Girls with Opinions

Our Opinions About... Confrontation

In this episode of Girls With Opinions, we’re talking about something a lot of people avoid at all costs: confrontation. For many of us, confrontation feels negative, dramatic, or even wrong — something to be avoided to keep the peace. But what if confrontation isn’t the problem… it’s how we approach it? We unpack why confrontation gets such a bad reputation, how avoiding it can actually create more tension over time, and what it looks like to have healthy, respectful confrontation instead. We also talk about the mindset shift that changes everything: if you approach a conversation with honesty, clarity, and respect — and the other person still reacts poorly — that response says more about them than it does about you. This episode is about reframing confrontation as a tool for connection, clarity, and self-respect — not something to fear. 💬 In this episode: * Why confrontation feels so uncomfortable for so many people * The difference between healthy confrontation and conflict * What happens when you avoid difficult conversations * How to approach confrontation in a way that feels aligned * The role of boundaries, communication, and self-trust ✨ You’ll walk away with: * A new perspective on confrontation * Validation if you tend to avoid hard conversations * Confidence to speak up in a way that feels authentic * A reminder that you’re not responsible for how others respond 📲 Join the conversation: Erin: @ErinBurnsWellness Kristy: @KristyCastilloFit

Our Opinions About… Feeling Stuck Between Where You Are and Where You Want to Be

In this episode of Girls With Opinions, ERIN'S FEELING ANGSTY!!! And we’re talking about a feeling that’s hard to explain but incredibly common: being stuck in the space between where you are… and where you want to be. That tension of knowing you want more — more creativity, more alignment, more change — but not quite knowing how to get there yet. Or feeling like you can see the next version of your life, but you’re not fully in it. We also zoom out and talk about where this pressure even comes from. From being expected to choose a career path as teenagers, to following a “step-by-step” life plan that doesn’t leave much room for evolution, it’s no surprise so many people find themselves years later feeling unfulfilled or ready for something different. This episode is part reflection, part vent session, and part reminder that feeling in-between doesn’t mean you’re stuck — it often means you’re growing. 💬 In this episode: * What it actually feels like to be in an “in-between” phase * The frustration of wanting change but not knowing how to get there * Creative angst and feeling not quite ready yet * The pressure to have your life figured out early * Why so many people outgrow the path they originally chose ✨ You’ll walk away with: * Validation if you’ve been feeling restless or stuck * A new perspective on what this phase actually means * Permission to not have everything figured out * A reminder that growth often happens before clarity 📲 Join the conversation: Erin: @ErinBurnsWellness Kristy: @KristyCastilloFit

Our Opinions About... Anxiety Culture

In this episode of Girls With Opinions, we’re diving into something that feels very real right now: anxiety culture. Because let’s be honest… no shit everyone’s anxious. Look at the world we’re living in. Of course people are overwhelmed, overstimulated, and trying to keep up with everything around them. Anxiety makes sense. But we also get into the other side of it — how the way we talk about anxiety online can sometimes do more harm than good. From TikTok advice to self-diagnosing to over-identifying with labels, we unpack how quickly anxiety can shift from something we experience to something we start to define ourselves by. This conversation is about finding the balance between validating what you feel and not getting stuck in it. Because while anxiety is real and deserves to be taken seriously, it shouldn’t become the thing that limits you, labels you, or keeps you from moving forward. As always, we’re sharing our honest opinions, personal experiences, and a few thoughts that might challenge the way you’ve been thinking about anxiety lately. 💬 In this episode: * Why anxiety is so common right now (and makes total sense) * The impact of social media and “anxiety content” * Self-diagnosing and the rise of mental health labels * What it means to over-identify with anxiety * The difference between validating your experience and getting stuck in it ✨ You’ll walk away with: * A more balanced perspective on anxiety * Validation for what you’re feeling without being defined by it * Awareness around how social media shapes mental health narratives * A reminder that anxiety is something you experience — not who you are 📲 Join the conversation: Erin: @ErinBurnsWellness Kristy: @KristyCastilloFit

Our Opinions About… Literally Nothing (and Somehow Everything)

This week on Girls With Opinions, we’re doing something a little different… absolutely nothing structured. No agenda. No theme. Just us talking about whatever comes to mind — which somehow turned into a full episode. From random “icks” our husbands give us, to recent documentaries we’ve watched, to concert vibes, to (unfortunately) centipedes… we truly cover it all. This episode is chaotic, unfiltered, and feels like you’re sitting in on a conversation with us — the kind where you start in one place and end up somewhere completely unrelated. If you’re in the mood for something light, funny, and very real… this one’s for you. 💬 In this episode: * The random “icks” that make no sense but still matter * Recent documentaries we’ve been watching * Concert energy and experiences * A very unnecessary conversation about centipedes * And whatever else came out of our mouths ✨ You’ll walk away with: * A few laughs * Possibly a new ick * Maybe a documentary recommendation * And the reminder that not everything needs to be serious 📲 Come hang out with us on Instagram: * Erin: @ErinBurnsWellness * Kristy: @KristyCastilloFit

Our Opinions About... Confidence

In this episode of Girls With Opinions, we’re talking about something everyone wants but no one really agrees on: confidence. Is it something you have… or something you build? Is it mindset? Experience? Delusion? We have thoughts. We unpack what confidence actually looks like in real life (not just on social media), why so many people think they’re “missing” it, and how confidence is often less about feeling ready and more about being willing to show up anyway. We also talk about the difference between confidence and arrogance, how comparison and self-doubt get in the way, and why waiting to feel confident might be the very thing keeping you stuck. As always, this is a mix of honest opinions, personal experiences, and a few reality checks about what it really takes to build confidence over time. 💬 In this episode: * What confidence actually is (and what it’s not) * Why most people don’t feel confident — even if they look like they are * The connection between confidence and action * How comparison and overthinking impact confidence * Confidence vs. arrogance ✨ You’ll walk away with: * A more realistic understanding of confidence * Permission to show up before you feel ready * A reminder that confidence is built — not magically found * Encouragement to take action even when it feels uncomfortable 📲 Join the conversation on Instagram and tell us: what makes you feel confident? * Erin: @ErinBurnsWellness * Kristy: @KristyCastilloFit