Making More Money Won't Fix Your Finances Until You Do This One Thing

How I Paid Off $100,000 of Debt in Six Months

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] What if your biggest money problem isn't your income? What if it's the relationship you have with money? In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing the story I've never told in this much detail from filing bankruptcy at 22 as a single mom to paying off over $100,000 of debt in just six months and retiring from my 30-year career with the Social Security Administration two and a half years early. For years, I believed I wasn't good with money. I worked multiple jobs. I taught personal finance. I helped others manage their money. Yet I was trapped in a cycle of debt that kept repeating itself. Everything changed when I stopped trying to fix my finances and started healing my relationship with money. In this episode you'll discover: • Why earning more money didn't solve my financial stress • The hidden emotional patterns that kept me recreating debt • How my Money Multiplier System™ was born • Why restrictive budgets never worked for me • The simple Money Map that finally gave every dollar a purpose • How aromatherapy and nervous system work accelerated my financial transformation • The debt payoff strategy that helped me eliminate $100,000 in six months • Why confidence—not income—is the foundation of wealth If you're making good money but still wondering where it all goes... If you're tired of feeling guilty every time you spend... If you've ever thought, "I'm just not good with money"... This episode is for you. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Making More Money Won't Fix Your Finances Until You Do This One Thing

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] 🗝️🌬️💖💰 Making more money online doesn't automatically create wealth. Financial confidence does. If you've ever looked at your business and wondered, "Where did all my money go?" this episode is for you. Too many women entrepreneurs are generating revenue, signing new clients, and building multiple income streams, yet they still feel financially stressed. The problem isn't a lack of income. It's the lack of a clear cash flow system. In this solo episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon shares why chasing more revenue without a financial plan only creates more pressure. She opens up about her own journey from bankruptcy to paying off $100,000 of debt in six months, retiring two and a half years early, and creating the Money Multiplier System™ that helped her transform her relationship with money. You'll discover why profit is more important than revenue, how emotional spending quietly steals your wealth, and why giving every dollar a purpose is the fastest path to financial confidence. Instead of relying on your bank balance to make decisions, you'll learn how to build a simple cash flow system that helps you know exactly what you can spend, save, invest, and enjoy without guilt. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN: • Why revenue and profit are two completely different numbers • The biggest reason successful entrepreneurs still feel broke • How hidden money leaks quietly drain thousands of dollars every year • Why making more money won't solve financial stress • The emotional patterns that keep women stuck in overspending and avoidance • How to stop running your business like a hobby and start leading it like a CEO • The power of giving every dollar a specific job • How the Money Map creates calm, confident cash flow TIMESTAMPED CHAPTERS 00:00 Busy or profitable? 01:30 Why making more money isn't the answer 03:30 Revenue vs. profit explained 04:45 The biggest cash flow mistakes entrepreneurs make 06:00 Setting a real profit goal 07:00 Why your relationship with money matters more than budgeting 09:00 Lisa's bankruptcy story and financial wake-up call 11:00 Why hustling harder isn't creating wealth 13:30 Every dollar needs a job 14:15 The Money Multiplier System™ 15:45 Building your Money Map 17:30 How intentional spending creates financial confidence 18:45 Invitation to the Calm Cash Flow Workshop RESOURCES ➡️ Register for the Calm Cash Flow Workshop: https://workshop.idatemoney.com/calm-cash-flow-workshop [https://workshop.idatemoney.com/calm-cash-flow-workshop] ---------------------------------------- Thank you for tuning into this week's episode of iDateMoney! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

How Alignment Creates Financial Confidence with Kristan Swan

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] If you're making money but still feel scattered, overwhelmed, or afraid to trust yourself, your money story may be running your business more than you realize. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa Drennon sits down with former business coach turned life and spiritual guide Kristan Swan for an honest conversation about the hidden beliefs that quietly shape our financial decisions. They explore how childhood scarcity, people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and misalignment can keep entrepreneurs working harder while moving further away from the life they truly want. Kristan shares how she transitioned from business coaching into helping people reconnect with themselves through intentional reflection, journaling, and values-based living. Together, she and Lisa discuss why success begins with awareness, how slowing down can actually accelerate your growth, and why building wealth starts by understanding the stories you tell yourself about money. About our guest: Kristan Swan is a former business coach turned life and spiritual guide who helps people discover their truth, clarify their values, and cultivate a more intentional way of living. Through guided journals, workshops, and retreats, she empowers people to create aligned lives built on self-awareness instead of fear. Connect with Kristan at KristanSwan.com [http://KristanSwan.com]. In this episode, you'll learn: Why your money story influences every financial decision you make How childhood scarcity patterns continue to affect entrepreneurs today Why working harder isn't always the solution to financial stress The power of journaling and brain dumps for creating clarity How people-pleasing keeps women financially and emotionally exhausted Why alignment creates more sustainable success than hustle Practical ways to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters How community and simple daily practices help build lasting confidence Timestamped Key Moments 00:00 Why entrepreneurs panic when unexpected tax bills arrive 02:20 Meet Kristan Swan and her journey from business coach to spiritual guide 05:00 Growing up with scarcity and how inherited money beliefs shape adulthood 10:00 Why awareness is the foundation for both business and personal growth 13:20 The power of slowing down instead of pushing harder 15:00 Brain dumps, journaling, and uncovering hidden money patterns 18:30 Community, accountability, and taking small aligned actions 20:15 Why women struggle to prioritize themselves without guilt 23:15 The biggest mistake Kristan made when changing careers 27:50 How to connect with Kristan and begin your own alignment journey Thank you for tuning into this week's episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Making More Money Won’t Fix Messy Money with Stephanie Peirolo

