The Stories Vietnam Veterans Never Told with Filmmaker Sid Holmes

The Stories Vietnam Veterans Never Told with Filmmaker Sid Holmes

Filmmaker Sid Holmes joins Untold Valor to discuss The Wait, his powerful documentary chronicling the lives of Vietnam veterans beyond the battlefield. Rather than beginning with combat, Sid explores who these men were before they served, revealing how childhood, military service, and the journey home shaped the rest of their lives. The conversation highlights the importance of preserving veterans' stories, the healing power of sharing difficult experiences, and why no veteran should ever suffer in silence.  Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode: The Wait – Why Sid created his Vietnam documentary Vietnam Experience – Following veterans from enlistment through homecoming Healing Through Storytelling – Why sharing experiences can be therapeutic From Film to Stage – Turning veteran stories into a live production Hope & Resources – Encouragement for veterans to seek support 0:00 – Intro 1:19 – Why Sid wanted to tell Vietnam veterans' stories 3:20 –Why the film begins with childhood 9:16 – Veterans opening up through conversation 10:37 – Powerful veteran stories 14:06 – The many different paths that led men to Vietnam 16:30 – Adapting The Wait into a stage play 19:39 – Sid's message to veterans and their families Sid Holmes Learn more about Sid HERE [https://docs.google.com/document/d/130VrGCSBIX3fSEyIUgJLLgyfwKTw5ELf/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=118442068585128500668&rtpof=true&sd=true] EPISODE LINKS Check out Sid’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@afamreport/videos [https://www.youtube.com/@afamreport/videos] The Weight: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_zOZMAf8ec [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_zOZMAf8ec] The Stage Play: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wo3VIMzNmg8&t=9s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wo3VIMzNmg8&t=9s] Articles about The Weight: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1keX1Q6MLqv-3SUyOAWOzvSL1rkEOcDHi/view?usp=sharing [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1keX1Q6MLqv-3SUyOAWOzvSL1rkEOcDHi/view?usp=sharing] https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_dh3HkLuX2rtSi906LQKjOsZQ8zhY563/view?usp=sharing [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_dh3HkLuX2rtSi906LQKjOsZQ8zhY563/view?usp=sharing] MORE RESOURCES Need immediate help? Contact the Veterans Crisis Line via phone, text or online chat. Dial 988 then Press 1 or text 838255 or use the online chat at https://bit.ly/3OunXzg [https://bit.ly/3OunXzg] Voice & Vision: https://bit.ly/3miwFoy [https://bit.ly/3miwFoy] CompeerCORPS: https://compeerfriends.org/compeercorps [https://bit.ly/3GgKryU] Be a Volunteer for CompeerCORPS: Voice and Vision, Inc | CompeerCORPS Volunteer Application [https://forms.office.com/r/fVsbeeTqjC] Be a Peer for CompeerCORPS:  Voice and Vision, Inc | Compeer & CompeerCORPS Referral Application [https://forms.office.com/r/nNPGB3afWz] Information on how to apply for VA Healthcare Benefits from anywhere in the USA: https://bit.ly/40PtrrN [https://bit.ly/40PtrrN] or call 877-222-8387 (M-F 8am-8pm EST) To apply for veteran’s benefits and find resources in Pennsylvania veterans need to contact their County Office of Veterans Affairs as listed in this document: https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS [https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS] View more about PA’s resources for veterans:  https://bit.ly/416cf0Q [https://bit.ly/416cf0Q]

Best of Season 3: Leadership, Purpose, and Employment After Service (Pt 2)

