026 Why Trying Harder Won't Change Your Marriage—What Husbands Must Do Instead

026 Why Trying Harder Won't Change Your Marriage—What Husbands Must Do Instead

Guys, * Have you ever wondered even though you keep trying harder in your marriage, the same problems keep coming back? * If your wife described your character what would she say consistently defines you? * Do you feel like no matter what you do, you never win in your marriage? Many husbands work hard to improve their marriage, yet the same patterns of conflict, anger, and frustration keep returning because behavior change alone never reaches the heart. In this episode, Glenn explains why lasting transformation begins with discovering your identity in Christ, allowing God to shape your character, and leading yourself before trying to lead your family. You'll learn why transformed character produces lasting change that no marriage technique can accomplish on its own. Glenn shares biblical encouragement to help you replace lies with God's truth, cultivate godly character, and build a stronger marriage through daily choices rooted in faith. If you're ready to stop relying on willpower and start becoming the husband and dad God created you to be, this episode offers a practical path forward.  Next Steps: - Step 1: Join a supportive community of like-minded men at my Facebook group Becoming Men Who Lead Well [https://www.facebook.com/groups/778657491344554]. - Step 2: Become an Insider. Sign up for my weekly newsletter. You'll get: 1. a brief recap of the week's episodes 2. each episode's simple Action Plan written out for easy implementation 3. bonus content that digs deeper to help you better lead your family well and life in general. Bottom line, it's just a short word of encouragement. Sign up at MenWhoLeadWell.com/insider [https://menwholeadwell.com/insider].

025 Why Insecurity Damages Your Marriage — And How Confident Husbands Lead

Men, * Why do some conversations with our wife feel like personal attacks? * Why is it so hard to admit when we're wrong?  * What if becoming a more confident husband has less to do with trying harder and more to do with becoming a different man?  Insecurity often disguises itself as defensiveness, anger, withdrawal, and other behaviors that quietly create conflict and disconnection in marriage. In this episode, Glenn explains how a husband's identity shapes his character, why strong character is the antidote to insecurity, and how practical faith transforms the way men lead at home. You'll discover why confident husbands don't simply try harder—they become different men by renewing their minds with God's truth and choosing godly character each day. Glenn also shares practical steps to help you lead yourself well so you can become the husband and dad your family needs. If you're ready to build a stronger marriage through anchored identity and Christ-centered leadership, this episode will encourage and equip you to take the next step. Next Steps: - Step 1: Join a supportive community of like-minded men at my Facebook group Becoming Men Who Lead Well [https://www.facebook.com/groups/778657491344554]. - Step 2: Become an Insider. Sign up for my weekly newsletter. You'll get: 1. a brief recap of the week's episodes 2. each episode's simple Action Plan written out for easy implementation 3. bonus content that digs deeper to help you better lead your family well and life in general. Bottom line, it's just a short word of encouragement. Sign up at MenWhoLeadWell.com/insider [https://menwholeadwell.com/insider].

024 Why Your Wife Says You Don't Listen in Marriage — And How to Rebuild Connection

Husbands, * Has your wife ever said, "You're not listening to me," even though you could repeat every word she just said? Communication is one of the greatest challenges in marriage, and many husbands unintentionally create disconnection by hearing their wife's words without understanding her heart. In this episode, Glenn shares practical, biblical ways to replace defensiveness and insecurity with curiosity, empathy, and listening that rebuilds real connection. You'll learn why validation doesn't mean agreement, how asking better questions uncovers what's really being said, and why emotional safety is essential for a healthy marriage. Through practical faith and Scripture, you'll discover how your words can either strengthen your relationship or tear it down. If you want to become a more confident husband who leads well and rebuilds connection with your wife, this episode offers simple, practical steps you can begin using today.  Next Steps: - Step 1: Join a supportive community of like-minded men at my Facebook group Becoming Men Who Lead Well [https://www.facebook.com/groups/778657491344554]. - Step 2: Become an Insider. Sign up for my weekly newsletter. You'll get: 1. a brief recap of the week's episodes 2. each episode's simple Action Plan written out for easy implementation 3. bonus content that digs deeper to help you better lead your family well and life in general. Bottom line, it's just a short word of encouragement. Sign up at MenWhoLeadWell.com/insider [https://menwholeadwell.com/insider].

023 Why the Same Marriage Arguments Keep Coming Back — And How Husbands Can Break the Cycle

Husbands, * Do you feel like you and your wife keep having the same argument over and over again—but never really solve it? * Does it seem like the smallest disagreements in your marriage quickly turn into the biggest arguments? * Have you ever felt completely misunderstood by your wife—even though you thought you explained yourself clearly? In this episode, Glenn uncovers five common reasons husbands and wives get stuck in repetitive conflict and explains how heart beliefs, insecurity, and communication often drive the cycle beneath the surface. You'll learn practical, biblical ways to listen with understanding, uncover the real issues behind conflict, and lead your marriage with humility instead of defensiveness. Through practical faith and Scripture, you'll discover how renewed thinking can transform the way you communicate and strengthen your relationship with your wife. If you want to become a confident husband who leads well and builds a more connected marriage, this episode will give you practical steps to start breaking the cycle today.  Next Steps: - Step 1: Join a supportive community of like-minded men at my Facebook group Becoming Men Who Lead Well [https://www.facebook.com/groups/778657491344554]. - Step 2: Become an Insider. Sign up for my weekly newsletter. You'll get: 1. a brief recap of the week's episodes 2. each episode's simple Action Plan written out for easy implementation 3. bonus content that digs deeper to help you better lead your family well and life in general. Bottom line, it's just a short word of encouragement. Sign up at MenWhoLeadWell.com/insider [https://menwholeadwell.com/insider].

022 Want to Be a Better Dad? Start With This One Gift

Dads, * When your children think about you twenty years from now, what kind of man do you hope they remember? * If your children become just like you, would you be excited for the adults they become? * What's the greatest gift you could give your children that they could never buy with money? In this episode, Glenn explains why the greatest gift given to your kids isn't money, possessions, or opportunities, but becoming the godly dad your children need through authentic faith, strong character, and intentional leadership. You'll discover practical ways to lead your family by loving Jesus, loving your wife, being present, owning your mistakes, and leaving a spiritual legacy that points your children to Christ. This episode challenges every husband and father to move beyond simply being a father and become a dad whose everyday life shapes the beliefs, values, and identity of their children. If you want to become a confident dad who leads well at home and influences your kids for a lifetime, this episode will encourage you to take that next step. Next Steps: - Step 1: Join a supportive community of like-minded men at my Facebook group Becoming Men Who Lead Well [https://www.facebook.com/groups/778657491344554]. - Step 2: Become an Insider. Sign up for my weekly newsletter. You'll get: 1. a brief recap of the week's episodes 2. each episode's simple Action Plan written out for easy implementation 3. bonus content that digs deeper to help you better lead your family well and life in general. Bottom line, it's just a short word of encouragement. Sign up at MenWhoLeadWell.com/insider [https://menwholeadwell.com/insider].