In Bed With Alexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) sits down with Zoe Atiko [https://www.instagram.com/zoe.atiko/], the creative force behind @reignofsovereignty [https://www.instagram.com/reignofsovereignty/], a groundbreaking harness fashion movement. Zoe shares her journey from burlesque and hat-making to creating fluid, inclusive designs inspired by her experiences in Berlin. We delve into how Zoe’s queerness and dedication to empowering others shape her work, as well as her philosophy of seeing bodies as monuments and rejecting the idea of imperfections. She explains what it’s like working with her, the meaning behind her movement, and her goal to inspire confidence and comfort in all who wear her designs. Topics include: * How Berlin inspired the Reign of Sovereignty movement * The evolution from burlesque and hat-making to harness fashion * Harness fashion as a tool for empowerment and fluid expression * Zoe’s queerness journey and its reflection in her designs * Creating safe and comfortable spaces for clients * Why bodies are monuments and imperfections don’t exist Join us for an inspiring conversation about fashion, identity, and the power of self-expression. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠https://beducate.me/bedwithalexa [⁠https://beducate.me/bedwithalexa]

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) delves into the world of paid companionship and intimacy with Arik Brückner, CEO and co-founder of CHOICE [https://www.instagram.com/saferchoice.ch/]—a groundbreaking platform designed to provide safe, transparent, and stigma-free services. Arik discusses how CHOICE is redefining an often misunderstood industry, focusing on safety measures like ID verification, behavior guidelines, and post-meeting feedback systems to foster trust between providers and clients. Arik opens up about his entrepreneurial journey, from bootstrapping a SaaS business to its successful exit, to his inspiration for creating CHOICE in Switzerland. We explore the challenges of destigmatizing paid companionship, the ethical considerations involved in building such a platform, and the role of technology in making human connection safer and more accessible.Tune in as we unpack misconceptions about the industry, discuss the importance of open communication, and explore how CHOICE bridges the gap between companionship and meaningful intimacy. If you’re curious about the future of companionship in the digital age, this episode is a must-listen! Topics include: * What paid companionship and intimacy really mean- The safety and verification process on CHOICE- Ethical challenges in the intimacy industry * Arik’s background and journey to founding CHOICE * Destigmatizing conversations about intimacy services * How CHOICE is using technology to redefine trust and safety A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/blfalexa [https://beducate.me/blfalexa]

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) sits down with Emma Sayle, the trailblazing Founder and CEO of Killing Kittens [https://www.instagram.com/killingkittens_/]. In this episode, they discuss Emma’s upbringing and her first experiences with sex that helped shape her journey. Emma shares how Killing Kittens was born and what sets it apart as a women-led, sex-positive space. They explore what attendees can expect at a Killing Kittens event, from who is welcome to where play happens and why single men aren’t allowed. Emma also shares exciting details about their upcoming cruise in 2026 and the vision for the future of the Killing Kittens brand. Whether you're curious about attending, want to understand the philosophy behind it, or are fascinated by Emma's journey of empowerment and breaking taboos, this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/60alexa [https://beducate.me/60alexa]

In this episode, Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) sits down with award-winning sex educator, trans activist, and author Dee Whitnell [https://www.instagram.com/s3xtheorywithdee/] to discuss their unique journey through gender identity, activism, and self-discovery. Dee shares their experience growing up queer, their initial hesitation around exploring relationships with vulva-owners, and how they met their partner, a trans man, who helps them navigate safe spaces and supports them on tough body-image days. We discuss Dee’s views on handling hurtful misgendering and how they’ve reached a place where it no longer impacts them as much. Dee also opens up about their advocacy work and the movement “Trans Kids Deserve to Grow Up,” inspired by the alarming rate of trans youth who struggle with societal acceptance. Join us as we explore Dee’s thoughts on separating art from its creator, such as the Harry Potter series, given the transphobic views of J.K. Rowling. Dee also sheds light on the limited rights for non-binary people in the UK and how parents can support children in coming out. Finally, we dive into de-centering penetration in sexual intimacy and why Dee is experiencing some of the best sex of their life. Whether you're interested in allyship, queer terminology, or redefining sexuality, this episode brings a fresh perspective on identity, activism, and love. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠⁠ [https://beducate.me/alexa60]https://beducate.me/alexablf [https://beducate.me/alexablf]

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) chats with the internet's resident sexpert, ⁠Dr. Tara⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/], on a candid journey through Dr. Tara’s sexual history, insights, and expert advice on improving relationships. Dr. Tara opens up about her childhood in Thailand with parents who avoided discussing sex, her early sexual experiences with girls at 13, and her exploration with guys after moving to Finland. She shares how her first marriage ended due to a lack of sexual compatibility and how, through friendship first, she built a strong relationship with her current husband, eventually evolving from monogamous to “monogamish.” We dive into Dr. Tara’s research on sexual communication, with tips on navigating protective vs. possessive attitudes and how men often struggle to open relationships due to cultural ideas of ownership. Dr. Tara highlights her findings on the top predictors of long-term satisfaction—sexual communication, sexual esteem, and sexual mindfulness—and offers advice on bringing these into relationships. We also discuss her new lube line, “⁠Luv by Dr. Tara⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/luvbydrtara/],” and her tips for integrating micro and macro communication in intimate conversations. From the impact of inequities in oral sex and the importance of addressing them to funny experiences around poop play clients and why “dirty talk” is her specialty, Dr. Tara keeps it real. Join us as she discusses how a simple pro/con list can change perspectives in relationships and why we should prioritize equality, communication, and the right tools for a better sex life! A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠https://beducate.me/alexa60⁠ [https://beducate.me/alexa60]