The Feminine Perspective

Verity's Newly Single Era - Ep 27

After a five-week break, Emily and Verity are finally back behind the mic for a long overdue catch-up — and they’re bringing you along for every unfiltered, chaotic and surprisingly emotional moment. From life updates to late-night revelations, this episode feels like sitting in on a conversation between best friends who have a lot to unpack. Verity opens up about being newly single and how it’s pushed her into a new chapter of self-reflection, freedom and reinvention. She shares the “40 by 40” bucket list she’s created ahead of her milestone birthday — including the experiences she wants to have, the risks she wants to take, and the cosmetic surgeries she’s planning before turning 40. The conversation takes a hilarious turn as Verity recounts recent nights out with her friends and her daughter, including the surreal experience of ending up in university clubs and seeing nightlife through a completely different lens. Emily and Verity compare stories about partying, ageing, confidence, and the strange overlap between motherhood and modern social lives. But the episode also moves into more serious territory when they begin discussing how often they were catcalled as schoolgirls compared to now as adult women. That conversation sparks Emily to share a deeply personal story about a close friend who, at a very young age, became involved with a much older man — and the lasting impact it had on her life and relationships. Honest, funny, uncomfortable and heartfelt in equal measure, this episode is a reminder of why these two conversations feel like catching up with your own friends.

The Co-worker Complication - Ep 26

This week’s dilemma dives into the messy middle of long-term love and unexpected temptation…Our listener has been in a steady relationship for four years — comfortable, secure, but lately… a little stagnant. The spark that once felt effortless now takes work, and she’s starting to wonder if that’s just what long-term relationships become — or if something’s missing.Complicating things further, there’s a co-worker in the picture. Nothing has happened, but there’s an undeniable chemistry — lingering conversations, a flirty energy, and a growing “what if?” that she can’t ignore.So now she’s stuck at a crossroads:Does she stay and try to reignite the relationship she’s built over years, or take a risk on something new and uncertain?Emily and Verity unpack the dilemma with honesty and nuance, exploring the difference between comfort and complacency, the role of curiosity in relationships, and whether a spark with someone new is a sign — or just a distraction. They discuss communication, timing, emotional responsibility, and how to make a decision you can stand by without regret.If you’ve ever questioned a long-term relationship or felt tempted by the excitement of someone new, this episode will definitely get you thinking…✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨Follow our socials:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefeminineperspective_Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefeminineperspective_/Emily's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmysloan22/Verity's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verity_j_x/

I GOT A NOSE JOB!: My Rhinoplasty Deep Dive - Ep 25

In this candid and unfiltered episode, Emily and Verity sit down for an honest, no-holds-barred conversation about Emily’s rhinoplasty journey—from the very first consultation to life after surgery. If you’ve ever been curious about nose jobs, considering one yourself, or just want the real story behind the process, this episode covers it all.Emily opens up about why she decided to get rhinoplasty in the first place, including her personal insecurities, expectations, and the moment she knew she was ready to go through with it. She breaks down the full timeline - from researching surgeons and consultations to surgery day and recovery - sharing the details most people don’t talk about.They also dive into the financial side, with Emily transparently discussing the total cost, what was included, and whether she feels it was worth the investment. Nothing is off-limits as Verity asks all the questions you’re probably thinking: Did it hurt? How long did the swelling last? What was the most difficult part of recovery? Would she do it again?Emily also shares the emotional side of the experience—how she felt before and after the surgery, how it impacted her confidence, and whether it matched her expectations. She talks honestly about the highs, the doubts, and the reality of seeing your face change.Whether you’re seriously considering rhinoplasty or just curious about what it’s really like, this episode is packed with insights, personal reflections, and practical advice you won’t find in a quick Google search.Tune in for a real, relatable, and refreshingly honest deep dive into one of the most talked-about cosmetic procedures.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

Why Do I Attract Red Flags?! - Ep 24

This week, Emily and Verity dive into a listener dilemma that hits way too close to home for many of us. One viewer writes in to share her frustration about constantly attracting men who seem charming at first… but quickly reveal themselves to be walking red flags. From love bombing to emotional unavailability, Emily and Verity unpack the patterns, the warning signs, and the deeper reasons this might be happening.The conversation gets real as they break down the “nitty gritty” of the dilemma—how early behaviours can predict long-term issues, why we sometimes ignore our instincts, and how past experiences can shape the kind of partners we gravitate toward. Emily and Verity offer practical advice on what to actually look for in a healthy relationship, from consistency and communication to emotional maturity and respect.But it’s not all serious—there’s plenty of reassurance too. The girls remind listeners that good men do exist, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. They encourage anyone feeling disheartened to hold onto their standards and trust that the right person won’t leave them questioning their worth.And of course, no episode would be complete without a little pop culture detour. Emily and Verity share their latest thoughts on Bridgerton, from swoon-worthy moments to the relationship dynamics that (sometimes) mirror real life a little too well.To top it all off, Emily drops a little teaser—there’s a surprise coming in the next episode, so you’ll definitely want to stay tuned…Grab a cup of tea and join the conversation 💬

Grief, Ghost Stories, And Guilty Pleasure TV - Ep 23

This week, Emily and Verity sit down for a long overdue catch-up. Emily shares the sad news that her beloved cat Boris passed away at the incredible age of 19, prompting a heartfelt conversation about grief, the idea of the soul, and whether our pets or people might still be with us in ways we can’t explain. That emotional moment takes a spooky turn as the pair dive into the paranormal — including a strange experience they recently had in an escape room that left them questioning what was real and what definitely wasn’t part of the game. Naturally, the mood then swings back to the comfort of reality TV. Emily and Verity break down their thoughts on Love Island, The Real Housewives, Bridgerton, and The Traitors, and debate the ultimate question: would they make better Traitors or Faithfuls? As always, the chat goes deeper than expected, finishing with a thoughtful reflection on the current state of the world and why everything feels a little heavier right now. A mix of laughter, ghost stories, reality TV hot takes, and honest conversation — just like catching up with friends. 🎙️ ✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