Ep. 147 - You Didn’t Start This But You Can End It (It Stops with Me Part 1)

Ep. 148 - The Father Wound You Pretend Isn't There (It Stops with Me Part 2)

What if the struggles you’re facing right now didn’t actually start with you? What if the anger… the distance… the pressure… the way you react under stress—was shaped long before you even realized it? In Episode 1 of this new series on I Know a Guy, It Stops With Me, we’re uncovering how generational patterns are formed—and how they get passed down. But more importantly—how they can stop with you. You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. If today's episode resonates with you, my new book: The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again" goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves… and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]

Ep. 147 - You Didn’t Start This But You Can End It (It Stops with Me Part 1)

What if the struggles you’re facing right now didn’t actually start with you? What if the anger… the distance… the pressure… the way you react under stress—was shaped long before you even realized it? In Episode 1 of this new series on I Know a Guy, "It Stops With Me," we’re uncovering how generational patterns are formed—and how they get passed down. But more importantly—how they can stop with you. You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. “You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. And if this conversation resonates with you, my new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]   I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 146 - What IF This is Where It Changes?

Father’s Day is over — but what if the real impact of it is just beginning? In this special episode of I Know a Guy, we slow down and reflect on what surfaced this weekend— the gratitude, the tension, the silence. And ask a deeper question:  What is God inviting you into right now? Because healing doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when we choose to lean in. if this episode resonates with you, my new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves… and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]  Get 2 copies and help scatter seed into another man's life who needs to hear this.

Ep. 145 - Releasing Without Losing Them: The Father's Day That Changes Everything Series Part 6

What does it look like to be a father—when your kids are grown? When they’re making their own decisions—and you don’t always agree? In this episode of I Know a Guy we conclude our Father's Day series as we talk about the shift from raising your kids—to releasing them. And why holding on too tightly can actually create more distance. Because great fathers don’t control their adult children. They stay present—so relationship has room to grow. My new book, "The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity—and How to See God Clearly Again," is available now on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1](< click the link) —designed as a short, powerful read to help men move from hiding to living as a beloved son.   I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 144 - When They Pull Away: The Father's Day That Changes Everything Series Part 5

The teenage years change everything.  What used to work—doesn’t anymore. And many dads respond by tightening control—which only creates more distance. All this week we've been focusing on Father's Day coming up on Sunday and in today's episode of I Know a Guy we talk about what’s really happening when your teenager pulls away—and how to shift from control to connection. Because your influence as a father isn’t over. It just needs to look different. My new book, "The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity—and How to See God Clearly Again," is available now on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]—designed as a short, powerful read to help men move from hiding to living as a beloved son.   I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.