Misfit Social

Episode 510 - Pack a Suitcase

Get out and see the world! Cliff Nance promised his children two things: an education and a nice set of suitcases — because the best education might just happen outside the classroom. In this Season 5 finale episode of Misfit Social, Roy, Paul, and Cliff unpack what happens when you leave your bubble and truly experience life through another culture's lens. From Cliff's three weeks off-grid in the African bush (with a whole fish staring back at him at breakfast), to Paul's culture-shocking teen travels through Asia with his dad, to Roy's jarring encounter with post-Apartheid Johannesburg — these aren't travel brags. They're life-altering moments that permanently shifted how each of them sees humanity. The guys dive deep into the difference between knowing about something and actually living it — why your social media opinion on Ukraine hits different when you have real friends getting bombed there, why commenting on Charlie Kirk's tragedy before you've done your homework might say more about you than him, and why humility in conversation desperately needs a revival. They also explore practical ways to help the next generation pack their own suitcase — from gap year programs and mission trips to simply getting to know the neighbor who doesn't look like you — and lay out the three Laws of Incarnation: enter another's world, hold on to yourself, and learn to hang in the tension between both. Whether you've traveled the world or never left your zip code, this one will make you want to go somewhere new — or at least see your own backyard differently.

Episode 509 - Political Violence

Cliff Nance, Paul Cook, and Royce Wilson get into one of the heavier topics on the Misfit Social Podcast — political violence. From Flanders Field to Franz Ferdinand, the shot heard 'round the world to 9/11, the guys take a walk through history to show that political violence isn't new — it's practically been a constant. The real question is: what do we do about it now? The conversation covers everything from MLK's nonviolent resistance and Gandhi's soul force, to the forever wars, Hitler's rise out of post-WWI Germany, and what's happening in our own backyard today. They also dig into how social media algorithms, foreign propaganda, and a 24-hour news cycle are fueling the fire — and what each of us can actually do to restore dignified discourse, one conversation at a time.

Episode 508 - Julie Cook | Adoption, Childcare & the Teachers Who Shape Us

This week, the Misfits welcome a very special guest — Julie Cook, wife of co-host Paul Cook — and yes, Paul gets an earful! Julie shares her deeply personal journey through infertility and adoption, offering an honest look at the emotional highs and lows that come with building a family in unexpected ways. The guys also shine a spotlight on the unsung heroes in early childhood education and the teachers who shape lives long before kids ever set foot in a classroom. From conflict resolution to the very real childcare crisis facing American families, this episode is equal parts heartfelt and thought-provoking. Julie's story is one of tenacity, empathy, and lionheart courage — a reminder that the road less traveled often leads to the most cherished destinations. Don't miss this one.

Episode 507 - Psychological Safety

What does General Patton have to do with building a great company culture? More than you'd think. In this extended episode of the Misfit Social Podcast, Cliff Nance, Paul Cook, and Royce Wilson go deep on psychological safety — the shared belief that a team is safe enough to take risks, speak honestly, and challenge without fear of retaliation. Royce unpacks the framework he's been coaching at Tungco, pulling from Harvard Business School's Ranjay Gulati, Frances Frei's Trust Triangle, Google's Project Aristotle, Phil Jackson's championship philosophy, and more. The guys get personal about their own leadership failures, the cost of silencing voice and choice on a team, and why the best leaders — from Patton to Michael Jordan — could have been even greater if they'd built safety instead of fear. This one runs longer than most episodes, but it's worth listening to every minute.

Episode 506 – Grief

Everyone loses something. A person. A relationship. A version of the life you thought you'd have. In this episode of the Misfit Social Podcast, Cliff Nance, Paul Cook, and Royce Wilson sit down for one of their most human conversations yet — grief. They walk through the five stages (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance), share personal stories of loss, and ask a harder question: how well are we actually doing at grieving as a society? Spoiler: not well. The guys dig into what it looks like to move from grief toward forgiveness, why bargaining and depression often cycle together, and why the stories we tell ourselves after a loss are everything. Whether you've lost a person, a relationship, a career, or a sense of purpose — this one's for you. Dare to hope. This episode shares personal experiences and perspectives on grief. It’s intended for general conversation and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health support. If you’re struggling, consider reaching out to a qualified healthcare provider