Dear MK

Back To Basics: How to Safely Leave Your Abusive Relationship

In this episode of Dear MK, Mya and Dakota discuss the realities of safely leaving an abusive relationship and why escaping abuse is often far more complicated than people understand. They break down safety planning, preparing a go-bag, documenting abuse, legal advocacy resources, and ways survivors can protect themselves while navigating dangerous situations. This conversation is centered on empowerment, education, and compassion for survivors of domestic violence and intimate partner abuse. If you or someone you know may be experiencing abuse, resources and support options are included in this episode. If at any point while listening you need support, you can contact The National Domestic Violence Hotline [https://www.thehotline.org?utm_source=chatgpt.com] by calling 800-799-SAFE (7233), texting “START” to 88788, or using their online chat. Create Your Plan Here: https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/ [https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/]

"Men Aren't Needed Anymore"

In this episode of Dear MK, Mya and Dakota unpack the viral article “Men aren’t needed anymore, and they’re struggling to adapt to being wanted” by Olivia Barbulescu. They dive into modern dating, emotional labor, masculinity, and the difference between being needed versus genuinely chosen in relationships. This conversation challenges traditional ideas of usefulness, partnership, and what healthy relationships can look like in the modern world.  To Read This Article: https://oliviabarbulescu.substack.com/p/men-arent-needed-anymore-and-theyre [https://oliviabarbulescu.substack.com/p/men-arent-needed-anymore-and-theyre]

Back To Basics: Do I Need To Report My Story?

This episode is part of Mya and K’s Back to Basics series, where they’re having the conversations everyone needs—but not everyone is having. This is one you can come back to, save, and share with the people in your life <3 In this episode, they’re talking about what it really looks like to share your story and the complex decision of reporting sexual assault. Mya and K break down the stigmas survivors face, harmful victim-blaming responses, and the very real reasons many people choose not to come forward. This conversation is a reminder that you do not need to report for your experience to be valid—and that your healing is your own. If you’ve ever questioned whether to speak up, this episode is for you. Send this to someone who needs this XOXO https://www.canva.com/design/DAFXMRSRgAE/oz2CiRUhT8fImrryGtXLGg/view?utm_content=DAFXMRSRgAE&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link&utm_source=publishsharelink https://linktr.ee/dearmk.podcast

Exposing A Global R@pe Academy

In this episode, Mya and Dakota break down a shocking CNN investigation exposing online communities where men are drugging and assaulting their partners — sharing, normalizing, and even teaching this abuse. They unpack how these “rape academy” spaces operate, the role of technology and porn culture, and why these crimes are so difficult to report and prosecute. Through powerful survivor stories, they explore the psychological impact of betrayal, gaslighting, and trauma. This conversation challenges what people think abuse looks like, and why it’s time to listen, believe, and speak out. Content warning: this episode includes discussion of sexual assault, domestic violence, and drug-facilitated abuse. If you choose to listen, please take care of yourself during and after listening, remembering you can always pause or stop if it feels like too much <3 The CNN Investigation [https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html ] Resources [https://linktr.ee/myakermelewicz] Socials [https://linktr.ee/dearmk.podcast ]

Back To Basics: When Abuse Escalates

This episode is part of Mya and K’s Back to Basics series, where they’re having the conversations everyone needs—but not everyone is having. This is one you can come back to, save, and share with the people in your life <3 In this episode, they’re speaking directly to the person who’s questioning their relationship, because abuse doesn’t always look the way you expect it to. Mya and K break down the subtle signs like gaslighting, love-bombing, and control that are often disguised as care, and how those patterns can escalate over time. Most importantly, they remind you that you are not alone in this. https://www.loveisrespect.org/everyone-deserves-a-healthy-relationship/ Check Out: MK's Fav Resources [https://www.canva.com/design/DAFXMRSRgAE/oz2CiRUhT8fImrryGtXLGg/view?utm_content=DAFXMRSRgAE&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link&utm_source=publishsharelink] Follow Us: Socials [https://linktr.ee/dearmk.podcast ] Send this to a friend or loved one XOXO