Carl and Heather Present

The Tragic Decision The Whole Internet Had An Opinion About

A young couple made a tragic, public decision — and the whole internet had an opinion. This week, Carl and Heather step into the headlines with honesty and tenderness, asking three questions: What actually happened? What can a crisis like this reveal in a marriage? And what does God say about the value of a human life — no matter what? This is a conversation about holding conviction and compassion in the same hand. Because marriage was never meant to make us comfortable; it was meant to make us holy. So was parenting. So is raising every kind of child. We open up Psalm 139, Jeremiah 1, Genesis 1, and more — and we land where every hard story should: in the grace of a God who redeems what feels unredeemable. If you're carrying a private grief of your own, there's room for you here. New episodes every Tuesday from Carl and Heather Cartee for prayer and to connect hi@carlandheather.com Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2407886/fan_mail/new] Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Episode 85: When Your Faith Feels Flat w/ Jeffery & Shannon Scott

Have you ever felt stuck in your faith? Like you're doing all the right things, but God feels distant and spiritual growth seems nowhere to be found? In this episode, Carl and Heather sit down with Jeffrey and Shannon Scott to talk about the often-overlooked seasons of the Christian life when faith feels flat, progress feels slow, and nothing seems to be happening. Together, they explore how God is often doing His deepest work beneath the surface, even when we can't see it. If you've ever wondered whether you're growing, drifting, or simply walking through a difficult season, this conversation will encourage you to stay faithful and keep trusting God. Be sure to check out Shannon's podcast, The Everything Beautiful Podcast, where she shares honest conversations and biblical encouragement to help women find beauty and purpose in every season. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2407886/fan_mail/new] Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Episode 84: Everyday Spiritual Habits

Can small spiritual habits actually change your marriage? This week we’re joined by author and Bible teacher Hanna Seymour and her husband Tyler to talk about Hanna’s new book, Everyday Spiritual Habits. Hanna’s message is simple but powerful: spiritual growth doesn’t happen through perfection or pressure — it happens through small, faithful rhythms practiced over time. In this conversation, we unpack how everyday habits like prayer, gratitude, Scripture, friendship, and practicing the presence of God can reshape not only your faith, but your marriage and family culture too. We also talk honestly about: * Feeling spiritually exhausted in busy seasons * Why couples drift spiritually * The power of consistency over intensity * Building connection with God in the middle of ordinary life * What it looks like to pursue Jesus together as husband and wife This episode is encouraging, practical, and deeply relatable for couples who want a deeper spiritual connection without adding more pressure to their lives. Find Hanna’s book through Worthy Books [https://www.worthypublishing.com/titles/hanna-seymour/everyday-spiritual-habits/9781546009375/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] or at her official site: Hanna Seymour [https://hannaseymour.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]. We're building a hospital and we need your help: If you want to join us in building a maternity ward in South Sudan, Check out Episode 78 to learn more and help us by giving at transformsouthsudan.org/maternity. 100% goes to build the hospital. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2407886/fan_mail/new] Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Episode 83: Engaged? Listen To This Before You Walk Down The Aisle

If you’re engaged—or know someone who is—this might be one of the most important conversations you hear before marriage. Because most marriages don’t fall apart in a moment…  they drift slowly through poor communication and unresolved conflict.  In this episode, Carl and Heather walk through five essential conversations every couple needs to have before saying “I do.” This isn’t about planning a wedding—  it’s about preparing for a lifetime. In this episode, we cover: *  How to build a shared purpose and direction *  How to understand and improve your communication *  How to handle conflict and repair in a healthy way  *  What real intimacy actually looks like  *  How to clarify expectations around money, roles, and family A simple truth: You don’t drift into a strong marriage—  you build one on purpose. Important note: This episode is a tool—but it’s not a substitute for biblical premarital counseling. If you’re getting married, don’t skip that step. 🌍 Join us in making an impact We’re partnering with Transform South Sudan to help build a maternity ward at the Ahick Women’s Clinic.  We’re raising $85,000, and a generous donor has already matched $42,500. To learn more or give:  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2407886/fan_mail/new] Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Episode 82: Sexless Marriage?

No one plans to end up in a sexless marriage…  But a lot of couples quietly drift there. It’s not loud.  It’s not explosive.  It’s silent—and that’s what makes it so dangerous. In this episode, Carl and Heather talk about the hidden struggle many couples face:  two people who love each other… but have lost connection. You’ll hear: *  The real reasons intimacy fades (and why it’s rarely just about sex)  *  The physical, emotional, and spiritual impact of disconnection  *  Why unresolved conflict and poor communication are often at the root  *  Practical ways to begin rebuilding intimacy—without pressure or shame  Because sex isn’t the foundation of marriage…  but it is a vital expression of a healthy one. This episode is for couples who: *  Feel distant but don’t know why  *  Struggle to talk about intimacy  *  Want to reconnect but don’t know where to start  💬 A reminder: A sexless marriage isn’t the end of your story—  it’s an invitation to rebuild something deeper. 🙏 Need prayer? Email us anytime: hi@carlandheather.com 🌍 Join us in making an impact We’re raising support to build a maternity ward in South Sudan.  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2407886/fan_mail/new] Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee