Many Adults Are Learning What Children Needed First

What We've Lost: Haitian Identity, Culture & Returning to Our Roots | With Kimberly Lauriston, LCSW

In this episode of W Ap Koute M, M Ap Koute W, I sit down with Kimberly Lauriston, LCSW-S, to explore Haitian identity, culture, ancestry, spirituality, and healing. Together, we reflect on what it was like growing up Haitian in the United States, the traditions that connected us to our culture, and the ways migration can shape our sense of identity. We discuss the wisdom passed down through our grandparents, the cultural practices that have been lost over time, and why so many people in our generation are searching for ways to reconnect with their roots. This conversation also explores the relationship between culture, faith, community, ancestral knowledge, and healing. We talk about what happens when traditions are not passed down, the importance of preserving cultural knowledge, and how returning to our roots can help us better understand ourselves. If you have ever wondered what parts of Haitian culture have been lost, what our elders carried, or how we can preserve our identity for future generations, this conversation is for you. Lakay Within is our ongoing community gathering where we come together to reflect, heal, and grow in a safe, culturally grounded space.” Then it makes sense when you invite them to join the community or sign up for the next gathering. Let’s give them context so they know why it’s meaningful! Join the free Lakay Within Community:https://chat.whatsapp.com/KOhFWacGTPGGwkQ6UqDLjW [https://chat.whatsapp.com/KOhFWacGTPGGwkQ6UqDLjW] The next Lakay Within virtual gathering takes place June 9th at 7 PM CT. Learn more about Lakay Within, and therapy services:www.transformativehealingpathways.com [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/] About Kimberly Lauriston, LCSW-S Kimberly Lauriston is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Clinical Director of Inmost Ease Counseling & Behavioral Health, and consultant with Elevation Coaching & Consulting. She provides teletherapy services in Texas and Florida. Website: www.inmosteasecounseling.com [http://www.inmosteasecounseling.com/] Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or mental health treatment. Aurelie Zephir is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering therapy services in California and Texas. Kimberly Lauriston is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker offering teletherapy services in Texas and Florida. Get full access to Aurelie Zephir LMFT at aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe [https://aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Strong, Resilient… and Still Carrying So Much

In this special video episode of W Ap Koute M, M Ap Koute W, I sit down with Dr. Gaetane Saint-Victor for a deeply honest conversation about healing in the Black and Haitian communities. Together, we explore the emotional weight many people carry silently while still appearing “strong” to the world. We talk about the “strong Black woman” archetype, perfectionism, survival mode, vulnerability, generational trauma, therapy resistance in our communities, and the pressure so many people feel to keep going no matter what they are carrying internally. We also discuss how culture, identity, faith, and past experiences shape the way people understand healing — and why asking for help can feel so difficult for many of us. This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt emotionally exhausted while still showing up for everyone else, struggled to slow down, or questioned whether they are allowed to prioritize their own healing. I truly believe this episode will resonate with so many people in our community, and I hope it reminds you that healing does not make you weak — it allows you to finally put down what you were never meant to carry alone. The next Lakay Within virtual gathering will take place on June 9th at 7 PM CT. Lakay Within is a community healing space created for reflection, emotional wellness, and reconnecting with yourself in a gentle and supportive environment. You can learn more about Lakay Within, individual therapy services, workshops, and upcoming offerings on my website [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/] Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or mental health treatment. Aurelie Zephir is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering therapy services in California and Texas. Get full access to Aurelie Zephir LMFT at aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe [https://aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Many Adults Are Learning What Children Needed First

There’s a common belief that inner child healing is about being overly emotional, avoiding responsibility, or “coddling” yourself. But that’s not what it is. In this episode, I explore what inner child work actually means—and why so many adults are learning emotional skills later in life that they needed much earlier. For the first time, I’m joined by a very special guest: my daughter. Through our conversation, you’ll hear what emotional awareness can look like when it’s nurtured early—naming feelings, expressing them safely, and learning how to regulate. Afterward, I reflect on what happens when those tools are missing, and how that can show up later in life as: * anxiety * people pleasing * emotional shutdown * fear of rejection * difficulty trusting This episode is a gentle but powerful reminder: Healing is not about going backward. It’s about responding differently now. Lakay Within If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to invite you into Lakay Within. Next gathering: May 12th Disclaimer This podcast is educational and not a substitute for therapy. Aurelie Zephir offers therapy in California and Texas [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/]. Get full access to Aurelie Zephir LMFT at aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe [https://aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

When Trauma Shows Up as Anxiety and Depression (What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You)

Sometimes what we call anxiety or depression is not random. It’s not something separate. It’s something your body has been holding for a long time. In this episode, I explore how trauma can live in the body and show up as anxiety, panic, emotional numbness, or depression — often without us realizing it. We talk about: * what trauma actually is (beyond the event itself) * how the nervous system responds to overwhelm * the difference between activation (anxiety) and shutdown (depression) * why your body may still be “stuck” in survival mode * and why so many people don’t recognize trauma in themselves This episode is not about diagnosing. It’s about awareness. Because sometimes the question is not: “What’s wrong with me?” But rather: “What has my body been holding?” Lakay Within If this episode resonated with you, I want to gently invite you into Lakay Within — a space for Haitian women to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with themselves in community. Next gathering: May 12th [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/lakaywithin] at 7:00 PM CT virtual Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. Aurelie Zephir offers therapy services in California and Texas. Learn more here [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/] Get full access to Aurelie Zephir LMFT at aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe [https://aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Surviving Is Not the Same as Healing

In this episode, I explore a question that has been sitting with me lately: Why is it so hard for so many of us — especially in the Haitian community — to ask for help? Many people are carrying anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, chronic stress, and emotional pain… while still functioning every day. They are going to work, taking care of their families, showing up for everyone else, and because they are still “doing life,” they convince themselves that they must be okay. But surviving is not the same as healing. In this episode, I talk about: * why survival is often mistaken for wellness * what functional anxiety and depression can look like * how the body holds what the mind tries to avoid * fear around therapy and what it may uncover * the deep trust issues that exist in our culture * why therapy can feel unfamiliar or unsafe * and why faith and therapy do not cancel each other out This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and ask yourself: What have I been carrying that I’ve convinced myself is normal? Because healing doesn’t only belong to the people who have “fallen apart.” It also belongs to the people who have been holding it together for far too long. Lakay Within If part of this episode resonated with you because you’ve been needing a safe place to slow down and begin, I want to gently invite you into Lakay Within — a space created for Haitian women to reconnect with themselves, reflect, and heal in community. 🗓️ Next gathering: April 14th More details can be found on my website [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/lakaywithin] Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy. Aurelie Zephir offers therapy services in California and Texas. Learn more here: Website [https://www.transformativehealingpathways.com/] Get full access to Aurelie Zephir LMFT at aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe [https://aureliezephir.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]