In this special "Best of Season 3 – Part 2" episode of Untold Valor, we revisit powerful conversations about leadership, resilience, and finding purpose after military service. Bart Womack shares lessons on embracing change and helping others reach their potential. Jeremy Stalnecker reflects on his Marine Corps experience, personal transition, and the mission behind Mighty Oaks. Dartanyun Wilkins-Harvey discusses the challenges veterans face after service and how helping fellow veterans find employment has become his calling. Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode: * The importance of embracing change and understanding the "why" *  Lessons in leadership and accountability *  Finding purpose after military service *  The value of veteran-to-veteran support *  Helping veterans overcome barriers to employment 0:00 - Intro 0:40 - Bart on leadership, change, and accountability 5:12 - Jeremy on military service and Mighty Oaks 10:43 - Dartanyun on transition, employment, and helping veterans succeed EPISODE LINKS From Service to Storytelling: CSM Bart Womack’s Story (Part 1) [https://untoldvalor.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/17028919-from-service-to-storytelling-csm-bart-womack-s-story-part-1] The Mighty Oaks Foundation: Saving Lives, Restoring Families and Changing Legacies with Jeremy Stalnecker (Part 1) [https://untoldvalor.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/15430664-the-mighty-oaks-foundation-saving-lives-restoring-families-and-changing-legacies-with-jeremy-stalnecker-part-1] DVOP: Helping Veterans Find Their Next Step with Dartanyun Wilkins-Harvey [https://untoldvalor.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/16824606-dvop-helping-veterans-find-their-next-step-with-dartanyun-wilkins-harvey] EPISODE RESOURCES Need immediate help? Contact the Veterans Crisis Line via phone, text or online chat. Dial 988 then Press 1 or text 838255 or use the online chat at https://bit.ly/3OunXzg [https://bit.ly/3OunXzg] Voice & Vision: https://bit.ly/3miwFoy [https://bit.ly/3miwFoy] CompeerCORPS: https://bit.ly/3GgKryU [https://bit.ly/3GgKryU] Information on how to apply for VA Healthcare Benefits from anywhere in the USA: https://bit.ly/40PtrrN [https://bit.ly/40PtrrN] or call 877-222-8387 (M-F 8am-8pm EST) To apply for veteran’s benefits and find resources in Pennsylvania veterans need to contact their County Office of Veterans Affairs as listed in this document: https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS [https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS] View more about PA’s resources for veterans:  https://bit.ly/416cf0Q [https://bit.ly/416cf0Q]

30 Years of Fighting for Women Veterans with Dr. Cathy Bennett-Santos

In this episode of Untold Valor, Dr. Cathy Bennett-Santos shares her powerful journey from Army medic to nationally recognized advocate for women veterans impacted by military sexual trauma. She discusses the challenges many veterans face after service, the evolution of support systems within the VA, and why peer-to-peer connection can be life-changing. Dr. Santos also opens up about spirituality, healing, and the importance of finding support instead of suffering in silence.  Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode: * Personal Story: Dr. Santos’ journey * Women Veterans: Advocacy and progress * Military Trauma: Challenges after service * Peer Support: Veterans helping veterans * Mental Health: Healing and recovery * Breaking Silence: Why conversations matter 0:00 – Intro 1:39 – Get to know Dr. Santos  5:04 – On the other side of the oath 6:53 – Creating a platform for women veterans 8:26 – The struggle to speak up 11:01 – The importance of peer-to-peer veteran support 12:52 – Dr. Santos’ encouragement to veterans Dr. Cathy Bennett-Santos Learn more about Dr. Santos HERE [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1zD4KXNoaaHdRBu6mSwxcYH-asHiEecJ8/view?usp=sharing] Get a copy of My Desert Storm: https://www.amazon.com/-/he/Phillyvet/dp/B0DRMHW6R6 [https://www.amazon.com/-/he/Phillyvet/dp/B0DRMHW6R6] EPISODE RESOURCES Need immediate help? Contact the Veterans Crisis Line via phone, text or online chat. Dial 988 then Press 1 or text 838255 or use the online chat at https://bit.ly/3OunXzg [https://bit.ly/3OunXzg] Voice & Vision: https://bit.ly/3miwFoy [https://bit.ly/3miwFoy] CompeerCORPS: https://bit.ly/3GgKryU [https://bit.ly/3GgKryU] Information on how to apply for VA Healthcare Benefits from anywhere in the USA: https://bit.ly/40PtrrN [https://bit.ly/40PtrrN] or call 877-222-8387 (M-F 8am-8pm EST) To apply for veteran’s benefits and find resources in Pennsylvania veterans need to contact their County Office of Veterans Affairs as listed in this document: https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS [https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS] View more about PA’s resources for veterans:  https://bit.ly/416cf0Q [https://bit.ly/416cf0Q]

