British Birthing Stories

Frankie: Two Births: First Birth Obstetric Cholestasis, Emergency Ventouse, Second birth: Twin Pregnancy, Planned C-Section at 34 Weeks, NICU, Bonding Difficulties, Postnatal Depression

Frankie had a really tough first pregnancy. She had already been through obstetric cholestasis, a long induction, and an emergency ventouse delivery with her first. Second time around she was carrying twins. She knew she could not go through that again.   Frankie is a mum of three boys from Sheffield who shares two very different birth stories shaped by PCOS, endometriosis, multiple miscarriages, and a fertility journey that took years. Her first son Dawson was conceived on Clomid after nearly two years of trying. Her twins Blake and Holden were conceived within two cycles of medication. Nobody was more surprised than her.   With her twin pregnancy came obstetric cholestasis again, severe pelvic girdle pain so bad she could not walk, and a decision to deliver at 34 weeks. Her planned C-section went smoothly. What came after did not. Both boys went to NICU for a month. One came home on oxygen with chronic lung disease. Frankie found herself learning to administer tube feeds, check pH levels, and manage medical equipment while recovering from major surgery and trying to parent a five year old. Bonding with her youngest twin Holden took nine months. She hated herself for it every single day. And nobody really came to help.   In this episode we talk about: * What obstetric cholestasis is and how it affected both of Frankie's pregnancies * The decision to deliver twins at 34 weeks and what that meant for her boys * What NICU is really like as a parent and why nobody prepares you for it * Why bonding after a NICU stay is so much harder than anyone tells you * Postnatal depression, sleep deprivation, and what finally helped   This episode is for anyone who has ever felt like they were failing when actually they were just surviving something enormous.   The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care. British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery. These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional. Follow us on social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/britishbirthingstories/] · TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@britishbirthingstories] · YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@BritishBirthingStories] Want to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here [https://britishbirthingstories.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Kat: First Birth, Precipitous Labour, Turned Away by Hospital, 50 Minute Drive in Active Labour, No Pain Relief, Born in 24 Minutes

SUMMARY: At 3am Kat was in hospital being told by a doctor she was not even in early labour. She went home. Within 30 minutes she was screaming. When her husband rang the hospital back they said the unit had closed. Twenty four minutes after arriving at a different hospital, her son was born. Kat is a first time mum from Harrogate who shares one of the most dramatic birth stories you will ever hear. With her local unit closed and no hospital able to take her, she ended up in a car in the dark and the rain, a nearly 50 minute drive to Bradford, dilating to 10cm on the way. She arrived, dropped to all fours in front of three Yorkshire security guards, and screamed for an epidural that never came. Her son was born 24 minutes later with no pain relief at all. And despite every twist and turn she says she would not change a thing. Because her baby was healthy. And because sometimes your body just knows.   In this episode we talk about: * What it is actually like to be turned away by your hospital in active labour * How Kat went from being told she was nowhere near labour to giving birth 24 minutes after arriving somewhere else * What contractions really feel like when you have no idea you are in labour * Dilating to 10cm in the car and what that experience was actually like * Why she is already thinking about a home birth next time   This episode is for anyone who thinks they know what their birth will look like. Kat's story is a reminder that your body will do exactly what it needs to do whether you are ready or not. The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care. British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery. These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional. Follow us on social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/britishbirthingstories/] · TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@britishbirthingstories] · YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@BritishBirthingStories] Want to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here [https://britishbirthingstories.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Mil: Second Birth, Healing After Traumatic First, Water Birth, Shoulder Dystocia, Birth Centre

What does it feel like to go back into labour knowing everything that went wrong the first time — and come out the other side feeling like you got your birth back? In this episode of British Birthing Stories, Mil returns to share the birth of her son Billy: an NHS birth centre water birth, a shoulder dystocia, and the most healing experience of her life.   After her first birth left her with a postpartum haemorrhage, a serious infection, birth trauma, and postnatal depression, Mil was determined to do things differently second time around. She switched hospitals, switched her birth plan from a list of preferences to a set of feelings — safe, heard, in control — and fought to be approved for a birth centre birth despite her history. What followed was a labour that started calmly, progressed quickly, and then threw one final curveball: Billy's shoulder got stuck, and the midwives hauled Mil out of the bath, laid her on the floor, and freed him in what she can only describe as a wrestling move. He was briefly given oxygen, then handed over screaming. She was stitched up in ten minutes and eating toast in a fairy-lit room while her husband fell asleep beside her.   She wrote the midwives a letter when she got home. She told them they had fixed something she hadn't realised was still broken.   In this episode we chat about: * Switching hospitals after her first experience and fighting to be approved for a birth centre birth * Going overdue at 41+1 and choosing induction after weeks of false starts and sweeps * A positive induction experience — and how different it felt from the first time * Labouring calmly in the birth centre with just a TENS machine and no pain relief for hours * Waters breaking at 3pm and things progressing quickly from there * Transition, vomiting, gas and air that didn't really help, and being 8.5cm without realising it * A shoulder dystocia — and the midwife who hauled her out of the bath and onto the floor * Billy needing a little oxygen before his first cry — and the relief when it came * A first-degree tear, ten minutes of stitches, and being up walking within the hour * The night and day difference in recovery compared to her episiotomy first time around * Combo feeding second time around and how much it helped her mental health postpartum * Writing the midwives a letter — and what she means when she says they gave her something back   Find Mil on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mil.rousseau/] and Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@milrousseau89?lang=en-GB] The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care.   British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery. These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional. Follow us on social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/britishbirthingstories/] · TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@britishbirthingstories] · YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@BritishBirthingStories] Want to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here [https://britishbirthingstories.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Mil: NHS Induction at 39 weeks for reduced movements, forceps, episiotomy, Postpartum Haemorrhage, Blood Transfusion, Postnatal Depression and Anxiety , Breastfeeding Challenges

