Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

Biblical Truth vs Socialism: A Brief Discussion

Dante has a conversation with friend and elder David Kline about the fall of capitalism when good men do nothing. The conversation covers a bit of history around socialism and communism and transitions to the truth found in Scripture...that Jesus is the WAY, the TRUTH, and the LIFE. Listen in and enjoy the conversation! For more about Legacy Dads, click here: Legacy Dads Website [https://www.legacydads.org/] Legacy Dads Facebook Group: Legacy Dads Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1855766087773593/] Legacy Dads Instagram: Legacy Dads [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/]

Find Freedom from Alcohol with a Booze Vacation

In this powerful conversation, Dave and Dante sit down with Clifford Stephan, founder of BoozeVacation.com, to talk about the journey of taking a "vacation" from drinking and how intentional breaks from alcohol can transform your faith, family life, health, and leadership. Clifford shares his personal story, the moment he realized alcohol was holding him back, and why he built a community to help others explore life with less booze — or none at all. This episode encourages men to evaluate their habits, prioritize their spiritual and physical health, and lead their families with clarity and conviction. Key Topics Discussed * Clifford's personal turning point and what inspired BoozeVacation.com * The difference between quitting drinking and taking a healthy break * Why alcohol has become so normalized in culture — and why men rarely talk about it * How a drinking "vacation" can improve sleep, energy, mood, and relationships * The spiritual implications of numbing, coping, and self-medicating * Rebuilding discipline and mental resilience * Being a better husband, father, and leader through sobriety or moderation * How community and accountability fuel long-term success * Clifford's practical steps for anyone wanting to start a 30-day break * What churches, men's ministries, and small groups can do better in this area Practical Takeaways for Men * Identify if alcohol is filling a role that God should fill * Notice the patterns: stress drinking, weekend "reward" cycles, or emotional escape * Begin with a clear goal — "cut back," "take a break," or "quit" * Invite one trusted brother into the process for accountability * Replace old routines with healthier rhythms: exercise, prayer, hobbies, service * Track how your body, mind, and spiritual life respond during the break * Set boundaries around environments that trigger unhealthy habits Scripture to Reflect On * 1 Corinthians 6:12 (ESV) – "All things are lawful for me," but not all things are helpful. * Ephesians 5:18 (ESV) – "Do not get drunk with wine… but be filled with the Spirit." * Proverbs 25:28 (ESV) – "A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls." These verses guide men toward living with intentionality, discipline, and spiritual clarity. About Clifford Stephan & Booze Vacation Clifford is the founder of BoozeVacation.com, a platform designed to help individuals take meaningful breaks from alcohol through structured challenges, coaching, and community support. His mission is to empower people to rediscover their best selves and experience life without the haze and habits alcohol often brings. Learn more at BoozeVacation.com [https://www.boozevacation.com].

Building Resilient Kids: A Conversation with Daniel Puder

In this powerful episode, Dave and Dante sit down with Daniel Puder—former MMA fighter turned educator and youth advocate—to discuss the urgent challenges facing today's schools, kids, and families. Puder shares how his experience in the cage shaped his passion for protecting and empowering young people, and why he believes our education system needs a complete culture shift. https://mlmpipa.org/ [https://mlmpipa.org/] For more about Legacy Dads, click here: Legacy Dads Website [https://www.legacydads.org/] Legacy Dads Facebook Group: Legacy Dads Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1855766087773593/] Legacy Dads Instagram: Legacy Dads I [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/]

