Out of Bounds

Open Relationships, SCOTUS vs Conversion Therapy, Trans Bans & Fisting: a Kink for the Trusting

Jake Williamson and Sam Leicht are back, and Jake accidentally spoils that the kink of the week is fisting so at least you know what to prep for. After a life update (Jake's offer on a house just got accepted, he's heading to Malibu to prep for HYROX World Champs in Stockholm, and he's eyeing a half Ironman post season. Sam, meanwhile, has been flattened by what might be the Cicada COVID variant and missed CrossFit Quarterfinals because of it), per usual, this episode the guys get into it all baby. In the Gay News: The Supreme Court rules 8-1 to gut Colorado's conversion therapy ban, and Sam calls in researcher Dr. Daniel Aaron, whose study dropped the same week, to break down why even the liberal justices voted with the majority and what it might actually mean for the First Amendment going forward. Then: the IOC announces mandatory SRY gene screening for all women's events at the 2028 LA Olympics, effectively banning trans women and many intersex athletes. Nikki Hiltz had thoughts. Jake and Sam do too. Kink of the Week: Fisting. Jake spoiled it at the top, so you've had time to prepare. The guys cover the trust, the logistics, the harm reduction culture the fisting community basically invented, and an anal Botox rabbit hole that nobody asked for but nobody turned down either. LGBTQ&A: Open relationships; where do Jake and Sam actually land? And which pro sport would be most disrupted if more athletes came out? Baseball gets dragged. Jake thinks American football is fruity. Sam floats that Carlos Alcaraz could theoretically be gay but to be clear nobody is accusing anyone of anything. Out of Bounds is the queer sports and culture podcast hosted by HYROX athlete Jake Williamson and health entrepreneur Sam Leicht. New episodes every week on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. And if you've got thirty seconds to spare, a five-star review helps more super gay listeners, like you, find us.

Louis Theroux's Manosphere Doc, Thirst Trap Math & Kink of the Week is Chastity

Jake Williamson and Sam Leicht are in rare form this week and the episode manages to connect Louis Theroux, thirst traps, cock cages, and the CrossFit Open without losing the thread once. After recapping Jake's ongoing back saga and a stronger-than-expected CrossFit Open finish, the guys break down Louis Theroux's documentary Inside the Manosphere and why the same engagement playbook powering Andrew Tate also runs right-wing politics and your Instagram explore page. In the Gay News: New York City's new mayor appoints a trans woman to lead the city's first-ever office of LGBTQIA+ affairs. And I Kissed a Boy and I Kissed a Girl have been quietly axed by the BBS - WTF? Funding issue, or something more deliberate? The LGBTQ&A gets personal this episode as Jake pulls his Instagram analytics live to settle the thirst trap debate and the data is in queens (644,000 views on Speedos vs. 2,000 on a running shot). Plus: chastity cages unpacked, doing mushrooms with a shaman, and a CrossFit athlete getting called out for selling a peptide fantasy to the very people who trust her (here’s looking at you, @amandajbarnhart). PETITION TO SAVE "I KISSED A" SERIES [https://www.change.org/p/demand-the-bbc-fund-queer-representation-save-i-kissed-a-girl-boy] Also this week: Jake's getting a new car, heading to London to compete, and celebrating six years with Paul, while Sam and Jared are catching Heathers off-broadway one night and Capote with Jesse Tyler Ferguson on Broadway another. Out of Bounds is the queer sports and culture podcast hosted by HYROX athlete Jake Williamson and health entrepreneur Sam Leicht. New episodes every week on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Oh, and do you have time to leave us a five-star review? It seriously helps more listeners like you find us, and it makes us feel good about ourselves, so…