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Making more money online will not create wealth if your money decisions are still being driven by fear, stress, old money stories, and survival mode. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with executive coach and author Stephanie Peirolo for a powerful conversation about money stories, decision-making, divorce, debt, burnout, and what it really takes to build financial stability as a woman. Stephanie shares how childhood scarcity, gender roles, single motherhood, and financial shame shaped her relationship with money, and how she eventually rebuilt financial security while learning to make decisions from alignment instead of panic. Together, Lisa and Stephanie unpack why messy money is rarely just a math problem. It is often tied to the stories we inherited about work, worth, success, and what women are allowed to have. They also talk about the pressure to overwork, the cost of financial instability after divorce, and why women need to stop sacrificing their own financial well-being to rescue everyone else. About our guest: Stephanie Peirolo is a board-certified executive coach, author of The Saint and the Drunk, and host of The Bad Boss Brief. She helps leaders make intentional decisions, lead with clarity, and build lives that align with their values. Connect with Stephanie at spayrolo.com [http://spayrolo.com] IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why messy money is often a relationship problem, not just a budgeting problem * How childhood scarcity and family money stories shape adult financial decisions * The hidden financial impact of divorce, caregiving, and being a single mother * Why more income does not automatically create peace, profit, or stability * How women can stop over-giving financially and protect their own future * Why decision-making gets easier when you understand your values, responsibilities, and reality * How to define wealth on your own terms instead of chasing someone else’s number TIMESTAMPED KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Messy money, money shame, and why women avoid their numbers 02:00 Stephanie’s book The Saint and the Drunk and decision-making with intention 04:00 Money narratives, inherited scarcity, and cultural conditioning 07:00 Divorce, single motherhood, and financial survival mode 11:00 Career choices, writing dreams, and making practical money decisions 13:45 Shame, systemic barriers, and forgiving yourself for past money struggles 15:40 How Stephanie got out of debt and built financial security 19:25 What women need to stop doing with money immediately 20:00 Redefining success and choosing your own wealth number 22:00 Stephanie’s shift into executive coaching and intentional leadership 24:40 Where to connect with Stephanie and get the book THANK YOU FOR TUNING INTO THIS WEEK’S EPISODE OF I DATE MONEY! REMEMBER, IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE; IT'S WHAT YOU DO WITH IT 🗝️🌬️💖💸

How High-Earning Women Lose Money Without Realizing It with Nandita Mahadevan

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Making more money online does not create wealth if your money still disappears the moment it lands in your account. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with Nandita Mahadevan for an honest conversation about what happens when high income, stress, divorce, health struggles, and unhealed money patterns collide. Nandita shares her story of moving to the U.S. at 21, building a successful corporate career, earning multiple six figures, and still ending up in debt because no one taught her how to manage money, save intentionally, or build wealth. She opens up about the pressure to keep up appearances, the emotional side of overspending, and how perimenopause, burnout, and a major life reset forced her to rebuild her health, identity, and relationship with money from the ground up. Lisa and Nandita talk about why debt is often a money relationship problem, not just a money management problem, and why more income alone will never solve financial chaos without a real plan. About our guest: Nandita Mahadevan is the co-founder of Soul Women, a company helping women navigate perimenopause and menopause through functional medicine, education, and support. Connect with Nandita at solwomen.com [http://solwomen.com] and on Instagram at @thesolwomen. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why making more money does not automatically create financial stability * How lifestyle creep and status spending quietly destroy profit * The emotional root of debt, overspending, and financial avoidance * What perimenopause, burnout, and brain fog can do to your confidence and decision-making * Why alignment, purpose, and simple financial systems matter more than hustle * How to start shifting from scarcity to abundance without ignoring the numbers TIMESTAMPED KEY MOMENTS * 00:00 Why more women are turning to debt relief and bankruptcy * 02:20 Nandita’s move to the U.S. and her first money experiences * 05:00 Building credit, overspending, and the tax mistake that changed everything * 07:10 Debt as a money relationship problem * 09:00 Lifestyle inflation, status spending, and keeping up with appearances * 13:00 The breaking point: divorce, health struggles, and financial wake-up calls * 15:00 Scarcity vs. abundance and how to spend with intention * 18:00 Leaving a high-paying corporate career to start over * 22:30 Perimenopause, identity shifts, and why health impacts wealth * 27:00 How to connect with Nandita and Soul Women Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily