46. From First Hello… to Real Connection
🎙️ ELECTRIC PETE — From First Hello… to Real Connection
Some people see passengers. I see people with stories worth sharing.
This is Electric Pete.
In this episode, I sit down with Susan Mitchell, founder of Be Single No More, a Philadelphia-based speed dating company bringing people together in real life since 2018.
We met the way Electric Pete stories often begin — in my Uber — after one of her events. What started as a ride turned into a conversation about connection, loneliness, and why meeting in person still matters more than ever.
Susan has hosted 220+ events, helping thousands connect through structured, face-to-face conversations — no swiping, no distractions, just real human interaction.
🎯 In This Episode:
* What actually happens at a speed dating event (and why it’s less intimidating than you think)
* Why people feel disconnected despite technology
* How structure makes connection easier
* How five-minute conversations can lead to real relationships
* Why you don’t need perfect “checkboxes” to find the right person
* How simply showing up can change everything
This is a conversation about stepping out, being open, and rediscovering how people connect — face to face.
💡 About Susan Mitchell
Susan is the founder of Be Single No More, a Philadelphia-based speed dating and social connection company.
Since 2018, she has:
* Hosted 220+ events
* Created experiences across ages, orientations, and communities
* Built a welcoming, low-pressure environment to meet people
Events include:
* Speed dating (heterosexual, LGBTQ+, Jewish, and more)
* Speed friending
* Events in Center City and King of Prussia
👉 Her mission: Help people meet in real life and build meaningful connections.
❤️ How It Works
* Attend an event and receive a name tag
* 5-minute rotating conversations
* Meet everyone
* Mark who you’re interested in
* Mutual matches are emailed within 24 hours
👉 No pressure. Just real connections.
🧠 Key Takeaways
* Technology connects us — but can also isolate us
* In-person energy and eye contact still matter
* Most people are nervous at first… then relax
* Connection matters more than checklists
* Even without a match, the experience has value
👉 Sometimes the win is just showing up.
🔗 Connect with Be Single No More
Events: https://bsinglenomore.eventbrite.com [https://bsinglenomore.eventbrite.com] Instagram / Facebook: Be Single No More Email: bsinglenomore@gmail.com [bsinglenomore@gmail.com]
🚗 About Electric Pete
I’m Pete — and I drive an electric vehicle.
After 49,000+ rides, I’ve learned one thing:
👉 Every rider has a story.
This podcast is about finding those stories — one ride at a time.
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