Scorekeeping is toxic - stop it!

Mistakes - Money, Money, Money

Jeff and Marci talk about finances and how getting a coach and educating yourselves as soon as possible is the key to success! Even before marriage!  #marriageCouseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecouseling] #PinkFloyd [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pinkfloyd] #Money [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/money] #opposites [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/opposites] #AndyStanley [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/andystanley] #NorthPoint [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/northpoint] #Wisdom [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/wisdom] #DaveRamsey [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/daveramsey] #CrownMinistries [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/crownministries] #HopeDeferredMakesTheHeartSick [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/hopedeferredmakestheheartsick] #MoneyMatters [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/moneymatters] #JeffHolmes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/jeffholmes] #TheKindFaith [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/thekindfaith]

Triggers! Don't abuse them

Jeff and Marci continue the conversation of things they wish they would have know earlier in their marriage. The ins and outs of Triggers   #Listening [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/listening] #QuickToHear [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/quicktohear] #Triggers [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/triggers] #Mistakes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/mistakes] #Conflict [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/conflict] #RyanGosling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/ryangosling] #SNL [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/snl] #woke [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/woke] #EmotionalFlooding [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/emotionalflooding] #Trauma [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/trauma] #Football [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/football] #DowntonAbby [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/downtonabby] #FightOrFlight [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/fightorflight] #Gottman [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/gottman] #JohnandJulieGottman [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/johnandjuliegottman] #PugetSound [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pugetsound] #Italiana [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/italiana] #Trigger [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/trigger] #Triggered [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/triggered] #Irrational [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/irrational] #CognitiveImpairment [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/cognitiveimpairment] #SpecializedBicycles [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/specializedbicycles] #SpecializedBikes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/specializedbikes] #TakeATimeOut [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/takeatimeout] #Breathe [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/breathe] #WhoopBand [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/whoopband] #AppleWatch [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/applewatch] #Fitbit [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/fitbit] #Terrorized [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/terrorized] #Terrified [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/terrified] #Panicked [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/panicked] #Flooded [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/flooded] #StarWars [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/starwars] #TimeOut [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/timeout] #Narcissism [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/narcissism] #NarcissisticSupply [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/narcissisticsupply] #ChrisVoss [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/chrisvoss] #MasterClass [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/masterclass] #Negotiator [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/negotiator] #TheLateNightFMRadioDJVoice [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/thelatenightfmradiodjvoice] #BarryWhite [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/barrywhite] #Pray [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pray] #Prayer [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/prayer] #Abuse [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/abuse] #Counseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/counseling] #MarriageCounseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecounseling] #Victim [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/victim] #ActiveListenning [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/activelistenning] #Mirroring [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/mirroring] #TheKindFaith [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/thekindfaith] #PastorJeffHolmes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pastorjeffholmes]

More Mistakes! Yikes! Educate yourself early!

Learn Together: We didn’t and it cost us! This one’s not obvious.  Score keeping is an obvious miss as is fighting for right.  However,  this episode discusses a miss many of us simply miss.  Tune in with Marci and Jeff as they talk together about mistakes they made and help you avoid making the same ones.   Jeff and Marci continue the conversations regarding the mistakes they made in their marriage.  This week focusses on Educating your self with your spouse early.   #MarriageCounseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecounseling] #Test [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/test] #Proverbs12 [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/proverbs12] :15 #TheWayOfAFool [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/thewayofafool] #PrepareTest [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/preparetest] #DaveRamsey [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/daveramsey] #Myers [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/myers] -Briggs #StrengthFinders [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/strengthfinders] #Enneagram [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/enneagram] #Gift [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/gift] #DISC [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/disc] #Globe [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/globe] #Polarized [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/polarized] #depolarization [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/depolarization] #Opposites [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/opposites] #Battery [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/battery] #GarySmalley [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/garysmalley] #CrownMinistries [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/crownministries] #CosmoMagazine [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/cosmomagazine] #CosmopolitanMagazine [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/cosmopolitanmagazine] #MarieKondo [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/mariekondo] #joy [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/joy] #EducateYourself [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/educateyourself] #EducationIsGoodForMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/educationisgoodformarriage] #TakeClassesTogether [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/takeclassestogether] #Pre [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pre] -engagementCounseling #counseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/counseling]

Scorekeeping is toxic - stop it!

Are you keeping score of your spouse's shortcomings? Jeff and Marci talk about just how toxic that is to your marriage.   #passiveagressive [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/passiveagressive] #FerdinandTheBull [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/ferdinandthebull] #Gaming [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/gaming] #scorekeeping [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/scorekeeping] #winningAnArgument [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/winninganargument] #Cholesteral [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/cholesteral] #memoryIsPlastic [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/memoryisplastic] #BiPass [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/bipass] #tripleByPass [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/triplebypass] #plaque [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/plaque] #selfishness [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/selfishness] #hardeningOfTheArteries [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/hardeningofthearteries] #VideoGames [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/videogames] #marriageCounseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecounseling] #marriage [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriage] #1Corinthians13 [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/1corinthians13] :4-7

Don't do this! Memory is Plastic

What do Yosemite, Miramar Airbase and Malcom Gladwell have in common?  You’ll have to tune in to this episode because Jeff and Marci are talking about avoiding the mistakes they made.  We kick it off with some honest conversation about fighting to be right.   Love each other with genuine affection, take delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:8   The Evangelism Linebacker - YouTube   Free Brian Williams - Revisionist History Podcastrevisionisthistory.com ›  Listen to “Free Brian Williams” Season 3 Episode 4 of The Revisionist History Podcast with Malcolm Gladwell.   #MalcolmGladwell [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/malcolmgladwell] #couplescounseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/couplescounseling] #RevisionistHistory [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/revisionisthistory] #EvangelismLinebacker [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/evangelismlinebacker] #OldTestament [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/oldtestament] #PrideGoesBeforeTheFall [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/pridegoesbeforethefall] #Proverbs [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/proverbs] #ReleaseYourRightToBeRight [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/releaseyourrighttoberight] #WalkHumbly [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/walkhumbly] #Romans12 [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/romans12] :8 #MiramarAirShow [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/miramarairshow] #GoNavy [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/gonavy] #Memory [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/memory] #Triggers [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/triggers] #maritaltriggers [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/maritaltriggers] #letGoOfOldHabits [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/letgoofoldhabits] #couplescounseling [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/couplescounseling] #lifelessons [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lifelessons] #lifeisgood [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lifeisgood] #lifecoach [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lifecoach] #relationshipgoals [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipgoals] #relatable [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relatable] #relationshipquotes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipquotes] #couplequotes [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/couplequotes] #couplegoals [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/couplegoals] #relationshipadvice [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipadvice] #christiancouples [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christiancouples] #christiancommunity [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christiancommunity] #relationshipproblems [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipproblems] #counselorsofinstagram [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/counselorsofinstagram] #counselingworks [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/counselingworks] #bettertogether [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/bettertogether] #thekindfaith [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/thekindfaith] #kindnessmatters [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/kindnessmatters] #kindnessiscontagious [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/kindnessiscontagious]