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Finding Joy When All Hope is Lost

23 min · 14 de mar de 2026
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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564573/fan_mail/new] In Episode 10 of the 2026 “careless era” series, Annelise shares her personal burnout recovery and how joy can feel distant after years in survival mode, especially for high functioning autistic women. She explains how chronic masking, overload, and pressure can keep the nervous system in sympathetic urgency or dorsal shutdown, leaving little room for pleasure, desire, or curiosity, and contrasts this with ventral vagal regulation where calm, safety, and connection allow joy to emerge. She reframes joy as something that returns through small moments of safety and softness rather than as a reward for achievement, offering sensory and relational examples like quiet mornings, textures, rain, laughter without masking, and special interests. She closes by inviting listeners to join a waitlist for a small support space focused on boundaries, rumination, regulation, and rebuilding life without constant performance. 🤍 Coaching available for autistic & neurodivergent women ready for clarity, regulation, and self-trust. Book A Discovery Call [https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min] Instagram: @blossom.and.thrive.coaching Come Join the Conversation-Waitlist [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfANS9eY4_fyZrdZgSmmMP0K4xYiAN9kHB-ThMQmsLj7L9H1w/viewform?usp=header] Need support or feeling stuck? Book a Discovery Call 📞: https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min [https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min] Instagram 📱: @blossom.and.thrive.coaching **Disclaimer** I am not a mental health professional and I do not speak for everyone. I am simply a woman with AuDHD who wants to share experiences, stories, and knowledge.

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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564573/fan_mail/new] In Episode 10 of the 2026 “careless era” series, Annelise shares her personal burnout recovery and how joy can feel distant after years in survival mode, especially for high functioning autistic women. She explains how chronic masking, overload, and pressure can keep the nervous system in sympathetic urgency or dorsal shutdown, leaving little room for pleasure, desire, or curiosity, and contrasts this with ventral vagal regulation where calm, safety, and connection allow joy to emerge. She reframes joy as something that returns through small moments of safety and softness rather than as a reward for achievement, offering sensory and relational examples like quiet mornings, textures, rain, laughter without masking, and special interests. She closes by inviting listeners to join a waitlist for a small support space focused on boundaries, rumination, regulation, and rebuilding life without constant performance. 🤍 Coaching available for autistic & neurodivergent women ready for clarity, regulation, and self-trust. Book A Discovery Call [https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min] Instagram: @blossom.and.thrive.coaching Come Join the Conversation-Waitlist [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfANS9eY4_fyZrdZgSmmMP0K4xYiAN9kHB-ThMQmsLj7L9H1w/viewform?usp=header] Need support or feeling stuck? Book a Discovery Call 📞: https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min [https://calendly.com/blossomandthrivecoaching/30min] Instagram 📱: @blossom.and.thrive.coaching **Disclaimer** I am not a mental health professional and I do not speak for everyone. I am simply a woman with AuDHD who wants to share experiences, stories, and knowledge.

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