In Bed With Alexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) is joined by Birna Gustafsson [https://www.instagram.com/bbirna/], sex educator with a master's in public health and host of Explicit Studies [www.explicitstudies.com], to talk about the sea of sexual misinformation we’re constantly swimming in—and how to get better at spotting it. Together, they bust myths that still circulate widely online (even in sex-positive spaces) and explore how shame, purity culture, and bad science shape our sexual health beliefs. Expect to learn: * The actual failure rate of pulling out and why it’s riskier than you think * Why douching is unnecessary—and can be harmful * Whether you can get pregnant on your period (hint: you can) * The truth about HPV, oral sex, and throat cancer * Why orgasms aren’t the only marker of “good sex” * The dangers of black-and-white sex advice on social media * How kids are absorbing harmful beliefs from TikTok, porn & uninformed adults * Why pegging can turn men into better lovers 👀 * Why we must improve sex ed for healthcare professionals * How to know if your sex advice source is trustworthy Birna also shares how she's helping train nurses and midwives to better support patients with inclusive, evidence-based sex education. Plus: her favorite sex ed resources, books, and where to go if you're ready to learn the truth. ✨ Want more? Unedited episodes, Alexa's personal dating stories, and her IG Close Friends are all on Patreon: patreon.com/sexwithalexa Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-july [https://beducate.me/alexa-july]

In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) gets in bed with Jamie Joy [https://www.instagram.com/thebadjewboy/], a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry. We also discuss: * How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace) * Differences between vaginal and anal fisting * Safety tips, including glove use, nails, and douching * Why fisting is more emotional and intimate than you’d think * What to do if you're curious about trying it * Debunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panic * The role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal play * The stigma around anal play—especially for straight men * Jamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really! You can check out more of Jamie's work here [https://www.jamiejoy.com/]! 🌈 New to the pod? Subscribe, rate & leave us a review. And if you want unedited episodes + a peek into my personal dating and sex life, join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink]. You’ll also get added to my IG Close Friends list 💌 Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-june [https://beducate.me/alexa-june]

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) is joined by Thea Rose [https://www.instagram.com/itsthearose/], host of Seggs Talk Radio [https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradio/] and founder of a new STI testing startup, [https://www.instagram.com/testie.co/] to talk about what it really takes to build a sex-positive business—from scratch, with heart, and without losing your mind. Thea opens up about her messy, honest path as a multi-hyphenate creator, how she juggles podcasting, launching companies, and staying grounded through burnout, ADHD, OnlyFans, and entrepreneurship in a taboo space. If you've ever wondered what it actually takes to build something sustainable in the sexual wellness world—this one's for you. We get into: * How to actually niche down without losing your voice or creativity * Why your “little business” deserves as much celebration as a wedding or baby * How to recover when your audience isn't aligned (and why starting fresh matters) * The role of risk-taking in entrepreneurship (and how it shows up in the bedroom) * Launching an OnlyFans * Why being passionate about your work matters more than the money * Sex-positive branding, burnout, and building your dream audience * The cost of being underestimated as a woman in business * Choosing to celebrate yourself in your own way * Craving more intimacy—even in a city full of people * Why we have to break away from traditional life milestones 💌 Want more? Join my Patreon [https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes stories from my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-june [https://beducate.me/alexa-june]

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) is joined by Allie Hoffman, founder of Catch The Feels [https://catchthefeels.co/]—a viral in-person dating experience helping people ditch dating apps and reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and intuition. We dive deep into Allie’s groundbreaking “four systems of knowing” and how we can use the body, emotions, thoughts, and inner truth to date with more clarity and self-trust. Allie opens up about falling for poly men while being deeply monogamous, breaking her pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable partners, and how her body often speaks louder than her mind when it comes to sex and relationships. We also discuss: * How to spot the difference between ego and intuition * Why we keep falling for unavailable people (and how to stop) * Her practice of using orgasmic energy for sex magic * The truth about dating apps and why they’re keeping us stuck * How to “own your erotic map” and be okay with your identity—whether you’re queer, kinky, monogamous or none of the above * How The Feels was born and what really happens at her IRL dating events * Why being open to love is the bravest thing you can do * Sex, breakups, and learning to hear your body say “no” * How to break your patterns and stop ignoring red flags just because the sex is good 💌 Want more? Join my Patreon [https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes stories from my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram.

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/]) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies, and how men can do better in sex and relationships. We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused approach to sex. Matt opens up about getting pegged for the first time, navigating group sex with intention, and why he chose to get a vasectomy—and how it’s impacted his confidence and partnerships. We also unpack: * Why pegging changed how he shows up as a top and partner * Tips for navigating MFM threesomes with care and curiosity * How to explore dominant and submissive roles without ego * The mental and physical realities of getting a vasectomy (and why you should get one!) * How to communicate during casual sex without killing the vibe * Managing a sex-positive roster (with check-ins!) * The difference between protective and possessive behavior * Friendship with exes, emotional responsibility, and being a grown-ass slut 🎁 BONUS SCENE: Stick around for a surprise scene with Mario Cruz, recorded onboard the spicy Desire Cruise [https://dsre.me/InBedAlexaDSC], where we talk about spooning, swinging, and everything in between. 💌 Want more? Join my Patreon [https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes stories from my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram.