What about women?
This transcript was auto-generated by Substack and may contain errors. (00:00:01): I'm Erika, (00:00:02): and I started this because I think we have an opportunity to talk about a lot of (00:00:05): things. (00:00:05): It's a hobby. (00:00:06): I have another job. (00:00:07): I work in finance. (00:00:09): But I really wanted to try to open up more of a discussion. (00:00:15): I don't want to be teaching and instructing all the time. (00:00:18): I don't feel like I know enough about things to be telling people how things work. (00:00:24): The only thing that I'm able to share are my own experiences. (00:00:27): But... (00:00:29): More than that, (00:00:29): I think that often we're taught not to talk about health, (00:00:33): not to talk about mental health, (00:00:35): not to ask questions. (00:00:38): How many of you have been to the doctor and the doctor has said, oh, have you been on WebMD? (00:00:43): You know, where they kind of dismiss whatever you come in with. (00:00:47): And I think that's wrong. (00:00:49): And I think that if we have more discussions, (00:00:52): if we stop treating some of these things like taboo, (00:00:55): if we stop treating some of these things like challenging topics, (00:01:01): then we can open up discussions and help each other, (00:01:03): not just with health and mental health, (00:01:06): but with physical fitness, (00:01:07): with aging, (00:01:08): with relationships, (00:01:09): with maybe giving ourselves a little bit more forgiveness and grace. (00:01:14): At the end of the day, parenting challenges. (00:01:17): If you have kids, (00:01:18): relationship challenges, (00:01:19): whether you're single or married, (00:01:22): I think that having that kind of community and having discussions around it is (00:01:26): really helpful. (00:01:28): And I think that what's not helpful is when people are taught that they shouldn't (00:01:31): be talking about things. (00:01:32): I think that there are influencers that will talk to you about traveling and (00:01:36): they'll talk to you about the clothes that you wear or the things that you should (00:01:40): eat or the way you should work out. (00:01:42): And all of it is really (00:01:45): clean and sanitized and perfect. (00:01:49): And it's more an image that's trying to sell you a lifestyle brand more than it is (00:01:56): an authentic discussion. (00:01:57): So I want to talk about all these topics like perimenopause and the horrible symptoms of (00:02:04): Um, (00:02:04): of all the things that women go through, (00:02:07): because I think it just is like a brick wall when you slam into it sometimes. (00:02:12): And if we can all ready each other by sharing our experiences for all the things (00:02:17): that we encounter in life, (00:02:18): then maybe we'll all be better off for it. (00:02:21): You know? (00:02:23): When I was in junior high, (00:02:24): middle school, (00:02:26): I definitely made some poor makeup decisions, (00:02:30): might have worn the wrong lipstick shade. (00:02:32): I think at one point in time, I bought some blue mascara because I thought that would be cute. (00:02:38): I had a haircut one time that really looked like a mushroom, (00:02:41): which is not ideal with a strong jawline. (00:02:45): Don't get me wrong, the girl did a great haircut. (00:02:48): I chose a haircut that wasn't really meant for my head shape. (00:02:52): And I had a friend that called me mushroom head for a while. (00:02:55): Now you look at girls that are the same age and they look better than I looked even (00:03:01): into my 20s because they have influencers that help them with their aesthetic, (00:03:06): that teach them how to do makeup. (00:03:08): They're more on trends with their fashion. (00:03:11): And my thought is, (00:03:14): why can't we have a better womanhood by sharing the same kind of quality tips with (00:03:22): each other and learning from each other? (00:03:24): So my goal is really to drag everyone from over to Substack where everything is (00:03:32): open and it's free because this is just a hobby. (00:03:34): And for us just to have a dialogue around different topics, (00:03:38): we can create a group chat if you'll want, (00:03:40): or when I post different topics, (00:03:42): you're welcome to comment, (00:03:44): discuss things in the comments. (00:03:46): And maybe we can learn things from each other. (00:03:48): Give me feedback on what you want to learn about, what you want to talk about. (00:03:52): If you have something that you've gone through, let's discuss it. (00:03:56): And that really is what I want to try to... (00:03:59): build with everyone here. (00:04:02): I know nothing about medicine. (00:04:04): The only thing I know is based on my own experience. (00:04:07): So if I add something here, (00:04:10): it's just based on what I've learned, (00:04:12): on the mistakes I made and not advocating for myself correctly or not knowing that (00:04:16): I should be advocating for myself correctly. (00:04:20): And the years that I went through of difficulty in dealing with that and how long (00:04:27): it took me to recover afterwards, (00:04:29): These are the kinds of things I want people to share because people don't always (00:04:34): expect to enter perimenopause when they're in their mid thirties, (00:04:38): but it happens. (00:04:39): And there are all these other things that we can talk about. (00:04:42): We can talk about relationships. (00:04:43): We can talk about fitness. (00:04:44): We can talk about parenting. (00:04:47): If you've got kids, if you can't hear the dog snoring, it's a miracle. (00:04:53): I just talk about divorce. (00:04:56): People go through all these things (00:04:58): It would be so nice to have a place where women can talk openly and not feel like (00:05:03): what they're discussing is taboo. (00:05:06): And so give feedback and let's all learn together. (00:05:09): But I wanted to make this video just to explain to you exactly what I'm trying to (00:05:15): accomplish right now, (00:05:16): what my goal is, (00:05:17): and see how we can move forward. (00:05:21): So anyway, I'm Erika. (00:05:22): Nice to meet you. (00:05:24): And I hope that we have lots of opportunities to talk about things down the road. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit whataboutwomen.substack.com [https://whataboutwomen.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]
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