Turning Red: What Your Teen's Meltdowns Are Really Telling You | Mitchell Acton

Turning Red: What Your Teen's Meltdowns Are Really Telling You | Mitchell Acton

What if every time your teen shuts you out, they're not being difficult — they're actually developing exactly the way they should? Turning Red shows us why. Mei's red panda doesn't appear because she's broken — it appears because she's suppressing everything she's been taught not to feel. And that's exactly what Mitchell Acton, clinical director at Kane Counseling, sees play out with real families every day. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways 1. Parent from the Inside Out — Do your own emotional work before reacting to your teen. Why it works: If you were socially rejected at 13, your 13-year-old's struggles will trigger you — and you'll react to your wound, not their need. 2. Knock Before You Enter (Literally and Figuratively) — Contract with your teen for privacy before conflict arises. Why it works: Teens aren't shutting you out — they're building identity. Respecting that boundary keeps the door open for the conversations that matter. 3. Name Your Panda — Identify the messy, loud parts of yourself you've been suppressing. Why it works: You can't model emotional integration for your kids until you've practiced it yourself. Vulnerability is the most connecting thing a parent can offer. In this episode, Mitchell Acton — clinical director at Kane Counseling and licensed clinical social worker — joins Ryan to unpack what Turning Red gets startlingly right about adolescent development, family enmeshment, and why suppressed emotions always find a way out. Mitch's path mirrors the movie's arc: a natural "glue guy" who valued connection, struggled to find it, and eventually turned that pain into a career helping families navigate exactly what Mei and her mom couldn't. Using Turning Red as our lens, we explore why Mei's red panda is both a puberty metaphor and a symbol of every thought and feeling she learned wasn't safe to share — and what breaks that cycle across generations. HIGHLIGHTS * Why the red panda is actually a clinical-grade metaphor for puberty and suppressed adolescent emotion * The difference between empathy and enmeshment — and the one scene in Turning Red that shows enmeshment perfectly * Why your teen's peer relationships are developmentally essential (even when you don't love their friends) * What it means to "parent from the inside out" — and why your unresolved wounds become your kid's triggers * How generational patterns get passed down and what it takes to actually break them * The dad's quiet line in Turning Red that might be the most important parenting advice in the whole film ABOUT MITCHELL ACTON: Mitchell Acton is a licensed clinical social worker and the Clinical Director at Kane Counseling Center in the Salt Lake City area. With a Master of Social Work degree from the University of Utah, Mitch began his career working with at-risk teens at Gateway Academy in Draper. Known as the "glue guy" in his own friend group growing up, he now brings that same instinct for connection into his clinical work with families, couples, and individuals — specializing in adolescent development, emotion suppression, enmeshment, and healthy family systems. He's also a dad of three navigating all of this in real time. ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday.

Meet the Robinsons and Keep Moving Forward | Courtney Kern on Curiosity & Resilience

What if your biggest setbacks were secretly redirecting you to exactly where you're supposed to be? Meet the Robinsons shows us why. Lewis doesn't just lose — he fails publicly, repeatedly, and at the worst possible moments. But every failure is a forward step in disguise. That's the exact journey Courtney Kern has lived: from writing Keep Moving Forward as her college application essay to spending nearly 12 years inside the Walt Disney Company, watching ships launch and learning that curiosity — not a perfect plan — is what shapes your destiny. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways (Pulled directly from episode content) 1. Face Rejection Like Lewis – Lewis tracks 124 adoption rejections by name, not by shame. When you're in a job search, a pitch cycle, or a tough season, keep the tally — because the number means you're still in the game. Why it works: Rejection is data, not verdict. The right "family" is still ahead. 2. Reframe the Failure Before It Becomes Goob – When things go wrong, find someone to help you see it differently — a partner, a friend, a mentor. Goob had no one to reframe his baseball miss, and he wallowed for 30 years. You don't have to. Why it works: The story you tell yourself about failure determines whether it becomes a pivot or a prison. 3. Stay Curious, Keep Moving Forward – Don't just look at the result — ask why, like Olaf. Curiosity isn't passive; it's the active force that keeps you becoming instead of just being. Why it works: Complacency stops the clock. Curiosity keeps the path alive. In this episode, Courtney Kern — Disney Cruise Line analyst, co-host of the Disney book podcast Book of the Mouse Club, and Walt Disney Company insider — joins Ryan to unpack the underrated gem that is Meet the Robinsons. Her personal journey mirrors Lewis's story: a lifelong Disney fan who wrote Keep Moving Forward as her senior yearbook quote, then spent over a decade inside the Company that inspired that motto — even helping oversee the Disney Treasure cruise ship from naming to launch. Using Meet the Robinsons as our lens, we explore why Lewis's relentless curiosity and optimism — even in the face of 124 rejections — is what ultimately leads him home. And why Goob's inability to reframe one bad moment is a cautionary tale we all need to hear. 📚 WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE * Why reframing failure — not avoiding it — is the actual superpower Meet the Robinsons is teaching * How curiosity functions as a career and life strategy, not just a personality trait * What it looks like to live a Keep Moving Forward philosophy through real losses, redirections, and reinventions * 👤 ABOUT COURTNEY KERN Courtney Kern is a Disney Cruise Line analyst and Walt Disney Company employee with nearly 12 years inside the organization. She co-hosted Book of the Mouse Club, a Disney-inspired literary podcast spanning 120+ episodes over seven years alongside her college friend Emily. A lifelong Disney fan and alumna of the Disney College Program, Courtney has deep expertise in Disney history, cruise operations, and the power of storytelling. She even received a shoutout in Disney historian Jim Corkus's Disney Cruise Line book under her maiden name, Courtney Guth. Views expressed are her own and do not represent the Walt Disney Company.