Best of Season 3: Veterans on Advocacy, Identity, and Mental Health (Pt 1)

In this “Best of Season 3” episode of Untold Valor, we revisit powerful conversations about mental health, transition, and rediscovering purpose after military service. Myra shares why veterans must advocate for themselves and seek support without shame. Darrin reflects on the lasting emotional weight of traumatic experiences as a young medic. And Kat opens up about the difficult transition of being medically retired from the Air Force and rebuilding her identity through service in a new way. Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode: * Self-advocacy after service * PTSD, anxiety, and mental health management * The pressure of trauma as a young medic * Why veterans need connection and support * Rebuilding purpose after medical retirement * The culture shock of civilian life and school 0:00 - Intro 0:51 - Myra on advocating for yourself after service 4:16 - Darrin on trauma, pressure, and mental health  11:12 - Kat on medical retirement and rebuilding purpose EPISODE LINKS There Is Always Hope with Myra Fields-Rouse [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/15276794] No Problem Is Too Big: Finding The Courage To Seek Support featuring Darrin Henry [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/16255204] When One Door Closes: Strength In New Beginnings with Kat Kirkman [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/16328217] EPISODE RESOURCES Need immediate help? Contact the Veterans Crisis Line via phone, text or online chat. Dial 988 then Press 1 or text 838255 or use the online chat at https://bit.ly/3OunXzg [https://bit.ly/3OunXzg] Voice & Vision: https://bit.ly/3miwFoy [https://bit.ly/3miwFoy] CompeerCORPS: https://bit.ly/3GgKryU [https://bit.ly/3GgKryU] Information on how to apply for VA Healthcare Benefits from anywhere in the USA: https://bit.ly/40PtrrN [https://bit.ly/40PtrrN] or call 877-222-8387 (M-F 8am-8pm EST) To apply for veteran’s benefits and find resources in Pennsylvania veterans need to contact their County Office of Veterans Affairs as listed in this document: https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS [https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS] View more about PA’s resources for veterans:  https://bit.ly/416cf0Q [https://bit.ly/416cf0Q]

Best of Season 2: Recovery, Turning Points, and the Power of Support (Pt 2)

This “Best of Season 2” episode highlights powerful moments of recovery, resilience, and life-changing support systems. Michael shares how his difficult transition out of the military led him to a new purpose, helping fellow veterans find meaningful careers. Dr. Maio reflects on the “three Jens” who entered his life at critical moments and helped save it. And finally, Lena opens up about the mentors who recognized her struggles and guided her toward healing and growth. Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode: * Transition struggles after military service * Finding purpose through career coaching * The hidden cycle of depression and isolation * Life-saving power of connection and intervention * Mentorship, faith, and support systems 0:00 - Intro 1:16 - Michael Bate on career transition challenges 5:41 - Dr. Nick Maio’s “three Jens” story 11:55 - Lena Fowler on mentorship and PTSD Featured Episodes: Finding Your Path After the Military with Career Specialist Michael Bate [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/13880838] Holding Onto Hope with Dr. Nick Maio [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/14241542] Finding Strength in Community and Faith with Lena Fowler [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1871691/episodes/14733914] EPISODE RESOURCES Need immediate help? Contact the Veterans Crisis Line via phone, text or online chat. Dial 988 then Press 1 or text 838255 or use the online chat at https://bit.ly/3OunXzg [https://bit.ly/3OunXzg] Voice & Vision: https://bit.ly/3miwFoy [https://bit.ly/3miwFoy] CompeerCORPS: https://bit.ly/3GgKryU [https://bit.ly/3GgKryU] Information on how to apply for VA Healthcare Benefits from anywhere in the USA: https://bit.ly/40PtrrN [https://bit.ly/40PtrrN] or call 877-222-8387 (M-F 8am-8pm EST) To apply for veteran’s benefits and find resources in Pennsylvania veterans need to contact their County Office of Veterans Affairs as listed in this document: https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS [https://bit.ly/3m8PBWS] View more about PA’s resources for veterans:  https://bit.ly/416cf0Q [https://bit.ly/416cf0Q]