Ask a Therapist: Real Answers to Real Marriage Questions

The Biggest Lies About Sex in Marriage (& How They're Quietly Destroying Intimacy)

In this episode, Chris & Jamie expose the common misconceptions that distort God’s beautiful design, revealing how unhealthy teachings, both secular and Christian, have undermined intimacy and joy between spouses.  If you're wondering why sex often feels like a duty or why your partner's pleasure might seem secondary, this episode has the answers you haven't heard before.Think sex is just for procreation or a man's need that a woman must fulfill? Think again. Jamie and Chris dismantle these damaging myths with biblical clarity, scientific insights, and raw honesty. You'll discover how God's design for mutual pleasure, trust, and intimacy enhances your marriage rather than erodes it.  They explore how a healthy sex life should not be a selfish act, obligation, or boring, but a vibrant expression of love, respect, and partnership—created to strengthen your bond. Beyond the theology, you'll break down the harmful cultural teachings that have shaped your expectations—whether it's the lie that women don't want or enjoy sex, or that a man’s needs always come first.  This episode is your call to re-shape the sex life in your marriage. Reclaim the conversation about pleasure, boundaries, and fulfillment. Perfect for couples seeking to deepen their intimacy—this is the vital, honest conversation you need. Don't accept the lies—discover God's truth and ignite a vibrant, joyful sex life that honors Him and transforms your marriage. Jamie and Chris are passionate followers of Christ, committed to restoring biblical marriage principles. They bring a candid, compassionate voice, blending scripture with real-world insights to guide couples toward healing and fulfillment in God's design.Take a bold step today—renew your understanding of God’s gift of sex and start experiencing the intimacy God desires for your marriage.  Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com [http://www.aboldmarriage.com] Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB] TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage [https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage] YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage] Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage [https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage] Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage [https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage] RSS Link - https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/Ko57iPWW.rss [https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/Ko57iPWW.rss] Apple Link - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-bold-marriage/id1883144804 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-bold-marriage/id1883144804] Spotify Link - https://open.spotify.com/show/6PhPIHc3XSmS0qAekuKbOM?si=2372b09752a247b1 [https://open.spotify.com/show/6PhPIHc3XSmS0qAekuKbOM?si=2372b09752a247b1]  YouTube Link - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkSBu2uQwZJNwujJkZE0TsyRKsw4KBlqp [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkSBu2uQwZJNwujJkZE0TsyRKsw4KBlqp]

Ask a Therapist: Real Answers to Real Marriage Questions

In those episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions.  Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on when it’s really too late to save a relationship, and when hope still remains. You’ll discover how trauma, unresolved bitterness, and more, influence ongoing fights, and how understanding the deeper issues beneath recurring conflicts can set you on a path toward reconciliation. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal.  Jamie also shares her perspective on falling back in love, how to rekindle affection in long-term relationships, and what a truly healthy marriage looks like in today’s world. This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com [http://www.aboldmarriage.com] Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB] TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage [https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage] YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage] Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage [https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage] Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage [https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage]

How Better Communication Can Save Your Marriage

In this episode, we uncover the surprising truths about communication that can save your marriage. From busting harmful stereotypes like the “nagging wife” or the “silent husband” to understanding how small, unresolved issues erode trust over time, you’ll learn practical ways to transform frustration into connection.  Chris & Jamie cite the statistic that 63% of couples who claim their spouse is a good listener report thriving marriages—and we dive into how you can be one of them. We break down the specific communication styles that either build intimacy or create wedges—covering everything from how your childhood influences your habits, to the importance of tone, sarcasm, and intentional time together. You’ll hear about the power of quick conversations, avoiding logistics-only talk, and how to navigate difficult, emotional discussions without tearing each other down. This episode is essential if you’re tired of feeling unheard, stuck in destructive patterns, or worried your marriage is unraveling. Whether you’re in a new relationship or decades in, understanding and intentionally improving how you connect will change everything. Because communication isn’t a personality trait—it’s a skill you can learn, master, and continually refine. Tune in to hear actionable tips, real stories, and the mindset shifts that can turn everyday conversations into deep, lasting connection. Your marriage’s future depends on how well you talk—and listen. Perfect for couples ready to intentionally upgrade their marriage, and anyone who wants to discover the true secrets to meaningful, conflict-free communication.  Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com [http://www.aboldmarriage.com] Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB] TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage [https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage] YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage] Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage [https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage] Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage [https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage]

10 Reasons Every Couple Should Pray Together

Unlock the profound power of praying together as a couple — a practice proven to strengthen your marriage, deepen intimacy, and even cut divorce rates dramatically. Whether your relationship is new or seasoned, discover how daily prayer can transform your connection with each other and with God, creating a bond that sustains through life's storms. In this episode, we dive into top rock-solid reasons why couples who pray together daily experience greater spiritual unity, emotional closeness, and decision-making clarity. You’ll learn how praying as a team invites divine guidance into your most important moments, extends spiritual protection over your family, and cultivates humility that levels the playing field in your marriage. We break down how consistent prayer reduces conflict, builds trust, and fosters vulnerability essential for true intimacy—all supported by powerful statistics from reputable studies. Are you undervaluing prayer’s role in your marriage? If you're ready to see a steadfast transformation in your marriage, this episode is essential listening. It’s time to make prayer a habit—your marriage’s spiritual armor and your path to lasting love. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com [http://www.aboldmarriage.com] Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB] TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage [https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage] YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage] Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage [https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage] Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage [https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage]

The Marriage Killer No One Talks About: Losing the Friendship

Most couples overlook the secret to lifelong happiness: friendship. Discover how cultivating fun, trust, and genuine connection with your spouse can predict up to 70% of their marital satisfaction — and why losing that friendship might be the biggest risk to your marriage. In this episode, we explore the profound role friendship plays in your relationship’s health and longevity. You'll learn that fun, shared hobbies, open communication, and intentional time together are not just nice-to-haves but essential ingredients for a thriving marriage. We break down the common pitfalls — such as resentment, routine, and neglecting individual passions — that erode friendship over time and reveal powerful, practical steps to rebuild and strengthen that bond. We will get into insights on how to stay friends through life's changes, how to balance hobbies without resentment, and the importance of lighthearted conversations that keep your connection alive. Whether your marriage is strong and you want to deepen it, or you're starting from scratch, this episode offers proven strategies to prioritize friendship for a happier, more fulfilled life together. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com [http://www.aboldmarriage.com] Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB] TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage [https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage] YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage] Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage [https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage] Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage [https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage]