Just Being Adultish

AITA for Refusing to be my Bestfriend’s Groomsman?

What do you do when your best friend asks you to stand beside them on one of the biggest days of their life… but something about the relationship doesn’t sit right with you?#JustBeingAdultish #JBA #AITA #Adulting #RelationshipTalk #MarriageConversations #FriendshipDilemmas #FiguringItOut #UncomfortableTruths #RealConversations #NigerianPodcast📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejba?📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreJBA

Figuring It Out in Music & Design - Charlie XL

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean and Frank sit down with Charles—a product designer by day and aspiring musician by passion. 🎨🎵They dive into what it really feels like to chase two creative dreams at once, the pressure to “make it,” and the quiet chaos of trying to figure things out without losing yourself. Charles opens up about navigating career confusion, staying motivated, and how his partner (who also joins the episode!) helps keep him grounded when the hustle gets real.This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt torn between structure and passion, stability and risk, or just trying to do what they love while keeping their sanity intact.🎶 Check out Charles’ music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5cFU6eku1j9hy1zUo9UYNV?si=FfYmO4GtSUqSPoLrvUt9bA [https://open.spotify.com/artist/5cFU6eku1j9hy1zUo9UYNV?si=FfYmO4GtSUqSPoLrvUt9bA]📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba [https://www.instagram.com/wearejba]🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejba? [https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejba?]📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreJBA [ https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreJBA]

I'm Dating my Guy's Ex!!

Would you date your friend’s ex if the connection felt real? 👀📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba [https://www.instagram.com/wearejba]🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA [https://www.tiktok.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA ]📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA [https://www.youtube.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA]

How I Went from Hawking to Tech’s Big League! 💰

From hawking in the streets of Calabar to securing a high-paying role at one of Africa’s biggest tech companies—this is a story of pure hustle, intentionality, and career glow-up! 🚀 In this episode, we sit down with Eben to unpack how deep research, LinkedIn networking, and a relentless drive helped him break into tech. He shares the struggles of moving to Lagos, getting sacked, and the mindset shift that took him from five figures to seven figures a month.

You catch them cheating… SNITCH OR STAY QUIET?

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean and Frank dive into the ultimate relationship dilemma—if you catch someone’s partner cheating, do you snitch or stay quiet? 🤯💔 They debate whether telling the truth is worth the drama, if minding your business is the smarter move, and the messy fallout that comes with exposing a cheater.