Aladdin (2019) and Hopeful Resilience | Mouse Ears Movie Thoughts Siblings

What if the courage to keep going wasn't about knowing the outcome — but choosing to move forward anyway? The 2019 live-action Aladdin shows us exactly why. Jasmine's refusal to accept the only two options in front of her — and her song "Speechless" — is one of Disney's most underrated portraits of hopeful resilience. Riley, Caleb, and Hannah — the three siblings behind the Disney podcast Mouse Ears Movie Thoughts — join Ryan this week to share how they built a 160+ episode show starting with one shared microphone and a "why not?" attitude. Their story mirrors Aladdin's own: starting with nothing but your voice and your content, faking it until the quality catches up, and pushing through walls to discover something bigger on the other side. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways 1. Set Goals by Quarter, Not by Capstone – Specific 90-day goals. Broad 5-year vision. Never let a far-out goal cap what's possible. 2. Write Down Every Milestone with a Date – Track progress so you can see how far you've come. What you measure, you can improve. 3. Reimagine Your Process When You Hit a Wall – Don't just push harder. Ask "why not?" and build a new pathway. Have a contingency plan before you need one. This episode covers Jasmine's expanded arc in the live-action Aladdin, the "why not?" philosophy from Disney Imagineering legend Bob Weiss, Simon Sinek on team trust, and a rapid-fire round featuring hot takes on Robin Williams vs. Will Smith as the Genie, favorite Disney villains, and the best food at Disneyland. ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #Aladdin2019 #LiveActionAladdin #HopefulResilience #MouseEarsMovieThoughts #DisneyStorytelling 👉 Subscribe to Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson on YouTube 👉 Listen to the full episode of Yes And Land on all podcast platforms 👉 Like, comment, and share with someone who has a creative dream they keep putting off

Cinderella and the Courage to Find Joy | Kamille Bauer on Grief and Happiness

What if the most unfair thing that ever happened to you became the very thing that made you unstoppable? Cinderella shows us why. She lost everything — her mother, her father, her home — and still chose kindness and courage over bitterness. And that's exactly the choice Kamille Bauer made when her husband's rare cancer returned after 11 years in remission, leaving her a single mom of three with no roadmap for what came next. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways 1. Write Down What You Have – Make a list of your blessings, what you love, what's going for you right now. Then return to that list every time grief or depression pulls you under. Why it works: You can't put conditions on happiness. Gratitude anchors you to what's real and present. 2. Turn On Your Kindness Radar – Look for one moment this week to step outside your own bubble and do something specific for someone else — don't ask "how can I help?" Just do it. Why it works: Serving others is one of the fastest ways to stop wallowing and start moving forward. What you give comes back tenfold. 3. Give Yourself Grace – Stop measuring your grief against someone else's timeline. Don't beat yourself up for still hurting, for laughing, for moving forward, or for not moving forward fast enough. Why it works: Grief is not linear — it's as unique as your fingerprint. "Move forward" doesn't mean "move on." In this episode, Kamille Bauer, happiness advocate and wellness entrepreneur, joins Ryan to talk about what it actually looks like to find joy when life is genuinely, unfairly hard. Her journey mirrors Cinderella's almost step for step: fairy tale life → sudden devastating loss → years of learning to choose kindness over bitterness → emerging with a deeper capacity for empathy, purpose, and happiness than she ever had before. Using Cinderella as our lens, we explore why Cinderella's gracious response to an unfair world wasn't weakness — it was the most courageous thing she could have done. Kamille's story is the real-world version of that. She had every legal, emotional, and moral right to be bitter. She chose differently.

Frozen and the Power of Embracing What Makes You Different | with Stephanie Dowland

Frozen teaches us that the thing we've spent our lives hiding might be exactly what the world needs most. Stephanie Dowland was born with a birth defect affecting her hands — and like Elsa, she spent years concealing it. Gloves. Cotton balls stuffed in the fingers. A lifetime of quietly stepping back so no one would notice. Until the piano changed everything. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways 1. Let It Go (For Real) – Release one expectation you've been carrying that was never really yours. Why it works: You can't show up fully as yourself while performing someone else's version of you. 2. Discover Your Inner Olaf – Reconnect with the thing you loved before life taught you to be embarrassed by it. Why it works: That uninhibited, joyful version of you is where your best work lives. 3. Find Your Five People – Surround yourself with people whose character you want to reflect. Why it works: You become the average of who you spend the most time with — so choose intentionally. Through the lens of Frozen, Ryan and Stephanie explore what it really means to let it go — and why love, not willpower, is what sets us free. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #Frozen #LetItGo #EmbraceYourDifference #PersonalGrowth