25 Years Married & Still Going -The 5 Relationship Essentials That ACTUALLY Keep a Marriage Strong

Love Is The Antidote! On Choosing Love In A Challenging World

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2297756/fan_mail/new]  What if the most powerful thing you could do right now — in this country, in this climate — was love the people around you? That's what this episode is about. Krista is coming in hot for the Season finale of Why Am I Yelling? — musings from a middle-aged, menopausal mom — and she's not holding back. We're talking about what it feels like to watch hatred be normalized from the highest office in the land, what Hunter Biden said on the Friends Keep Secrets YouTube show that stopped her cold, and why she believes love isn't passive — it's the most radical protest available to us right now. Plus: we're celebrating ONE FULL YEAR of this podcast. 🎉 And then we're taking a summer break. But we're going out swinging. 💛 IN THIS EPISODE: → The State of Things — naming what's happening in this country, plainly → Hunter Biden's message: "The best way to protest is to love your family, love your friends, and love each other" → Why love is not soft — it's a direct challenge to a system built on division → THE LOVE TOOLKIT: 7 real, daily practices for choosing love when the world makes it hard → A heartfelt one-year anniversary celebration — and a summer send-off ❤️ YOUR LOVE TOOLKIT FROM THIS EPISODE: 1. The Intentional Dinner Table 2. The Love Letter Practice 3. The Neighbor Practice 4. Your Media Diet (protect your nervous system) 5. Love Out Loud — say the specific thing 6. The Micro-Kindness Practice 7. Loving Across Difference — the brave practice 🎙️ Why Am I Yelling? is a podcast for middle-aged moms who have a lot of feelings, zero patience for pretending otherwise, and a deep belief that honesty is more useful than perfection. Hosted by Krista. We'll be back in September. Until then — go love somebody. ❤️

"DON'T BLINK" On Graduations, Growing Up & Learning to Be Where You Are

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2297756/fan_mail/new] New episode of Why Am I Yelling? is live — and this one is called "Don't Blink" for a reason. We're talking about: ✨ The Milestone Paradox — why you feel grief when you get exactly what you wished for ⏳ Why time literally speeds up the older your kids get (there's actual science behind this and it's wild) 🛑 6 real tools to help you SLOW DOWN and actually be present for the moments that matter Spoiler: one of them takes 30 seconds a day and will make you ugly cry on your kid's 10th birthday. You're welcome. This episode is for every mom who has ever stood in a parking lot, or a kitchen, or a school gym... and felt time moving faster than she was ready for. Link in bio 🎙️💕 #WhyAmIYelling #MomPodcast #MomLife #YoungMoms #Parenting

Hook, Line, and No Sinker: Staying Calm When Parenting Gets a Little…Pointy

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2297756/fan_mail/new]    My husband called me on a Sunday afternoon "babe, Elias has a fish hook stuck in his nose, I'm just gonna pull it out." Um...NO!! But you guys...There was a fish hook. In his nose. The barb was in. And somehow — SOMEHOW — I did not completely fall apart.  In this episode of Why Am I Yelling?, I'm breaking down exactly what happened, why I didn't panic, and the six tools I now swear by when parenting goes sideways fast. We're talking about the difference between being a REACTOR and a RESPONDER in a crisis — and how you can actually build that skill before you need it. Whether your kid has ever had a fishing-related facial emergency or just the regular kind of chaos, this one's for you. 🎣👃 ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 — The fish hook. In the nose. I'm not joking. 1:00 — What actually happened (the full story) 7:00 — Reactor vs. Responder: what's the difference? 13:30 — 6 tools for staying calm in a parenting emergency 22:30 — The bigger picture: what we're really teaching our kids 26:30 — Wrap-up, cheat sheet & your listener challenge 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode of Why Am I Yelling? — new episodes every Friday. 💬 Drop a comment: what's the wildest parenting emergency YOU'VE survived? #WhyAmIYelling #ParentingPodcast #MomPodcast #EmergencyParenting #MenopauseMom #ParentingTips #CalmParenting #RealMomLife #PodcastForMoms #MenopausalMom #MiddleAge #Parenting

25 Years Married & Still Going -The 5 Relationship Essentials That ACTUALLY Keep a Marriage Strong

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2297756/fan_mail/new]  It's our SILVER ANNIVERSARY! 🥂✨ Twenty-five years ago, I said "I do" to a man who brought me daisies instead of roses on our first date. And today, I am celebrating the best decision I ever made. In this special episode, I'm exploring all five essentials from my book — Why Am I Yelling? Because...Relationship! — through the lens of what it actually takes to keep a marriage alive, thriving, and real across 25 years. We're talking about: 💬 Communication — why two different communicators can still build a beautiful life 💕 Intimacy — the kind Hollywood doesn't show you (and why familiarity is actually everything) 🤝 Respect — the non-negotiable that keeps two people growing instead of competing 🚧 Boundaries — the essential that almost broke us... and then saved us 🫶 Support — presence without agenda, and why it's the one you can't fake  #WhyAmIYelling #MarriageAdvice #Relationships #MenopausalMom #MiddleAge #25YearAnniversary #Love #SupportYourPartner #Respect #Intimacy #Communication

The Sandwich Generation Isn't A Metaphor - We're Literally Being Eaten Alive

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2297756/fan_mail/new] Are you a Gen X mom raising kids AND caring for aging parents — while navigating perimenopause or menopause? You're not alone, and this episode is for you. In this episode of Why Am I Yelling, we're talking about what it actually means to be the sandwich generation right now: the financial stress, the invisible labor of managing a parent's healthcare, the brain fog, the burnout — and what actually helps. ───────────────────────────────── WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE ───────────────────────────────── 00:00 — Cold open:  05:00 — Who we are: the Gen X context 11:00 — The real stressors (financial, health, mental load) 23:00 — 7 tools for the overwhelm 31:00 — Grief: anticipated and the unexpected ambush 41:00 — Gratitude (the kind that's actually earned) 47:00 — Closing: the yelling is love ───────────────────────────────── IN THIS EPISODE WE TALK ABOUT ───────────────────────────────── → The sandwich generation financial squeeze — supporting kids and aging parents at the same time → Perimenopause and menopause symptoms while caregiving → The invisible mental load of managing a parent's medical care → Anticipated grief: losing someone slowly while they're still here → Unexpected grief: mourning the life you thought you'd have by now → 7 practical tools to manage caregiver overwhelm → What real gratitude looks like in an impossibly full season ───────────────────────────────── YOU MIGHT LOVE THIS EPISODE IF... ───────────────────────────────── ✓ You're Gen X and feel like you're holding everything together with duct tape ✓ You have aging parents and kids at home simultaneously ✓ Perimenopause or menopause is part of your current reality ✓ You've cried at something small and couldn't explain why ✓ You need someone to say "this is genuinely hard" and actually mean it ───────────────────────────────── CONNECT + SUBSCRIBE ───────────────────────────────── If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to feel less alone — because those people are everywhere and they're usually pretty hard to spot from the outside. 🎙️ Subscribe so you never miss an episode 📲 Follow on Instagram: @whyamiyellingpod ───────────────────────────────── Why Am I Yelling is an independent podcast about real life in midlife — the mess, the grief, the gratitude, and the moments that make you wonder why you're yelling when really, you just love everyone so much it hurts. #WhyAmIYelling #SandwichGeneration #GenXMom #MidlifeWomen #Perimenopause #MenopausePodcast #CaregiversOfAging #AgingParents #MomPodcast #MentalLoad #GriefAndGratitude #GenXWomen #MidlifeMom #CaregiverSupport