Bruce Mouat on Olympic Silver, Homophobia in Football & SNL's LGBTQ+ First

Olympic silver medalist and Great Britain curling skip Bruce Mouat sits down with Jake Williamson and Sam Leicht for an honest conversation about coming out, what it unlocked in his sporting career, and life in the weeks after Milan Cortina 2026. Also this week: Jack Fletcher's gay slur on the pitch and whether professional football is still the most homophobic space in elite sport. Hillary Knight becomes the first out LGBTQ+ athlete to appear on SNL. The Atlantic's "In Defense of Effeminate Boys [https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/03/gay-boys-lgbtq-trans/686179/]" gets the discussion it deserves? Kink of the Week is tickling. And your real, unfiltered responses to LGBTQ&A: what are we gays actually missing out on? Follow the show and leave a rating wherever you're listening. It helps more than you'd think! Thanks babes. And don't forget to send us a voice memo or message on Instagram @outofbounds with a kink story or question and listen out for our response in a future episode.

Heated Rivalry, the Gay Tech Mafia & Queer Visibility in Elite Sports | Season 2 Premiere

Is there really a Gay Tech Mafia running Silicon Valley, and does it matter? Jake Williamson and Sam Leicht dig into WIRED Magazine's viral exposé on queer power networks (Inside the Gay Tech Mafia [https://www.wired.com/story/inside-the-gay-tech-mafia/]), unpack HBO's Heated Rivalry and what it actually moves the needle on for LGBTQ+ representation in sport, and winning silver for Eileen Gu and Bruce Mouat and more on queer visibility in elite competition. Also this week: BDSM, desire, and what actually turns us off in Kink of the Week. Plus alcohol and drug pressure in queer spaces, PrideFit updates, and CrossFit Open 2026. Follow the show and leave a rating wherever you're listening. It helps more than you think. Want to submit a question or share your own kinky story? Send us a voice memo for a future episode.

Gay Cowboys, Wedgies & Boots | Season 1 Finale

Sam and Jake catch up after a month apart — Jake fresh off a podium finish in Hamburg and a ticket to the Elite 15 Hyrox World Championships, Sam back from Boston with injury stories and a new appreciation for doubles racing. The boys break down Hyrox travel costs, injury management, back pain fixes, and what it takes to be world-class in a pay-to-play sport. Then it’s full Out of Bounds chaos: queer travel talk in South Africa, gay rodeos, the Pentagon’s wild take on Netflix’s “Boots”, and an unhinged GQ article about “nutmaxxing.” They close the season with a deep dive into wedgies, sounding, and kink culture, exploring where curiosity meets consent — plus Sam’s reflection on fetish ethics and Jake’s confession that he might ask Paul for a wedgie later. It’s part education, part overshare, and 100% Out of Bounds. CW: Sexual content, kink discussion, brief mentions of apartheid and systemic discrimination. 00:00 Cold open — new headphones & haircut banter 02:04 Intro — “Out of Bounds with Jake & Sam” 02:12 Where Jake’s been: Hamburg, Hyrox Elite 15 explained 03:14 Second place + Worlds qualification 04:25 Balancing doubles vs. solos 05:33 The cost of elite competition & sponsorships 07:18 Jake’s back pain and MRI updates 09:07 Sam’s Boston doubles recap + flat tire saga 11:13 Mixed vs. doubles racing & why it’s fun 12:23 Sam’s burnout & wanting a break 14:15 Jake’s trip to South Africa — beauty, privilege, and apartheid reflections 17:12 Queerness abroad & visibility 19:20 Gay News: Queer rodeo celebrates 50 years 23:31 News #2: Pentagon vs. Netflix’s Boots 27:48 Discussion — masculinity, weakness, and representation 28:46 News #3: “Meet the Nutmaxxers Obsessed with Bigger Loads” 31:25 Anal stimulation & honesty on air 33:19 Partners listening to the podcast (or not) 35:20 Jockstraps, underwear talk, and power dynamics 39:49 Social media breaks & burnout 43:33 Raw dogging workouts (no music = focus) 46:50 UK vs. US culture 49:15 Kink of the Week: Wedgies & sounding 53:07 Dom/sub kinks and the ethics of pain 56:25 Season Finale Wrap: travel plans, PrideFit updates, B&D research 1:00:15 Rankings joke & fake “#1 podcast” idea 1:01:15 Sign off — “See you in 2026… maybe.”