Gaslighting | The Hidden Signs With Raffi Bilek - Ep #3
Free guide with tools to help you bridge compatibility issues in your marriage 👉🏼 https://reignitedmarriage.optins.com/5-vital-toolsRaffi's Book 👉🏼 https://www.thecommunicationbook.com/About Raffi Bilek -Raffi Bilek has been working with couples across the globe for over a decade. He has helped hundreds of couples improve their communication, boost their connection, recover from hurts and betrayals, and, in many cases, save their marriages.Before that, Raffi earned a degree in computer science from Brown University, but never much enjoyed it because the computers wouldn’t laugh at his humor. Besides being a couples counselor and a computer programmer, Raffi is a dad to four girls, a former swing dancer, an Orthodox Jewish rabbi, and a nationally ranked Scrabble player. Raffi speaks English, Hebrew, French, and Spanish, has seen the fjords (they really are that good), and enjoys playing word games and telling good (and bad) jokes. He deeply loves his wife, but frankly wishes she got more of his jokes.00:00 Introduction00:18 Raffi's Journey Into Relationships01:32 What Is Gaslighting?04:21 What is Underneath Gaslighting?06:54 Working With A Partner Who Gaslights08:42 Communicating with a Gaslighting Partner11:47 Self-Reflection and Awareness in Relationships12:00 Accepting Feedback About Gaslighting14:36 The Importance of Empathy vs. Sympathy15:51 Communicating About Your Process Of Transformation17:35 The 4 Aspects of Listening22:41 Empathy vs Sympathy🔗 Connect with RaffiInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/the.marriage.mentor/Website - https://www.thecommunicationbook.com/🔗 Connect with AJInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/seva.with.aj/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/abhishekvjoshi/X - https://x.com/AVJoshi3