giving (un)bothered

emotional cheating, worst dating advice & soulmates

🚨 Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Are soulmates real… or just a romantic myth? And should you tell your friend when you absolutely can't stand their partner? 👀 In this week’s episode, we're diving into some of the most controversial dating, relationship, and friendship topics that always start an argument. From emotional cheating and closure to love at first sight, queer dating, red flags, and soulmate theories, we're sharing our unfiltered opinions and putting each other to the test. 🎙️ Topics we debate: ✨ Is emotional cheating cheating? ✨ What's the worst dating advice you've ever heard? ✨ Should you tell your friend you hate their partner? ✨ Is closure overrated? ✨ Are soulmates real or fake? ✨ Should you share your dating history with your partner? ✨ Do opposites attract or should you date someone similar to you? ✨ Do queer relationships move too fast? ✨ Is the spark overrated? ✨ Is love at first sight real? Wet For Hear discount link: https://wetforher.com/WETFORUNBOTHERED [https://wetforher.com/WETFORUNBOTHERED]  DISCOUNT CODE: WETFORUNBOTHERED  ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

sapphic toxic traits, dating icks & one-night stands

We’re back with another Truth or Drink… and this one got a little too honest 😅 From sapphic toxic traits to the most random (and very real) dating icks, plus everything that comes with one-night stands… nothing was off limits. We also get into the importance of being the hottest ex (because let’s be real, it matters.) So grab a drink, press play, and come get messy with us as we dive into queer dating, lesbian relationships, and all the red flag behaviour we pretend not to see 🍸 Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [https://open.acast.com/networks/67c4dd08a02912270dc07b65/shows/67c4de7cc6cef89b7d460784/episodes/%E2%81%A0https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

lesbian history, queer media & coming out with Roxy Bourdillon

In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the leading magazine for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary people. Roxy has interviewed some huge names including Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and the cast of The L Word, co-hosted a podcast alongside Rachel Shelley (aka Helena Peabody), and presented a documentary for Virgin Radio called Butches, Femmes And Dykes Snogging On The Dancefloor: The Incredible True Story Of Lesbian Nightlife. We talk about Roxy's sexuality journey, self-discovery, lesbian history, working in queer media, the impact of representation, her experience leading DIVA Magazine, and what it was like writing her own book. We also dive into LGBTQ+ visibility, dating, identity, and why queer storytelling matters now more than ever. Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [⁠https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] Find Roxy on:  - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/roxybourdillon/] Find DIVA magazine on:  - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/divamagazine/] - Tiktok [⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@divamag] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

having a straight girl kink (with 2D2M) - part 2

In Part 2 with 2D2M, we’re getting into the chaos with our signature game “Bothered or Unbothered” and let’s just say… nothing is off limits. We’re talking: •Socks on or OFF during intimacy 👀 •Being the “experiment” in a girl’s sexuality •When she refuses to use toys •The craziest things we’ve been asked in bed 😭 •Feet kinks and our experiences •2 months in and still not exclusive 🚩 •When she doesn’t like your best friend… yeah, that one’s messy Find 2D2M on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/twodykestwomics/ ] Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/2d2m_] Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@twodykestwomics] Find us on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

s*x tapes, finding your identity & IKAG cancelled (with 2D2M) - part 1

This week on giving (un)bothered, things get very chaotic with Rose & Ellie from 2D2M (Two Dykes Two Mics) 💥 And this is only Part 1… 👀 Known for their unfiltered takes, they join us for an episode that completely spirals—in the best, most unhinged way possible. And honestly… nothing is off limits. We somehow end up diving into: - s*x tapes - why femmes get more hate in the queer community - dealing with hate comments & being perceived online - what dating looks like when people already “know” you - chaotic, real, way too relatable coming out stories - the struggle of figuring out your sexuality & identity - the drama around IKAG being cancelled - why we desperately need a queer Big Brother immediately Find 2D2M on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/twodykestwomics/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@2d2m_] - Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@TwoDykesTwoMics] Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.