When Truth Becomes a Feeling: Moral Relativism and Legacy Dads

🎧 Episode Description In this episode, we dive into the latest research from Barna on how Americans view truth and morality. The findings reveal a culture increasingly skeptical of moral absolutes and more reliant on personal feelings and pluralistic sources of truth. As dads who want to pass on a legacy of clarity, conviction, and faith, we'll explore what this means for our families, our faith, and how we model truth for the next generation. 🧭 Key Segments & Topics 1. Setting the Scene – What the Research Says * The survey shows ≈ 74% of adults say they trust their feelings over facts when discerning moral truth. George Barna+2George Barna+2 [https://georgebarna.com/2025/05/unbiblical-moral-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Only a minority believe in moral absolutes; many believe moral truth is relative to circumstances. George Barna+3Barna Group+3George Barna+3 [https://www.barna.com/research/americans-are-most-likely-to-base-truth-on-feelings/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * A large portion of Americans accept the idea that "different moral truth-views can all be right." George Barna+1 [https://georgebarna.com/2025/05/unbiblical-moral-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Even among Christian-identified groups, significant percentages reject or doubt absolute moral truth. George Barna+2George Barna+2 [https://georgebarna.com/2025/05/unbiblical-moral-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 2. Why This Matters for Dads & Families * When truth becomes something you feel rather than something you know or are rooted in, it affects how we model decision-making for our kids. * Legacy is about more than providing; it's about imparting a worldview. If that worldview is unstable or shifting with culture, the next generation inherits confusion. * The article warns: societies without shared, stable moral references risk becoming fragmented, morally ambiguous or anchored only in emotion. George Barna+1 [https://georgebarna.com/2020/05/survey-finds-americans-see-many-sources-of-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * As fathers, we're gatekeepers for our homes: of truth, character, and generational faith. So what do we do when our culture says "each person decides their truth"? 3. Practical Applications – What You Can Do * Anchor in a stable source: Encourage family conversations about why you believe what you believe — not just what. * Model decision-making: Show your children how you arrive at right vs wrong. Is it "how I feel" or "what is true / what does Scripture say / what is right"? * Discuss pluralism & relativism honestly: If our kids are hearing that all truth-views are valid, we need to equip them to think critically and biblically. * Create opportunities for reflection: Ask your children (depending on age) "What basis did you use to decide that was okay or not okay?" * Teach the big story: Legacy is long-term. Morality isn't just a list of do's and don'ts, but a story of a God who is truth, and lives that flow from that. 4. Conversation Starters for Your Family * "What do you believe defines right and wrong?" * "Have you ever changed your mind about something because of how you felt? What did you base that on?" * "Why do you think some people believe truth depends on the situation?" * "If someone says 'that's true for you but not for me,' how would you respond?" * "What difference does it make if truth is absolute vs relative?" 5. Legacy Dad Challenge This week: Pick one moral/ethical decision you face (big or small). Walk your child(ren) through how you came to your decision: What basis did you use? Was it simply how you felt? Or did you consult Scripture, your conscience, parental wisdom, cultural norms? After making the decision, revisit it: "Was that the wisest basis? Would I make the same decision next time with what I now know?" 🔍 Recommended Further Reading & Resources * The original article on Barna's site: "Survey Finds Americans See Many Sources of Truth—and Reject Moral Absolutes." George Barna [https://georgebarna.com/2020/05/survey-finds-americans-see-many-sources-of-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Barna's deeper breakdown: "Americans Possess Contradictory and Unbiblical Views about Moral Truth." George Barna [https://georgebarna.com/2025/05/unbiblical-moral-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * "The End of Absolutes: America's New Moral Code" (Barna archive). Barna Group [https://www.barna.com/research/the-end-of-absolutes-americas-new-moral-code/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 🎯 Take-Away Points for Listeners * The cultural current is moving toward "truth according to me/feelings," rather than fixed moral truth. * As fathers wanting to build a legacy, we must choose to anchor our families in something more stable — not just personal preference. * Modeling how to live with conviction, how to think about truth, how to navigate moral decisions — that becomes part of our legacy. * It's not enough to tell our kids what's right; we show them how we determine right. * When the culture says "all truths are valid," the Christian father says: "Let's explore why I believe one truth is true, and how that matters for how we live." 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Giggle Check

🧩 Episode Overview In this episode, the guys unpack the often-overlooked spiritual value of humor. As Christian men, we can sometimes take life — and ourselves — too seriously. But laughter is one of God's gifts that brings healing, unity, and perspective to our families and communities. Dante and Dave discuss how humor: * Strengthens relationships with our wives and kids, * Keeps us humble and human, * Relieves stress in tense seasons, and * Reflects the joy we have in Christ. 🕊️ Key Takeaways 1. Humor Is Biblical: God created laughter and joy. From Elijah's sarcasm on Mount Carmel (1 Kings 18:27) to Jesus using irony and wordplay in His teachings, Scripture shows that God isn't opposed to humor — He designed it. 2. Laughter Builds Resilience: In stressful times, laughter re-centers us. It reminds us that we are not in control — and that's okay. Humor helps us release tension, rebuild connection, and move forward in faith. 3. Humor Strengthens Relationships: Healthy teasing and shared laughter between spouses and kids can strengthen bonds, but it must never come at the expense of others. Kind humor blesses, not belittles. 4. Joy Is a Witness: A joyful, laughing Christian stands out in a world marked by cynicism. Our laughter can be a quiet testimony of hope and trust in God's goodness. 💬 Discussion Highlights * The difference between holy humor and hurtful sarcasm * Funny parenting moments that turned into teachable faith lessons * How laughter helps men process fear, grief, and uncertainty * The connection between joy and strength (Nehemiah 8:10) * Practical ways to use humor to defuse tension at home and work 📖 Scripture References * Proverbs 17:22 — "A cheerful heart is good medicine…" * Ecclesiastes 3:4 — "A time to weep and a time to laugh…" * Nehemiah 8:10 — "The joy of the Lord is your strength." * Psalm 126:2 — "Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy." * Philippians 4:4 — "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice." 🧠 Practical Challenge for Men This Week: Find one situation at home or work where you normally respond with frustration — and instead, bring a moment of levity or gentle humor. Notice how it shifts the atmosphere. Ask your wife or kids: "What's something funny I've done lately?" — and don't defend yourself. Just laugh together. 🛠️ Legacy Application * Use humor to connect, not deflect. * Let your joy be contagious — a reminder that your hope is anchored in something eternal. * Teach your kids that it's okay to laugh, even when life feels heavy — because laughter and faith often walk hand in hand. 🔗 Episode Resources * Book: "Between Heaven and Mirth" by Fr. James Martin — on joy and humor in faith * Article: "Why Christians Should Laugh More" – Desiring God 🔔 Subscribe & Review: If today's episode challenged or encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. It helps other men find biblical truth in a world full of noise. For more about Legacy Dads, click here: Legacy Dads Website [https://www.legacydads.org/] Legacy Dads Facebook Group: Legacy Dads Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1855766087773593/] Legacy Dads Instagram: Legacy Dads I [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/]