Ep. 161 - Trusting Him When Nothing Changes (Love Me Through the Struggle Part 3)

Ep. 161 - Trusting Him When Nothing Changes (Love Me Through the Struggle Part 3)

What happens when you trust God… and nothing changes? In this episode of I Know a Guy, we step into one of the hardest places for any man—the space between trusting God and seeing no visible results. If you’ve ever wrestled with doubt, unanswered prayers, or the tension of waiting, this conversation will help you move from outcome-based faith to a deeper, steadier trust in the Father. Steve’s new book, The Father Eclipse, is now available on Amazon.

Ep. 160 - Receiving Love When You Don't Feel It (Love Me Through the Struggle Part 2)

Many men know God loves them—but they don’t actually feel it. And in difficult seasons, that gap can grow even wider. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore why receiving God’s love can feel so difficult and how to begin experiencing it in a real, personal way—even when your heart feels distant or numb. Get a copy of Steve’s new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthy Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again on I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 159 - Stop Pushing Through - Love Me Through the Struggle Part 1

When life gets hard, most men default to pushing through—working harder, carrying more, and trying to fix what feels out of control. But what if the answer isn’t found in striving… but in surrender? In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore what it means to stop performing in difficult seasons and instead allow the Father to meet us right in the middle of them. If you’ve been carrying weight alone or trying to muscle your way through life, this conversation will invite you into a different way—the way of a beloved son. Steve’s new book, The Father Eclipse, is now available on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7]

Ep. 158 - Doing Hard Things Part 6: The Hardest Thing We'll Ever Do

We men know how to work hard, push hard, achieve hard, and compete hard. But for many of us the hardest thing we’ll ever do is believe we are loved apart from performance. So we spend our lives trying to prove ourselves. At work. In marriage. In leadership. Even spiritually. In this powerful conclusion to the “Doing Hard Things” series, Steve talks about performance-driven living, father wounds, identity, and the exhausting burden so many men carry trying to earn approval, worth, and belonging. Drawing deeply from the message of The Father Eclipse [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1], this episode invites men to stop striving for identity… and begin living from their true identity as beloved sons of the Father. Be sure to grab a copy on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]and share it with your men's pastor at church and the men in your group - and watch what the Father does! I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 157 - Doing Hard Things Part 5: The Hard Thing of Repair

Most men want to be respected. But many of us were never taught how to repair relationships after we’ve caused pain. So we defend ourselves.  Explain ourselves.  Withdraw and minimize. Meanwhile the people we love most are often left carrying wounds we never intended to create. In this episode of I Know a Guy, Steve talks about humility, apologies, rebuilding trust, and the courage it takes to own the impact of our emotional absence, shutdown, anger, or performance-driven living. He also shares personal reflections connected to his new book, The Father Eclipse [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1], including the painful realization that many men can provide physically while unintentionally going to the sidelines emotionally with their wives and children. Repair is hard. But humility may become the doorway to healing.