My better Half with Will & Tosha

Over My better Half with Will & Tosha

My Better Half with Will & Tosha Archer — 26 Years. 26 Weeks. Unfiltered Truth.Marriage isn’t easy; we stop pretending and start doing the work to make it great.We’re Will and Tosha Archer. Married 26 years (“Silver Plus One”), raised two kids, built businesses—and we’ve hit hard seasons too: the “business partner” trap, a 6-year drift, and times we felt like roommates paying bills.This is the blueprint we wish we had. My Better Half is a 26-week journey into real marriage: research-backed tools + lived experience to help you build a relationship that lasts. From communication and money to sex and faith, nothing is off-limits.Expect raw, unscripted conversations, “Love Lab” science (Dr. John Gottman, Love Maps, the 5:1 ratio), real talk on culture and finances, and practical steps you can use tonight to go from “roommates” back to “lovers.”Year 1 or Year 40—surviving or thriving—you belong here. Give us 26 weeks; we’ll give you tools for a love that lasts.

The Family Mission Statement

Unlock the secret to building a marriage that lasts a lifetime—by crafting a family mission statement. Discover how a simple, intentional step can turn your relationship into a dynastic legacy that endures generations. This episode reveals the powerful science behind shared meaning and core values, and how they boost resilience, deepen connection, and prepare your family for the future. Will and Tosha, seasoned marriage experts with over 26 years of experience, share practical strategies to create your family’s true north—just like a corporate mission statement but tailored for your loved ones. You'll learn how to move from reacting to life’s chaos to intentionally building something that lasts forever. They break down a straightforward three-step process: the three words exercise, a stop-start-continue audit, and defining your family’s “we are” declaration—all designed to align your values and vision.This episode explores how shared meaning increases your chances of staying together through major life transitions by 90%, and how resilience—key to navigating hardships—is rooted in aligned values. With insights from Gottman theory, schema therapy, and timeless scriptures, you'll understand how to harness faith, purpose, and intentionality to grow stronger as a couple and as a family.Perfect for couples committed to lifelong growth, parents forming a legacy, and anyone who wants to build a resilient, purpose-driven family foundation. If you're ready to elevate your marriage beyond just surviving and start thriving—creating a future worth passing down—this episode is your blueprint. Tune in and start drafting your family’s mission today—it’s the best investment you’ll ever make in your relationships. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Introduction: The journey of creating a family mission statement 00:30 - Reflection on the Marriage Minute Challenge and reoccupation strategies 01:22 - The importance of a family mission statement for building a dynastic legacy 02:17 - Why families need clear mission statements, like in business ventures 03:13 - Building a resilient marriage through shared meaning and values 04:09 - The science: Couples with shared purpose are 90% more likely to stay together 05:00 - Recognizing the importance of aligning values in marriage and family 05:26 - The role of schema therapy in moving from childhood triggers to healthy legacy 06:22 - The nucleus of the family: marriage as the heart of the household 07:42 - Avoiding the "gray divorce" by having a vision for your future together 08:10 - Celebrating the role of the spouse as the family's nucleus 09:26 - Praying over and seeking spiritual guidance for your family mission 10:16 - The spiritual inheritance we want to pass to future generations 11:07 - Building a legacy of love, respect, and shared values for grandchildren 12:24 - The core values of the Archer family: growth, hospitality, limitless opportunity 13:13 - Proverbs and seven-generation thinking in family legacy planning 14:07 - Leaving a lasting impact through values and purpose beyond material inheritance 15:03 - Stephen Covey’s view: a family mission statement as the rudder of your home 16:00 - Practical exercise 1: Three words to describe your family in 20 years 16:28 - Exercise 2: Stop, start, continue audit of family habits 16:56 - Exercise 3: Crafting your "we are" family declaration 17:23 - Bringing your family mission to life and sharing with children 18:19 - Concluding thoughts and upcoming series on relationship building

12 mei 2026 - 18 min