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30 Years Married: Why Most Couples Are Living TOGETHER But Don't Know Each Other

41 min · 20 de may de 2026
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In this powerful episode of unbroken podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Rami Baitie - corporate trainer, veteran radio personality, lifelong DJ, and a man who has been married to the same woman for 30 years. Rami opens up about the truth nobody tells young couples: that lasting marriage isn't about chemistry - it's about intentionality, grace, and the daily decision to live with your partner, not alongside them. From being a painfully shy stammerer who couldn't even say his own name… to becoming one of Ghana's most recognised radio voices… to being chased and proposed to by the woman who would become his wife - Rami's story is unfiltered, vulnerable, and brutally honest. CHAPTERS * 00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting Rami the DJ * 00:01:55 The Power of Passion: DJing for Four Decades * 00:09:16 Overcoming Stammering Through Radio * 00:06:54 How We Met: She Chased Me * 00:14:22 Early Marriage: Life Happened * 00:04:44 The Grace of God and Intentional Love * 00:19:06 Managing Disagreements: The Kiss Before You Leave * 00:24:23 Living With vs Living Alongside Your Partner * 00:27:57 Keeping Romance Alive: Cards, Date Nights, and Small Gestures * 00:35:34 Preparing for the Empty Nest ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ABOUT GUEST Rami Baitie - prominent Ghanaian media personality, communication expert, and educator IG: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rami-baitie-60b19866/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rami-baitie-60b19866/] ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ [https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/] ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you

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