What happens when you've done the NCT course, made the birth plan, and gone into hospital as prepared as you possibly can and it still falls apart? In this episode of British Birthing Stories, I sit down with Mil, a stay-at-home mum, content creator, and freelance copywriter, who shares her honest account of her first NHS birth: induction, forceps, episiotomy, a postpartum haemorrhage, and a blood transfusion.   Mil was admitted for a routine reduced movement check at 39 weeks when the decision was made to induce her that day - no warning, no chance to go home and prepare. What followed was 12 hours in a waiting room in active labour, a serious infection, a baby in distress, and every intervention she'd hoped to avoid. Then the haemorrhage. Then a blood transfusion at 2am. Then eight days in hospital while her daughter recovered from severe jaundice. And a postnatal anxiety and depression that went undiagnosed for nearly a year.   Mil also opens up about the breastfeeding guilt that compounded everything — a missed tongue tie, a supply that never came in, and hiding her daughter's bottle in the car park at Baby Sensory. But this isn't where her story ends. Her second NHS birth was, in her own words, the most beautiful and magical experience of her life.   In this episode we chat about: * Going in for a reduced movement check and leaving being induced with no time to go home * 12 hours in a waiting room in active labour with inadequate pain relief * Labour stalling, a serious infection, and being rushed to the labour ward * Forceps, ventouse, and episiotomy after baby's heart rate dropped * A postpartum haemorrhage and blood transfusion * Eight days in hospital while her daughter recovered from severe jaundice * Postnatal anxiety and depression going undiagnosed for almost a year * Breastfeeding guilt, a missed tongue tie, and formula-feeding shame * Why her second NHS birth was everything her first wasn't   Find Mil here on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mil.rousseau/] and Tik Tok [https://www.tiktok.com/@milrousseau89?lang=en-GB]   The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care.   British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery. These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional. Follow us on social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/britishbirthingstories/] · TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@britishbirthingstories] · YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@BritishBirthingStories] Want to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here [https://britishbirthingstories.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Dani: First Birth, Positive Planned NHS Home Birth After Fertility Struggles, PCOS, Hypnobirthing, Doula Support, No Pain Relief, Placenta Encapsulation

She always knew she wanted a home birth. From the moment she decided she wanted children, there was never any question. Hospital was not even in her mind.   Dani is a first time mum from Devon who shares a deeply beautiful first birth story after two years of trying to conceive with PCOS. She conceived the day before moving across the country from Hertfordshire to Devon — a moment she describes as feeling like pure divine timing. She prepared for her birth like a marathon. Hypnobirthing with a doula, affirmations on the walls, a birth playlist, fairy lights, an astronaut projector covering the ceiling in stars, and a birth pool set up in her mum's annex. She refused extra growth scans in her third trimester on instinct alone. Her baby was born weighing 8lb 3oz. Labour started at 2am on her due date. She laboured quietly through the night and all the next day. She ate a Chinese takeaway on the toilet while going through contractions. She never had a single internal examination and never knew how dilated she was. Her daughter Aurea was born at 11.26pm with no pain relief, no stitches, and a delayed cord clamp. The midwives she had never met before did everything on her birth plan without being asked.   In this episode we talk about: * What it is really like to try to conceive with PCOS and what finally helped * How hypnobirthing completely changed Dani's mindset around birth and fear * What a doula actually does during pregnancy and how to find the right one * Labouring at home all day without intervention and what that felt like * Why she refused extra growth scans and what her instinct told her * Placenta encapsulation and whether it helped her postpartum recovery * Grieving your old self after becoming a mum and how long that really takes   This episode is for anyone who has ever dreamed of a calm physiological home birth and wondered if it is really possible. Dani's story is proof that it absolutely is. The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care. British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery. These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional. Follow us on social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/britishbirthingstories/] · TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@britishbirthingstories] · YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@BritishBirthingStories] Want to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here [https://britishbirthingstories.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.