Ask a Question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com/ask⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/ask] 3. 📱 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/leadwithjim] 4. ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lead with Jim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://youtube.com/@leadwithjim] 5. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim] Support & Engage with the Show ✅ Subscribe to The Unshakable Life wherever you listen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grace-in-the-grind/id1767405179] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/show/1nw8OCTdwQAqjx0hzuRQQM?si=6038435315bd4bde] | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠iHeartRadio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://iheart.com/podcast/260758213/] ✅ Leave a 5-star review if this episode encouraged your faith. ✅ For more faith-driven leadership content, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [www.leadwithjim.com]. Thanks for listening! Never miss an episode of The Unshakable Life. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app—and if this resonated, share it with a friend who needs the tools to develop an Unshakable Life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

If You Never Heal It, It Will Show Up in How You Lead

Description A lot of leadership problems do not start on the outside.They start underneath the surface. It is easy to focus on strategy, performance, and productivity while ignoring the deeper issues that quietly shape how we lead. But when you do not know yourself, have not dealt with what is driving you, or keep running without healthy rhythms, it will eventually show up in your leadership. In this episode, Jim sits down with Greg Woodard, author of Leadership From Within: Navigating the Path Toward Soul-Driven Success, for a thoughtful conversation about self-leadership, trauma, personality, sustainable rhythms, and what it looks like to lead from a healthy internal place. Together, Jim and Greg talk about the gap between who you are and how you lead, why personality and past experiences matter more than most people realize, how unaddressed trauma leaks into relationships and leadership, and why healthy rhythms are not optional if you want to lead for the long haul. They also talk about perfectionism, fear, imposter syndrome, and the simple truth that sometimes growth begins when you stop overthinking and finally move. If you have been feeling stuck, stretched, or aware that something deeper may be affecting the way you show up, this episode will help you slow down, look inward, and lead with greater intention. In This Episode, You Will Learn * Why self-awareness is one of the foundations of healthy leadership * How personality, wiring, and past experiences affect the way you lead * What happens when trauma goes unaddressed in a leader’s life * Why unhealthy inner wounds always spill into relationships * How Greg built sustainable rhythms during high-pressure military service * The difference between spiritual practices for others and spiritual care for yourself * Why leaders must protect their own soul instead of waiting for someone else to do it * How perfectionism and fear keep people from moving forward * Why action matters more than endless preparation when it comes to growth Time Stamps 00:00 Intro and why internal leadership matters 00:27 Meet Greg Woodard and his background in military chaplaincy 02:58 Greg’s new book, Leadership From Within 03:46 The gap between who you are and how you lead 04:20 Why knowing your wiring matters in leadership 06:25 Tools like DISC, Enneagram, StrengthsFinder, and self-awareness 07:19 How childhood experiences and attachment shape adult leadership 09:05 Trauma, unhealed wounds, and the impact on relationships and leadership 12:53 Self-imposed pressure, transition, and slowing down after military life 15:30 Walking, reflection, and making space for healthier rhythms 16:48 Why Jesus modeled a slower, more intentional pace 17:36 Why leaders must prioritize their own soul care 18:42 Greg’s framework for rhythms and sustainable leadership 20:15 The four rhythms: relational, physical, emotional, and spiritual 22:15 False rhythms and doing spiritual work for others while neglecting yourself 22:56 What to do when you feel stuck, limited, or afraid 23:24 Why leaders have to move before clarity fully comes 24:27 Perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and finishing what you start 26:16 Where to connect with Greg and learn more about the book Key Takeaways * Healthy leadership starts with knowing yourself. * Your personality, past, and wiring affect how you lead. * Trauma that is never addressed will leak into leadership and relationships. * Sustainable leadership requires intentional rhythms. * Leaders must care for their own soul instead of waiting for permission. * Spiritual activity is not the same as spiritual health. * Perfectionism can quietly keep you stuck. * Sometimes the next step is not more thinking. It is movement. Connect with Greg Woodard 🌐 Website: https://www.gregwoodard.com/leadership-from-within [https://www.gregwoodard.com/leadership-from-within] 📱 Social: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/gregoryswoodard/], ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregoryswoodard/],⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/gregorywoodard] ⁠ Connect with Jim 1. 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.leadwithjim.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/] 2. 🎙️ Ask a Question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠leadwithjim.com/ask⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.leadwithjim.com/ask] 3. 📱 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@leadwithjim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/leadwithjim] 4. ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lead with Jim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://youtube.com/@leadwithjim] 5. 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