I’m a Cool Mum

20. Highly recommend the Christmas Margs

We made it, the end of the year is upon us. It’s almost 2024, even though we swear we just left 2019 behind. We're sticking with the Christmas theme again this week and for that we're sorry-not-sorry because 'tis the season etc and all that. Nickie's back from Tassie and she's making up for lost time, feeling (strangely) EXTREMELY motivated for this time of year, what’s with that? Sarah's still feeling horrendously unorganised and a bit stressed about the upcoming sure-to-be holiday whirlwind and Zoe just CANNOT relate.   Then we round the year out with some Q&A, and then would it be an episode of ours if we weren't tending to or rushing off to a crying baby? Absolutely not.   Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sticking with us and supporting us this year. We are truly humbled by the support and kind words and we can’t wait to get back into your ears in the new year with some exciting things on the horizon.    Love S, N & Z   Good Shouts:   Milk to Meals by Luka McCabe & Carley Mendes [https://milktomeals.com/] Gozney Roccbox [https://au.gozney.com/products/roccbox] Christmas Margaritas [https://weekendcraft.com/christmas/christmas-margarita/]   Join the conversation and come hang with us on our socials.  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/] TikTok: ttps://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5 [https://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5?_t=8eWqzZAxuhL&_r=1&fbclid=IwAR0jNb-W8rKzjs1dCzMAHkHxVbJpbysBz8ibMK_t5_s_0pfvHZKBXuYnFUA]    If you'd like to support us further, we are also currently accepting (and treasuring) 5 star reviews (hehe). WE THANK YOU, WE LOVE YOU.

19. Frequency Illusion

We're sure you've all been wondering – what happens when someone's away?? (Oh just us?) Well this happens. It's short, it's sweet and it's giving 'Nickie has ditched us for family time in Tassie so Sarah and Zoe are holding the fort'. Please go easy.   This week Sarah's been bullied (by Zoe) into cutting a bob to appease her midlife crisis and no one's getting around it, while Zoe's regretting her finger tattoos and nose piercing. Zoe's also spiralling after a rough week with her 1 year old and she is back to trying to figure how the F*#@K parents find the time to exercise. Christmas stress has well and truly hit us and we are crawling to holidays.   Hang in there guys.   If you've missed it, we are running a Christmas Competition to thank our lovely listeners!! Check out our Instagram to find out how to enter.   Good Shouts: Christmas Margaritas [https://weekendcraft.com/christmas/christmas-margarita/] Rubix cube guy on tik tok [https://www.tiktok.com/@quinickle]   Join the conversation and come hang with us on our socials.  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/] TikTok: ttps://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5 [https://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5?_t=8eWqzZAxuhL&_r=1&fbclid=IwAR0jNb-W8rKzjs1dCzMAHkHxVbJpbysBz8ibMK_t5_s_0pfvHZKBXuYnFUA]    If you'd like to support us further, we are also currently accepting (and treasuring) 5 star reviews (hehe). WE THANK YOU, WE LOVE YOU.

18. Let’s chat about PMDD

CW: This episode discusses disordered eating, anxiety, depression and body image issues.   Have you heard of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder? Neither had we. This week Zoe opens up about her diagnosis and her journey to take back control of her life. This one is raw and honest and we’re so thankful to Zoe for opening up the dialogue around this disorder and sharing her battle with us all. We hope that it's helpful to anyone out there going through the same sort of thing, you are not alone, even though you probably feel like you are. We think it's important that we continue talking about mental health and women's health issues, if not for our own sakes, then for our children's.…."Ohhh, won't somebody please think of the children!"   Big love to you all xxx   Good Shouts: Lovin' on me – Jack Harlow [https://open.spotify.com/track/4xhsWYTOGcal8zt0J161CU?si=36c1a8f4863f4fff] BLEED – The Kid LAROI [https://open.spotify.com/track/3CJrKExvAP6RCtUR8Cf99P?si=18119d82b7eb4831]     Join the conversation and come hang with us on our socials.  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/] TikTok: ttps://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5 [https://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5?_t=8eWqzZAxuhL&_r=1&fbclid=IwAR0jNb-W8rKzjs1dCzMAHkHxVbJpbysBz8ibMK_t5_s_0pfvHZKBXuYnFUA]    If you'd like to support us further, we are also currently accepting (and treasuring) 5 star reviews (hehe). WE THANK YOU, WE LOVE YOU.

17. I support the platter.

God help us, Christmas is 6 weeks away, and we don’t know about you guys but it's got us STRESSED… and also a bit despairing? The consumerism monster hits overdrive around this time of year and it really adds to our mental load. We're in an existential vortex and we’ve found ourselves questioning how long until the next mass extinction and how we can save the world from itself and for god sakes will some one please just let us know if we need to wash our recycling or not?! …phew, deep breaths everyone. Ok, It's not all doom and gloom, we have come prepared with a few festive tips and tricks to try this year, or maybe you just think about trying them, or maybe you don't at all, because we're f*cking busy and Christmas is a lot and we're surviving not thriving and your homemade bonbons can get in the figurative and literal f*cking bin (along with your elf on the shelf)…   Can we get a wine please? Happy Monday!   Good Shouts: BBC Earth Experience https://bbcearthexperience.com/melbourne [https://bbcearthexperience.com/melbourne] Pop culture parenting podcast https://instagram.com/popcultureparenting [https://instagram.com/popcultureparenting?igshid=a3hrYWVnM2U1cGlz]   Join the conversation and come hang with us on our socials.  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/] TikTok: ttps://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5 [https://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5?_t=8eWqzZAxuhL&_r=1&fbclid=IwAR0jNb-W8rKzjs1dCzMAHkHxVbJpbysBz8ibMK_t5_s_0pfvHZKBXuYnFUA]    If you'd like to support us further, we are also currently accepting (and treasuring) 5 star reviews (hehe). WE THANK YOU, WE LOVE YOU.

16. You’re not a shit mum.

We don’t want to build it up too much but we might have actually finally solved a problem by the end of this one. Don't worry we're as shocked as you are. Trying to find the balance as a woman, between your family and your career often feels impossible, in fact Zoe is convinced that it's exactly that and suggests that when considering big career moves, you leave your family plans out of it. Sarah agrees and can vouch from experience but Nickie is not so sure. Then we asked what does your ideal working week look like? After some brief confusion from Sarah's corner of the table we've collectively decided 4 days for both caregivers is the sweet spot. And, did someone say corporate work spaces with adjoining childcares? Yes, yes we did, and we're not sure why it's not more common already?!   (p.s. sorry we're late, did we mention we're sick and busy? …Probably a few times)   Good Shouts:   Blended Mango margarita mix [https://www.danmurphys.com.au/product/DM_776665/master-of-mixes-mango-daiquiri-margarita-mix-1l] with coconut milk [https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/575869] and ice   Join the conversation and come hang with us on our socials.  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/imacoolmum.podcast/] TikTok: ttps://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5 [https://www.tiktok.com/@im.a.cool.mum5?_t=8eWqzZAxuhL&_r=1&fbclid=IwAR0jNb-W8rKzjs1dCzMAHkHxVbJpbysBz8ibMK_t5_s_0pfvHZKBXuYnFUA]    If you'd like to support us further, we are also currently accepting (and treasuring) 5 star reviews (hehe). WE THANK YOU, WE LOVE YOU.